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This was super random. I ended up in this site looking for gyms. But there was another section, going through this just made me laugh, literally loud enough to make my neighbor wake up from coma.
Link: http://classifieds.metropolis.co.jp/category/personals/women-looking-for-men/

I am not quite sure, what's the East Asian girls obsession with Native English Speakers, Caucasians, Americans??? Seems like even if the person is an asshole, they are ready to marry him. Not sure when Nationality became the main role for relationship/marriage?
Are all East Asian gold diggers or living in a fantasy bubble world (not being racist but my personal experiences and ads on this site and Locanto speaks for themselves)?
 
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Ok, so this is just my opinion and I also don't mean to come off as racist.

I feel that Japanese people have this generalization of white people as being an especially good match due to Europe, The US, Canada, Australia being first world countries that are safer than say Africa, Latin America the Middle East. Japanese people really pkace value on safety and danger doesn't attract most of them.

They also generalize Englishmen as being gentlemen, French and Italians as being romantic, etc.

Maybe because English and European languages sound so different from Japanese it comes off as interesting. Then you notice that all Japanese have either black or brown hair and brown eyes , so seeing men with blonde hair and blue or green eyes must be really interesting to them as no Japanese people look like this.

Of course there are Japanese people attracted to say middle easterners, blacks and latinos.

Some are gold diggers, but all women are stability diggers.

There are probably a lot of other reasons as well, but these popped into my mind first.
 
Ok, so this is just my opinion and I also don't mean to come off as racist.

I feel that Japanese people have this generalization of white people as being an especially good match due to Europe, The US, Canada, Australia being first world countries that are safer than say Africa, Latin America the Middle East. Japanese people really pkace value on safety and danger doesn't attract most of them.

They also generalize Englishmen as being gentlemen, French and Italians as being romantic, etc.

Maybe because English and European languages sound so different from Japanese it comes off as interesting. Then you notice that all Japanese have either black or brown hair and brown eyes , so seeing men with blonde hair and blue or green eyes must be really interesting to them as no Japanese people look like this.

Of course there are Japanese people attracted to say middle easterners, blacks and latinos.

Some are gold diggers, but all women are stability diggers.

There are probably a lot of other reasons as well, but these popped into my mind first.

Thanks! Makes some sense... I usually hear Shootings in schools and universities from America; racism & bomb blasts, riots from France; Thefts & Riots from Italy. Their media seems to be biased. They don't seem to show everything.
 
Gentlemen, you must be freaking idiots to think so deep into a statement like that! Have the time I wonder how one might not see the obvious, children in Japan that are matched with Caucasian allele types blend in better for those that don’t want their offspring too far from the norm. Lots of women think in such ways. While some do think about money, plenty think about the looks of their children from enhancing looks to just blending in like I mentioned earlier. With that said, and while their are Asians married to middle Easterners, most don’t want to serve Allah and wear burkas and other head scarfs on their head. There are plenty more that reject white men and foreign men in general. I don’t get where you come from. Most Middle Easterners I know can pull a blonde that looks like a Playboy Playmate with little effort and be fat and look like a pig. You must be a low class idiot with Arabcentric and anti-American views that cloud your judgement. I bet your problem is Japanese language or lack of it. If nampa doesn’t work for you, stick to Mr. Hand until you can afford a ticket to move to Thailand or the Philippines. Surely in a loose country like Thailand, you can score a homeless type. In the Philippines it’s easy to get a woman there too. When you possess a quiet hatred or a lack of respect for another group, then it’s time to move on! I hope you go to Thailand and bareback as many Thai street chics as possible.
 
