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I know this question has been asked but i believe my situation is a bit different.

So I am having my first time ever (not just p4p) and am actually really nervous about what would happen if i cum within 1 minute after beginning the session, also I'm just 20 years old so I don't think getting my friend up should be a problem.
What do you guys think?
 
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It shouldn't be really a problem at your age. Just make sure you have 30 minutes before your session at least.
 
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Go somewhere which allows multiple pops and fire away. Who cares if the first one takes less than a minute?
 
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MikeH said:
Go somewhere which allows multiple pops and fire away. Who cares if the first one takes less than a minute?
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I actually booked 2 hours so i believe up to 5pops are allowed.
Thanks for the answers
 
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Insomnia said:
I know this question has been asked but i believe my situation is a bit different.

So I am having my first time ever (not just p4p) and am actually really nervous about what would happen if i cum within 1 minute after beginning the session, also I'm just 20 years old so I don't think getting my friend up should be a problem.
What do you guys think?
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if you're allowed multiple pops in the session don't fap before. even if your first pop is too early there will be others. you're still young, don't think too much and don't worry. sex isn't a big deal.
 
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If it was me, ouch, I'd need to do so three days before the meeting:eek:

Seriously, though...

Go to YouTube and search "sex lasting long."

You'll find bunches of videos like this one:

 
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As a fellow 20 year old when i did my first p4p it took me 70 minutes to pop once and I hadn't been laid in 6 years. It could have been the anxiety could have been all the fapping until now was just stamina training for me I don't know. What i do know is that i hate that i only popped once in a 90 minute session.
Some advice, don't be a dead fish making her do all the work.
 
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Fluvveh said:
As a fellow 20 year old when i did my first p4p it took me 70 minutes to pop once and I hadn't been laid in 6 years. It could have been the anxiety could have been all the fapping until now was just stamina training for me I don't know. What i do know is that i hate that i only popped once in a 90 minute session.
Some advice, don't be a dead fish making her do all the work.
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I agree, guys who are used to only masturbate can have trouble getting off with women, so it may be better not to masturbate at all before.
 
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User#8628 said:
I agree, guys who are used to only masturbate can have trouble getting off with women, so it may be better not to masturbate at all before.
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Like for months before, as a primary release.

Here's an excerpt article from a 2014 Women's Health magazine:

A new study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine just revealed that men who have unusual masturbation habits—defined as techniques that cannot be easily recreated by a partner's hand, mouth or vagina—may experience a variety of sexual problems....

"Doctors and sex therapists assigned to these cases prescribed a period of abstinence from masturbation, followed by "masturbatory retraining" (a sexual intervention which included replacing old masturbation rituals with practices that simulate intercourse) and time spent focusing on sensations of pleasure during sex with their partners. After months of work, all the men reported an increase in satisfaction from partnered sex, and a decrease, if not total eradication, of their previous sexual dysfunction."
http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/his-masturbation-habits
 
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roots reggae said:
—defined as techniques that cannot be easily recreated by a partner's hand, mouth or vagina—may experience a variety of sexual problems....
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I gotta know...are these dudes using sandpaper? power tools? I am, obviously, missing something here as I can't think of a way to get myself off that can't be recreated by those things...
 
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whocares said:
I gotta know...are these dudes using sandpaper? power tools? I am, obviously, missing something here as I can't think of a way to get myself off that can't be recreated by those things...
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Once again, I defer to TAG's more experienced members to answer your question.
Such as:
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roots reggae said:
.... replacing old masturbation rituals with practices that simulate intercourse) .....
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whocares said:
I gotta know...are these dudes using sandpaper? power tools? I am, obviously, missing something here as I can't think of a way to get myself off that can't be recreated by those things...
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https://www.tenga.co.jp/
Behold! Masturbation got a lot more real! Competition for The Hand!
I've always wondered what these stuff were when I visited the Lammtara shops. Then realized they were masturbation aids. Only the Japanese could think of inventing something like this! :LOL:
 
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