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How to keep trance mode / magic over several dates?

You already look like a stalker to her by showing up at her work.

Waiting a month and then not mailing her sounds like a solid plan for me. If she wants to contact you I am sure she will.
 
60k does not last long in Japan.
So let her know there's plenty more where it came from. She might come crawling back for some more easy money.
....when this happens, feel free to ask the advice of your fellow TAGers...or not :D
 
60k does not last long in Japan.
So let her know there's plenty more where it came from. She might come crawling back for some more easy money.
....when this happens, feel free to ask the advice of your fellow TAGers...or not :D

Talking her with her about her friends "PAPAS" it sounds like 60,000 yen is beyond easy for young girls to get their hands on if they are willing to take some risks.
 
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LOL actually it’s surprisingly common to run across Japanese girls who are 26+ and still virgins.

I run into Japanese women like this all the time. One said she was 34 when she finally lost her virginity (she’s 38 now). Not the best sex I’ve ever had but has a pretty cute face and OMG what a body! She said Japanese guys never showed interest. Then she met a foreigner ....
 
Sent her a 30,000 yen amazon gift card just because I wanted to see what would happen..... she rejected it.

Stealing money was not her motive



Being seen together, having a papa that goes a bit too far etc etc... this girl told me she didn't have interest in a papa, I think the real reason she cut me off was because my when can we next meet messages got annoyoing for someone not really needing money.
 
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Sent her a 30,000 yen amazon gift card just because I wanted to see what would happen..... she rejected it.
Stealing money was not her motive
Being seen together, having a papa that goes a bit too far etc etc... this girl told me she didn't have interest in a papa, I think the real reason she cut me off was because my when can we next meet messages got annoyoing for someone not really needing money.

You seem like a nice guy.

I'm by no means an expert in these matters, who is?

Still, one lesson I have learned from you...

Be careful mixing romance and P4P. After awhile, you may confuse which is which.

Our dear moderator is one of the rare exceptions.
 
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Sent her a 30,000 yen amazon gift card just because I wanted to see what would happen.....

Someone here is seriously in love...

she rejected it.

When someone else is definitely not...

The harsh reality is it's over dude. You should get over it too. As said before anything you do will just get you deeper in the hole.
 
Someone needs to create a gofundme campaign to have you spend some time with @Sinapse so you can learn whatever you keep doing sounds horribly wrong.
For me being on this is to offer back some advice for guys who don't want to be scammed. You may also just need a real life guy friend to just have a beer with & talk over these details & shed light on it.
 
Someone needs to create a gofundme campaign to have you spend some time with @Sinapse so you can learn whatever you keep doing sounds horribly wrong.
For me being on this is to offer back some advice for guys who don't want to be scammed. You may also just need a real life guy friend to just have a beer with & talk over these details & shed light on it.

Dont be so harsh, after all maybe he was not scammed, just tumbled upon an independent worker who was only trying various business models :)
 
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Our dear moderator is one of the rare exceptions.
Me? I just don’t get into the P4P part of it, keeps it clear... anyone I go on a date with or have a relationship with, is pretty normal.
The extra twist is if she works in the industry. In that case, I’m just more careful with personal details until a deeper trust is established. (And not from TAG.... obviously!)
 
@Frenchy if it was not like the 4th or 5th time getting scammed by young ladies I would agree. Someone running off with your money after you pay them & blocking you on Line is something I would love to stop happening to dude.
 
I take back previous message appears she did take the 30000 yen gift card, no reply... deciding on next move may just try sending 5000 yen gift card every week with the message if you would like more plesase reply, will pay 10 times this amount.
 
I take back previous message appears she did take the 30000 yen gift card, no reply... deciding on next move may just try sending 5000 yen gift card every week with the message if you would like more plesase reply, will pay 10 times this amount.
Ehm, personally i would totally bite but my guess is that most young Japanese girls would take the free weekly money and stay away from your before mentioned "risks".

I do like how you are really into the girl herself and don't think that girls are interchangeable for the same amound of money (or nampa guys who nampa every second girl that walks by for that matter) but sadly a few girls have to abuse that.
 
I take back previous message appears she did take the 30000 yen gift card, no reply... deciding on next move may just try sending 5000 yen gift card every week with the message if you would like more plesase reply, will pay 10 times this amount.
Are you mental?!!!!:confused:
 
@Frenchy if it was not like the 4th or 5th time getting scammed by young ladies I would agree. Someone running off with your money after you pay them & blocking you on Line is something I would love to stop happening to dude.
Totally agreed. I proposed my kindhearted help to solve the problem amicably with that young lady, but it seems hopeless now.
 
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deciding on next move may just try sending 5000 yen gift card every week

Dude, seriously, please seek professional help. You are way beyond anything we here in TAG can do.

That is just absolutely crazy with a creepy stalker kind of way. You think that kind of feeling is making her to come back? You are very dangerously in a slope that will lead you to be a headline in a newspapers soon.
 
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Please move this to the sugar section... It's quite far removed from normal behavior among nanpa shi (paying for attention/time) and not really related
 
Please move this to the sugar section... It's quite far removed from normal behavior among nanpa shi (paying for attention/time) and not really related

Are you implying this is normal behaviour in sugaring circles? :confused:

If yes then I will better remember never to get there.
 
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Are you implying this is normal behaviour in sugaring circles? :confused:

If yes then I will better remember never to get there.
Maybe this is that "findom" that people were talking about a while back. Guys who like to send money to someone and receive nothing in return.
 
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Maybe this is that "findom" that people were talking about a while back. Guys who like to send money to someone and receive nothing in return.

Yeah, a really weird kink I tried a while ago but found rather unsatisfying
 
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Are you implying this is normal behaviour in sugaring circles? :confused:

If yes then I will better remember never to get there.

Well he is trying to use money to get back into her life and relationship, which was based on money in the past as well.

If he was lurking outside her shop trying to talk with her and there had been no money involved before either, it would at least be technically under this forum, though not really typical behavior either.

Ultimately it just sounds really thirsty lol

But still under the domain of sugar dating
 
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