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Husband records how many times his wife rejects his sexual requests over a 2 month period. Out of 27 requests, he was denied 24 times. They had sex only 3x in 2 months. The husband hands the wife a spreadsheet showing how infrequently they have sex.
The wife, having no regard for her husband's feelings whatsoever, feels he is at fault for creating a spreadsheet about it. She then thinks that people will support her side and she posts the spreadsheet on Reddit. http://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/
To her dismay, she discovers lots of people disagree with her attitude and treatment of her husband. The opposite reaction of what she was expecting.
My question here is why in the hell do various women just don't get it? Is it too much feminism, arrogance, entitlement, or selfishness? Is it because male sexuality and desire is seen as bad or "dirty"?
In the reverse, if a woman had her sexual requests denied so many times by her husband, many would file for divorce, be emotionally devastated, or start cheating. And it's not just the FREQUENCY of sex, but the TYPE of sex too. Many women can refuse to do anything kinky or sexually adventurous, then don't understand why sex has become boring or the husband cheating with another woman that does what he likes.
Clearly many women would not take the constant rejection of her affections by a man as appropriate. It's odd that many women expect guys to understand their feelings, but they are not showing any attempt to reciprocate or understand the feelings of men, even when the reverse situation should be obvious.
The wife, having no regard for her husband's feelings whatsoever, feels he is at fault for creating a spreadsheet about it. She then thinks that people will support her side and she posts the spreadsheet on Reddit. http://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/2b1f5a/my_husband_m26_sent_me_f26_an_immature/
To her dismay, she discovers lots of people disagree with her attitude and treatment of her husband. The opposite reaction of what she was expecting.
My question here is why in the hell do various women just don't get it? Is it too much feminism, arrogance, entitlement, or selfishness? Is it because male sexuality and desire is seen as bad or "dirty"?
In the reverse, if a woman had her sexual requests denied so many times by her husband, many would file for divorce, be emotionally devastated, or start cheating. And it's not just the FREQUENCY of sex, but the TYPE of sex too. Many women can refuse to do anything kinky or sexually adventurous, then don't understand why sex has become boring or the husband cheating with another woman that does what he likes.
Clearly many women would not take the constant rejection of her affections by a man as appropriate. It's odd that many women expect guys to understand their feelings, but they are not showing any attempt to reciprocate or understand the feelings of men, even when the reverse situation should be obvious.
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