Gentlemen, you must be freaking idiots to think so deep into a statement like that! Have the time I wonder how one might not see the obvious, children in Japan that are matched with Caucasian allele types blend in better for those that don’t want their offspring too far from the norm. Lots of women think in such ways. While some do think about money, plenty think about the looks of their children from enhancing looks to just blending in like I mentioned earlier. With that said, and while their are Asians married to middle Easterners, most don’t want to serve Allah and wear burkas and other head scarfs on their head. There are plenty more that reject white men and foreign men in general. I don’t get where you come from. Most Middle Easterners I know can pull a blonde that looks like a Playboy Playmate with little effort and be fat and look like a pig. You must be a low class idiot with Arabcentric and anti-American views that cloud your judgement. I bet your problem is Japanese language or lack of it. If nampa doesn’t work for you, stick to Mr. Hand until you can afford a ticket to move to Thailand or the Philippines. Surely in a loose country like Thailand, you can score a homeless type. In the Philippines it’s easy to get a woman there too. When you possess a quiet hatred or a lack of respect for another group, then it’s time to move on! I hope you go to Thailand and bareback as many Thai street chics as possible.

Some good points but I don't see your need for name calling...by the way...why don't you use paragraphs?
 
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I never use paragraphs. It just seems idiotic to stereotype and whine and bitch about Japanese females being prejudiced. Not every female in East Asia is interested in banging every swinging horny dick they see. To equate that to being oriented toward Caucasians is absurd.
 
The % of jp girls that are into foreigners are actually very small. You searched in English, what sort of results do you expect? You should try searching in Korean/Chinese too, im sure you will find some Korean/Chinese hunting JP girls as well.
 
I never use paragraphs. It just seems idiotic to stereotype and whine and bitch about Japanese females being prejudiced. Not every female in East Asia is interested in banging every swinging horny dick they see. To equate that to being oriented toward Caucasians is absurd.

Maybe you mean the OP was whining? I'm not whining at all and stereotypes and generalizations exist for a reason.

I just don't see why you can't post a message that is more positive and not so hateful.
 
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I never use paragraphs. It just seems idiotic to stereotype and whine and bitch about Japanese females being prejudiced. Not every female in East Asia is interested in banging every swinging horny dick they see. To equate that to being oriented toward Caucasians is absurd.

It's not stereotyping. It's just most of the womens' preference here in East Asia. Very few interracial marriages happen in the gulf, you can just count the numbers. There's nothing wrong in accepting the bitter truth.
If you feel you are correct, then, there would have been a song named "DA PUMP / Asia" instead of "DA PUMP / USA"!
 
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I never use paragraphs. It just seems idiotic to stereotype and whine and bitch about Japanese females being prejudiced. Not every female in East Asia is interested in banging every swinging horny dick they see. To equate that to being oriented toward Caucasians is absurd.

I never claimed every East Asian woman wants to bang a Caucasian guy. That fact you think I said that is also absurd.

P.S. You claim the OP is "hateful" and yet you started your post out by name calling...lol.
 
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Ok, so this is just my opinion and I also don't mean to come off as racist.

I feel that Japanese people have this generalization of white people as being an especially good match due to Europe, The US, Canada, Australia being first world countries that are safer than say Africa, Latin America the Middle East. Japanese people really pkace value on safety and danger doesn't attract most of them.

They also generalize Englishmen as being gentlemen, French and Italians as being romantic, etc.

Maybe because English and European languages sound so different from Japanese it comes off as interesting. Then you notice that all Japanese have either black or brown hair and brown eyes , so seeing men with blonde hair and blue or green eyes must be really interesting to them as no Japanese people look like this.

Of course there are Japanese people attracted to say middle easterners, blacks and latinos.

Some are gold diggers, but all women are stability diggers.

There are probably a lot of other reasons as well, but these popped into my mind first.

The only points I could agree with! In addition to this, I came across many Japanese who want to study English (probably they meant to say they desired to speak). This might also be the reason.
 
