Ok, as no one has asked, I need a language lesson
I'm new to this John thing and have no idea how to ask for full service from a massage provider. Regular girls never really need asking. So, what do you say? Romanji if possible as my Japanese is shocking.
A caveat or two:
1) I'm not actually sure that you have to ask at Himawari. I still don't know exactly what happened, other than a miscommunication, specifically she probably assumed that I understood more Japanese than I really do. Not that I've been to a ton of massage parlors, and this was the first one I'd been to in Japan, but my disappointing experience at Himawari was the first time in my hobbying career that I've gone into a place where I thought FS was on the menu and didn't get it through no fault of my own.
As I think I said in a previous post, most massage parlors and other 'service providers' I've gone to, you purposely
don't have to ask for the 'extras'- you make your interest known by maybe touching the girl's thigh or something, and the fun just magically begins. Once the fun begins,
then it's perfectly fine to ask nicely for something specific, ie "Is doggie style okay?", etc.
It should go without saying, but I'll repeat it anyway in my usual long-winded way, that asking a woman for sexual services is a pretty sensitive topic for everyone involved, and should only be done out of view/earshot of her coworkers, boss, other customers, etc. If she refuses, or you don't understand her and the services you want don't happen, don't keep asking for them,
don't force it, and don't throw a fit in front of her boss, coworkers, other customers, etc. If they piss you off, write a scathing review and never visit them again. My not getting FS at Himawari has certainly kept me from going back again.
2) In term of a 'language lesson', I've found out the hard way in my relatively short time in Japan that knowing a script of what to say or what question to ask is often totally worthless if you can't understand their response. Because very often the answer to a yes or no question isn't yes or no.
If you are reading the below and don't know how to pronounce a particular Romaji word, I'd suggest reading a book on Japanese or taking a class. You'll get much more out of Japan understanding Hiragana/Katakana anyway.
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All that being said, asking permission (not just during sexy time) is really easy in Japanese. It's just:
<something> mou ii (desu ka)
<何> もういい(ですか)
where
a) <something> is replaced by a noun, prepositional phrase, or verb phrase.
and
b) 'desu ka' is optional depending on the situation. If you leave it off, make sure to say the 'moh ii' with a question tone, otherwise you aren't saying "will you give me a blow job", you are just stating for a fact that "blow jobs are also good".
If you are talking to a taxi driver or some other 'official transaction', add 'desu ka'. If you are naked in bed with a girl, you can probably leave it off as I've done in the examples below.
Examples:
- fera mou ii = will you give me a blow job? ("fera" being JP for fellatio)
- namete mou ii (while kissing her stomach and thighs) = can I eat your pussy now? ("namete" being the conjugated verb for 舐める nameru "to lick")
- bakku de mou ii = can we do it doggie style?
This is pretty simplified, and there's probably better ways of saying it in some cases, but I've found 'moh ii' to be very handy while in Japan.