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In your experience, just what does a Japanese woman mean when she says "ちょっとＭなので" ("chotto M na no de") ("I am a little bit M")? Specific details are appreciated, if available.
 
But what does that really mean to a Japanese woman, in your experience? When she says that, how serious is she? And what does she really like (as opposed to imagining that she might like).
 
Japanese guys typically like to take the lead and order their girls about in bed. She probably likes being spanked, told what a bad girl she is, and a bit of rough play like being fucked hard. You could also ask her in bed what sort of SM play she likes, like being blindfolded or her hands tied while she's fucked too. Enjoy!
 
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daytimefun said:
Japanese guys typically like to take the lead and order their girls about in bed. She probably likes being spanked, told what a bad girl she is, and a bit of rough play like being fucked hard. You could also ask her in bed what sort of SM play she likes, like being blindfolded or her hands tied while she's fucked too. Enjoy!
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This info can be very useful, thanks! By the way, just yesterday I was reading the profile of a deri heru girl and she mentioned that she likes gentle guys but they should also be "..少しSっぽい人". Am I correct to infer that this S here means "sadistic"?
 
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zecarioca said:
she likes gentle guys but they should also be "..少しSっぽい人". Am I correct to infer that this S here means "sadistic"?
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Yes, but as so many times here there is quite a lot with these S/M things lost in the translation. Most probably she only means she likes the guy to take the lead and/or she herself likes to be a bit passive and nothing else.
 
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MikeH said:
Yes, but as so many times here there is quite a lot with these S/M things lost in the translation. Most probably she only means she likes the guy to take the lead and/or she herself likes to be a bit passive and nothing else.
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This is true, M often means she is passive rather than she likes hardcore SM here.
 
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IronGiant said:
just what does a Japanese woman mean when she says "ちょっとＭなので" ("chotto M na no de") ("I am a little bit M")? Specific details are appreciated, if available.
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Means lead.

She MIGHT be into more spanking / dominance stuff, but not necessarily, as @User#8628 mentioned.

Interesting nuance though, the なので is like "so...." which (depending on context) could imply she's telling you how to act with regards to her.

"I'm M so....." (lead me to bed pls) lol
 
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My understanding too. It just means more or less passive. The profile page of many DH girls includes a M vs S self rating: say, typically, 80 or 90 % M. I think I still have to see somebody who claims to be more S than M. It has nothing to do with what is usually meant by S/M. My two cents...
 
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daytimefun said:
Japanese guys typically like to take the lead and order their girls about in bed. She probably likes being spanked, told what a bad girl she is, and a bit of rough play like being fucked hard. You could also ask her in bed what sort of SM play she likes, like being blindfolded or her hands tied while she's fucked too. Enjoy!
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That's sounds awesome and exactly what I want....
 
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Yeah, S & M in Japanese mean more 'aggressive/assertive' and 'passive'

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I think I still have to see somebody who claims to be more S than M.
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I saw a super-petite provider at a hotel health a while back that was S as advertised. One of the more self-assured Japanese women I've ever met. With my crappy Japanese I could kind of tell she was giving me crap for being attracted to 'loli' women - that's how I learned the Japanese word 童顔. I would have loved to see her again, but that org closed down shortly after that.
 
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IronGiant said:
In your experience, just what does a Japanese woman mean when she says "ちょっとＭなので" ("chotto M na no de") ("I am a little bit M")? Specific details are appreciated, if available.
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means she's passive and want to be treated in bed and not giving back so don't expect to get an enthusiastic BJ.
 
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means she's passive and want to be treated in bed and not giving back so don't expect to get an enthusiastic BJ.
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Damn, I did not know that after all these years. I would have guessed it meant she likes silk ropes or something. I thought M meant masochistic, not selfish. :happy:
 
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