Gentlemen, you must be freaking idiots to think so deep into a statement like that! Have the time I wonder how one might not see the obvious, children in Japan that are matched with Caucasian allele types blend in better for those that don’t want their offspring too far from the norm. Lots of women think in such ways. While some do think about money, plenty think about the looks of their children from enhancing looks to just blending in like I mentioned earlier. With that said, and while their are Asians married to middle Easterners, most don’t want to serve Allah and wear burkas and other head scarfs on their head. There are plenty more that reject white men and foreign men in general. I don’t get where you come from. Most Middle Easterners I know can pull a blonde that looks like a Playboy Playmate with little effort and be fat and look like a pig. You must be a low class idiot with Arabcentric and anti-American views that cloud your judgement. I bet your problem is Japanese language or lack of it. If nampa doesn’t work for you, stick to Mr. Hand until you can afford a ticket to move to Thailand or the Philippines. Surely in a loose country like Thailand, you can score a homeless type. In the Philippines it’s easy to get a woman there too. When you possess a quiet hatred or a lack of respect for another group, then it’s time to move on! I hope you go to Thailand and bareback as many Thai street chics as possible.

There are blonde haired, blue eyed Middle Easterners living in Turkey, Cyprus, Israel, Lebanon and Palestine. Middle East is a big melting pot and the blonde Caucasian phenotype is rare but still pretty much existing. A half Japanese baby with the above nationalities doesn’t look very different from a half white baby. Yes these eyes have seen half Japanese half “middle eastern” babies, who were unrecognizable from their half white counterparts.

Middle easterners can be light, light medium, olive or brown skinned. Brown skinned people are more common in the gulf area.

They may not always worship Allah. There are Christians, Jewish, yazidis, Zoroastrians in the area on top of muslims. Again, exchange of cultural layers. Some countries strictly follow the rules of Islam, some countries are more moderate and secular and you can walk around in casual clothes. People may be born into Muslim families, but if a country is secular they may not be an observing Muslim.

- Information from someone who has actually been to Middle East

There are certainly dumb gaijin hunter types who are Francophile, or think British men are the epitome of gentlemanly behavior (lol) but there are more intelligent, educated, open minded Japanese people who know better than that.
 
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It really depends on many things, actually.

I'll give you a good example: myself. I'm of Southeast Asian descent but I'm fairly light skinned and I'm clean-shaven. I get mistaken for being Middle Eastern, Latino, white (Greek/Italian) all the time in Japan because I don't have brown skin and/or a mustache and I've done incredibly well with girls in Japan. I remember my first night out of in Japan I met a girl and picked her up immediately. It really surprised me because I was always told by other white people back in North America that "They'll treat you so badly in Japan for being brown". Never happened.

As I always say a lot of it has to do with how you present yourself. I have friends and coworkers here who are Egyptian, Iranian, etc. They have girlfriends. But they all look pretty well-groomed. None of them have big black beards, dress in ethnic attire and they aren't particularly religious either. I think it can be much harder for people of African descent or even other East Asians because it's quite clear what their background is at first glance so if the girl has a gaijin fetish (which doesn't include blacks) then you're shit out of luck. But even with that.. I remember reading before that Filipino-Japanese marriages are extremely common and I've met a number of Japanese ladies who have Filipino husbands as well.

It's probably just going to be easier if you're white because of the reasons that were explained above by other posters. Present yourself well, be confident and well-mannered and you'll do fine.
 
This was super random. I ended up in this site looking for gyms. But there was another section, going through this just made me laugh, literally loud enough to make my neighbor wake up from coma.
Link: http://classifieds.metropolis.co.jp/category/personals/women-looking-for-men/

I am not quite sure, what's the East Asian girls obsession with Native English Speakers, Caucasians, Americans??? Seems like even if the person is an asshole, they are ready to marry him. Not sure when Nationality became the main role for relationship/marriage?
Are all East Asian gold diggers or living in a fantasy bubble world (not being racist but my personal experiences and ads on this site and Locanto speaks for themselves)?
do expect japanese girls to go to an english site to ask for a non english speaker ?
 
