Solong
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Zaphod is misrepresenting my position and advice. I wouldn't respond, but he is directly addressing and attacking me. I'm trying to stay away from this thread, so please do stop pulling me in with attacks.
And some of my responses were to direct questions being asked to me. I was showing how free dates could be arranged weeks and months in advance. I was also making the argument of how to keep prices low/pay less.
You can meet for a CONVERSATION. On the pen-pal, classified ads, date site, or any free site. Your ad can be completely "normal" OR suggestive. This is up to you.
The KEY is to MEET the woman and talk to her. It is when you talk to her, that you can truly find out what she is about. The more experience you gain, the easier it is to figure the e-mails, websites, and women out.
50% or so of the Japanese women will be open for a sexual encounter. Japanese have "honne and tatemae". Many Japanese women, not just guys, use pen-pal and language exchange to find boyfriends or sex-friends. Deception can be coming from the women looking for NSA sex, not necessarily the guy.
Sex can also come about kind of naturally. Where you have high levels of compatibility and the chemistry become obvious the 1st meeting or after the 2nd meeting.
And you CAN just tutor her in English OR learn Japanese from her. You can do language, friendship, or sex. It's up to the people involved.
This will be clear by what SHE says and how she acts, when you meet her. It also depends on the skill level of the guy in understanding Japanese women and body language.
I also listed other sites like POF, OKCupid, JapanCupid, Craigslist, Metropolis Classified, Letsdating.jp, Happymail... None of those sites have anything to do with pen-pals. Those are DATE sites.
On those sites, my suggestion is to exchange personal e-mail/LINE/phone and then MEET the woman. In the conversation you have with her, you can decide if you go the free OR paid route. Sometimes it can be obvious before you meet, but actually talking directly is often better.
Sugar babies and amateurs wanting paid compensation lurk on all the free sites, pen-pal, or otherwise. I simply mentioned this, as this expands your list of potential sites.
If a guy doesn't want to gamble on free and doesn't have a tolerance for female games, then paying can be better. I simply made a suggestion on what's possible.
I'm also in agreement that if you go the paid route that it can be better (still a depends type of thing) to cut out any middle men and negotiate with the women directly.
And some of my responses were to direct questions being asked to me. I was showing how free dates could be arranged weeks and months in advance. I was also making the argument of how to keep prices low/pay less.
You can meet for a CONVERSATION. On the pen-pal, classified ads, date site, or any free site. Your ad can be completely "normal" OR suggestive. This is up to you.
The KEY is to MEET the woman and talk to her. It is when you talk to her, that you can truly find out what she is about. The more experience you gain, the easier it is to figure the e-mails, websites, and women out.
50% or so of the Japanese women will be open for a sexual encounter. Japanese have "honne and tatemae". Many Japanese women, not just guys, use pen-pal and language exchange to find boyfriends or sex-friends. Deception can be coming from the women looking for NSA sex, not necessarily the guy.
Sex can also come about kind of naturally. Where you have high levels of compatibility and the chemistry become obvious the 1st meeting or after the 2nd meeting.
And you CAN just tutor her in English OR learn Japanese from her. You can do language, friendship, or sex. It's up to the people involved.
This will be clear by what SHE says and how she acts, when you meet her. It also depends on the skill level of the guy in understanding Japanese women and body language.
I also listed other sites like POF, OKCupid, JapanCupid, Craigslist, Metropolis Classified, Letsdating.jp, Happymail... None of those sites have anything to do with pen-pals. Those are DATE sites.
On those sites, my suggestion is to exchange personal e-mail/LINE/phone and then MEET the woman. In the conversation you have with her, you can decide if you go the free OR paid route. Sometimes it can be obvious before you meet, but actually talking directly is often better.
Sugar babies and amateurs wanting paid compensation lurk on all the free sites, pen-pal, or otherwise. I simply mentioned this, as this expands your list of potential sites.
If a guy doesn't want to gamble on free and doesn't have a tolerance for female games, then paying can be better. I simply made a suggestion on what's possible.
I'm also in agreement that if you go the paid route that it can be better (still a depends type of thing) to cut out any middle men and negotiate with the women directly.
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