Recent content by designer08

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    Sex on n-th date

    @Alice I'm so sorry for the late reply, just saw this. Thank you for your feedback. I know everyone's time is limited so I deeply appreciated it :) Just to clarify, no it was never asked for, just graciously accepted.
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    Sex on n-th date

    I appreciate the reply so much! thank you :)
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    Sex on n-th date

    Alice, I'm curious about your opinion on Japanese women who want to get married? I ask because recently I went on many dates with someone who mentioned that, she would only be in a relationship with someone she could consider marriage material but the first step is to win her heart. Idiotically...
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    Paddy Initial Experience - 100% Eigo = No Go

    This is completely off topic, but actually I don't see it that way. I know it's case-by-case. The field I work in, a few career oriented women have videos out there, but it hasn't really affected their careers. One of them is a senior level manager in a large department store in Tokyo. I could...
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    Weird encounter but learnt something about myself

    You don't need to feel bad. I was in a non-paid relationship recently. Started the relationship at 85kgs. She was tall and beautiful. Taller than me. This went on for a year. First, 6 months, she was a starfish. I thought it was my weight and my dressing style. I lost 12kgs, went to the gym, ate...
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    Amateur men's estute experiences

    sorry to be honest, I didn't really understand the whole explanation here. Also, the girls who I've seen in my men's esthe dwellings are all office workers during the day and for little extra expenses, work in men's esthe, at night or during their time off. I'm sure I misunderstood your...
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    Amateur men's estute experiences

    I've been using several Japanese esthe shops over the 8 years I've been frequenting them in Tokyo. Usually pay around 25K~30K for the 120-minute option. Not sure which shop you went to, but most of the things that you mentioned (except for full) are usually included in my aforementioned price...
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    Facial hair

    In my opinion, you’d be better off clean shaven. Japanese women don’t particularly fancy the facial hair. It scratches and hurts and you are less likely to get any additional play outside of the standard menu, that includes something as simple as a kiss on the cheek with facial hair. I’ve been...
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    Osaka Area Matsushima Shinchi: A Great First Wish with cute, cute Rui

    This review style is EPIC! Absolutely made my shitty day. Thanks!
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    Suggetion regarding hookup with mature and adult women

    I’m also in my 30s and like older women. I’m fugly and matched with plenty of people through Bumble and other dating apps over the course of 2 years. I wrote in another thread, most of the people I matched and ended up in bed with, were sloppy seconds (people who had amazing experiences with...
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    Is this a trust-able provider?

    If I remember correctly, three years ago I tried Kaishun Massage (Erotic Massage 311). If I am correct, this is the same group, because the wording and pricing look almost similar to me. Not only was it a bait-and-switch operation but the therapist who showed up spent the duration upselling me...
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    What's the deal with Esthe

    It's just my opinion since i consistently use Japanese esthe shops, but almost everywhere I have been they make you sign the pledge. It doesn't mean anything. It's all just for show. Some esthe places I use in the Shibuya-ku area as a repeat customer, make me sign it every time. Also, I wrote...
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    Are APA hotels appropriate for deliheru/massage/etc.?

    I’ve stayed in most of the APA in the Tokyo area and the two in Ibaraki. I once had my relatives want to use the washroom and because the elevators are usually in front or right next to the reception, they can see who is going up and down - anyways, did not go well. I was initially asked the...
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    Going to Work On Myself Need Some Resource Advice

    totally agree with @requiemmorrow's question. @Shadowrunner, I'm brown. 165cm 80kgs, ugly as fuck. But if you have something interesting about yourself or your personality, no amount of clothes or working out is going to change that. Part of my job requires me to be in areas where I get to see a...
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    Where are you meeting loney/frustrated housewives

    :ROFLMAO: really? I'm caramel/brown too. I would bet you anything you look better than me. But most people tell me that "the last person we met was a foreigner and they were such a gentleman so I was looking for more foreigners." I'm pretty sure most people aren't meeting me for my looks, but...