Sirenity
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Rose gold and diamond sound perfect! More important, it’s meaningful because you put thought into it. I’m sure that she’ll love it!Actually pink gold with a little diamond.
Rose gold and diamond sound perfect! More important, it’s meaningful because you put thought into it. I’m sure that she’ll love it!Actually pink gold with a little diamond.
Or fly a Japanese SB to your country
In any case, don’t feel sad too long and get back on the saddle quickly (SA is not necessarily the best way... so many time-wasters). Bon courage!
Thanks! Want to treat her well, she deserves it , but don’t want to feel like an idiot later on either.Rose gold and diamond sound perfect! More important, it’s meaningful because you put thought into it. I’m sure that she’ll love it!
Thanks! Want to treat her well, she deserves it , but don’t want to feel like an idiot later on either.
Thanks! Want to treat her well, she deserves it , but don’t want to feel like an idiot later on either.
Me, too. But it doesn’t really work that way when we’re out there. We just have to live, learn and push forward.
You know when you get old in life things get taken from you.
That's, that's part of life.
But you only learn that when you start losing stuff.
You find out that life is just a game of inches.
— from ANY GIVEN SUNDAY
There are two ways to feel like an idiot. The most common one is you screwed up something. Im ok with this, happened many times. You just try to learn and move on.We all don't want to feel like an idiot @Frenchy .... But somehow I've never found the cure for that. ..So I still keep searching and sadly , keep feeling like an idiot.. .Aka ID10T for those that are more .Hmmmm coding types
The other one is... you were the good guy, tried your best to play by the rules, be kind, generous, patient etc... and then you find out you got very little out of this , or even got played badly. Thats the hardest one to cope with.
I agree that those can be the ones that hurt most but they should not be the hardest to cope. Because you were doing everything right and was taken for a ride. The shame is then on the other person, not you.
And if you start counting things because of that then you lose your good guy inside. And that would be a shame.
The other ‘better left unsaid’ history of the EU is that Europeans hate pretty much everyone and everything including citizens of every other European country except the one they are from. The thing is that they hate Americans, Japanese and Chinese just a little bit more. And they realized that if they didn’t form an alliance, they would get overrun by these better unified, larger and more successful economies. So my dear Franswaz, EU geopolitics can explained thoroughly and definitively on the basis of different degrees of hatred. It’s depressing, but don’t worry. The Buta’s Love is all powerful and someday all peoples will live in love and harmony when all countries of the world unite into one: Butastan.Well that first target is already achieved , according to IMF at least...
It’s funny (and probably annoying for some) how we are often depicted as the ones who are lazy, dysfunctional, degenerate socialists, flooded with immigration and unrest etc... well a lot is true. But still here in the top 10. And Still making cars and planes , not just Louis Vuitton and foie gras.
Its not entirely true. There are many French I hate as well. Also half of Belgium hates the other half. And in the UK, look at the Scots vs English for example.The other ‘better left unsaid’ history of the EU is that Europeans hate pretty much everyone and everything including citizens of every other European country except the one they are from. The thing is that they hate Americans, Japanese and Chinese just a little bit more. And they realized that if they didn’t form an alliance, they would get overrun by these better unified, larger and more successful economies. So my dear Franswaz, EU geopolitics can explained thoroughly and definitively on the basis of different degrees of hatred. It’s depressing, but don’t worry. The Buta’s Love is all powerful and someday all peoples will live in love and harmony when all countries of the world unite into one: Butastan.
If she doesn’t love it, then the fault is only hers... she is very lucky!Thanks! Want to treat her well, she deserves it , but don’t want to feel like an idiot later on either.
Ah ah, thanks.If she doesn’t love it, then the fault is only hers... she is very lucky!
@Yuriko . . That definitely changed the mood of this thread ... soooo did u put on that sexy thong for the office today ? Or just u supress ur horniness until lunch break and go to the ladies room to perform emergency relief . .???
Don’t be sorry Yuriko. It is indeed the Anything Goes thread and nobody will blame anyone here for being horny!It's anything goes thread. Sorry, I was too horny this early morning...
Please imagine what ever condition you'd like.
^ - ^ Would you like that, if you were my boss???
Don’t be sorry Yuriko. It is indeed the Anything Goes thread and nobody will blame anyone here for being horny!
nobody will blame anyone here for being horny!
Depends on the PAThat's relief! ^ - ^
But, if a manager knew his PA fantasised that, would he be angry???
I have suffered from this too. I have not completely cured myself, but the advice I try to give myself is: Buy nice flowers or an expensive box of chocolates. Don’t think too much about it. If the recipient doesn’t like or throws some sort of attitude, even subtly, that is their fucking problem. They say it is the thought that counts. I agree with that, but it is the thoughts that you have towards the person not towards the gift. If you are in a relationship where you need to demonstrate your affection by thinking hard about what unique gift to give, then both you and she are idiots and you deserve each other. 5,000yen box of Pierre Marcolini chocolate should always do the trick no matter who you are or what the situation is. And if she doesn’t share some of the chocolate with you, next time she gets a fucking Snickers bar.Ah ah, thanks.
I really have « gifts anxiety ». I was married for way too long with someone who made a point of showing contempt and disappointment at anything I gave her. Even flowers. Drove me mad. Then there was this episode with a SB that I’d rather forget but I can’t , felt completely taken advantage of. I never know if it’s good enough, or too much, what’s really appropriate etc
I have suffered from this too. I have not completely cured myself, but the advice I try to give myself is: Buy nice flowers or an expensive box of chocolates. Don’t think too much about it. If the recipient doesn’t like or throws some sort of attitude, even subtly, that is their fucking problem. They say it is the thought that counts. I agree with that, but it is the thoughts that you have towards the person not towards the gift. If you are in a relationship where you need to demonstrate your affection by thinking hard about what unique gift to give, then both you and she are idiots and you deserve each other. 5,000yen box of Pierre Marcolini chocolate should always do the trick no matter who you are or what the situation is. And if she doesn’t share some of the chocolate with you, next time she gets a fucking Snickers bar.
Agreed. Also (in the specific context of Sugar relationships) I stop giving gifts or favors expecting later some extra affection, sex, gratitude... never works that way. However if she does something above and beyond the arrangement first then yeah, I will be generous.I have suffered from this too. I have not completely cured myself, but the advice I try to give myself is: Buy nice flowers or an expensive box of chocolates. Don’t think too much about it. If the recipient doesn’t like or throws some sort of attitude, even subtly, that is their fucking problem. They say it is the thought that counts. I agree with that, but it is the thoughts that you have towards the person not towards the gift. If you are in a relationship where you need to demonstrate your affection by thinking hard about what unique gift to give, then both you and she are idiots and you deserve each other. 5,000yen box of Pierre Marcolini chocolate should always do the trick no matter who you are or what the situation is. And if she doesn’t share some of the chocolate with you, next time she gets a fucking Snickers bar.