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There are blonde haired, blue eyed Middle Easterners living in Turkey, Cyprus, Israel, Lebanon and Palestine. Middle East is a big melting pot and the blonde Caucasian phenotype is rare but still pretty much existing. A half Japanese baby with the above nationalities doesn’t look very different from a half white baby. Yes these eyes have seen half Japanese half “middle eastern” babies, who were unrecognizable from their half white counterparts.

Middle easterners can be light, light medium, olive or brown skinned. Brown skinned people are more common in the gulf area.

They may not always worship Allah. There are Christians, Jewish, yazidis, Zoroastrians in the area on top of muslims. Again, exchange of cultural layers. Some countries strictly follow the rules of Islam, some countries are more moderate and secular and you can walk around in casual clothes. People may be born into Muslim families, but if a country is secular they may not be an observing Muslim.

- Information from someone who has actually been to Middle East

There are certainly dumb gaijin hunter types who are Francophile, or think British men are the epitome of gentlemanly behavior (lol) but there are more intelligent, educated, open minded Japanese people who know better than that.
That may all very well be true Simonka babe. It is a diverse and complex part of the world. But one thing that all Middle Eastern cultures have in common is that they all hate each other. Good thing the good ol USA created Israël to use as a base for keeping everything so peaceful there for all these years. Otherwise there might have been some trouble.
 
That may all very well be true Simonka, but one thing that all Middle Easterner cultures have in common is that they all hate each other. Good thing the good ol USA created Israël to use as a base for keeping everything so peaceful there for all these years. Otherwise there might have been some trouble.

That may all very well be true Simonka babe. It is a diverse and complex part of the world. But one thing that all Middle Eastern cultures have in common is that they all hate each other. Good thing the good ol USA created Israël to use as a base for keeping everything so peaceful there for all these years. Otherwise there might have been some trouble.
Is there an echo in here?
 
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do expect japanese girls to go to an english site to ask for a non english speaker ?

Then do you expect a Japanese to post in Arabic or someother language? There was post saying she needs a Muslim husband though but in 40s. Lol I am half that age group.
 
My opinion is that everyone should marry someone of the same color, religion, language, economic status, educational level, age group and political party. That way you can understand each other perfectly and still be completely miserable.
 
It really depends on many things, actually.

I'll give you a good example: myself. I'm of Southeast Asian descent but I'm fairly light skinned and I'm clean-shaven. I get mistaken for being Middle Eastern, Latino, white (Greek/Italian) all the time in Japan because I don't have brown skin and/or a mustache and I've done incredibly well with girls in Japan. I remember my first night out of in Japan I met a girl and picked her up immediately. It really surprised me because I was always told by other white people back in North America that "They'll treat you so badly in Japan for being brown". Never happened.

As I always say a lot of it has to do with how you present yourself. I have friends and coworkers here who are Egyptian, Iranian, etc. They have girlfriends. But they all look pretty well-groomed. None of them have big black beards, dress in ethnic attire and they aren't particularly religious either. I think it can be much harder for people of African descent or even other East Asians because it's quite clear what their background is at first glance so if the girl has a gaijin fetish (which doesn't include blacks) then you're shit out of luck. But even with that.. I remember reading before that Filipino-Japanese marriages are extremely common and I've met a number of Japanese ladies who have Filipino husbands as well.

It's probably just going to be easier if you're white because of the reasons that were explained above by other posters. Present yourself well, be confident and well-mannered and you'll do fine.

Hmm... Guess I met the wrong set of women. All the women were in late 30s or 40s ( I am in early 20s). Probably should go looking for younger ones. But for some reason I like these older ones than the young (probably most of the young look the same with heavy plastic surgery and makeups)...
 
Then do you expect a Japanese to post in Arabic or someother language? There was post saying she needs a Muslim husband though but in 40s. Lol I am half that age group.
No we do not. All Japanese people think that if you are not Japanese, then you speak English. This includes speaking animals in commercials. They always speak English. And only nut jobs and wackos marry Muslims unless they are Muslims themselves. If you marry a Muslim you have to convert to Islam. For starters, that means no more BLT sandwiches.