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MFM first-contact a bust... advice please!

MarkLast

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So I replied to an ad (not here) for my first MFM.
I'm aiming for MFF actually, but I got the notion that MFM is "the price of the ticket".

I got a response a month later (not complaints about that). The M was doing the negotiating.
"Still keen?".
I replied "yes, let's talk."
nothing. I sent my pic (face).
"She's keen, when are you free?" along with nudie pics of her, (no face but nice bod)
I asked for a little more info about them & what was expected.
"looks like it's not going to work out, we need someone less apprehensive".

I understand no-one wants to deal with time-wasters, but I needed a little more interaction first.
Thoughts? Should I just have arranged a meet?
 
I understand no-one wants to deal with time-wasters, but I needed a little more interaction first.
Thoughts? Should I just have arranged a meet?
You may have dodged a bullet. Anyone that presses a meeting that quickly without some sort of 'get to know you' time could be trouble.
Probably true that some are just looking for a quick and dirty contact and meeting, but is that really ideal? No. Lots of risk there or at least the potential risk factor for something bad is really high.
 
So I replied to an ad (not here) for my first MFM.
I'm aiming for MFF actually, but I got the notion that MFM is "the price of the ticket".

I got a response a month later (not complaints about that). The M was doing the negotiating.
"Still keen?".
I replied "yes, let's talk."
nothing. I sent my pic (face).
"She's keen, when are you free?" along with nudie pics of her, (no face but nice bod)
I asked for a little more info about them & what was expected.
"looks like it's not going to work out, we need someone less apprehensive".

I understand no-one wants to deal with time-wasters, but I needed a little more interaction first.
Thoughts? Should I just have arranged a meet?

I wouldn't read too much into his response.

Maybe he was the time waster? Who knows.....maybe he didn't have a partner, or maybe his partner was not aware of his plan, or maybe he was just trying to get pics of you? Just another deadbeat on the internet.
 
I wouldn't read too much into his response.

Maybe he was the time waster? Who knows.....maybe he didn't have a partner, or maybe his partner was not aware of his plan, or maybe he was just trying to get pics of you? Just another deadbeat on the internet.

Thanks! You live & learn...
 
You may have dodged a bullet. Anyone that presses a meeting that quickly without some sort of 'get to know you' time could be trouble.
Probably true that some are just looking for a quick and dirty contact and meeting, but is that really ideal? No. Lots of risk there or at least the potential risk factor for something bad is really high.

It's not ideal as far as I am concerned! Thanks!