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Non cold-call pick up methods?

I’m married an old...er. Others have mentioned this. Do something that other people you want to meet do. Ice breaker right there. You immediately have something in common. Then you two chat and decide heyyyy...let’s go...

I’ve been going to a gym for awhile and have a few ladies that have said hey if you weren’t married..little do they know but hey..lol Be a repeat customer at places.
 
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I found that cold-calls/pickups have a high failure rate for most attractive girls. They have their defences up and they are often won't tolerate a total stranger coming into their comfort zone. The easiest results is when you are in a joint activity. For example, you meet at a social gathering, group activity like scuba diving/ salsa/ yoga class, English language club, that's when their defences are down, and you can chit chat.

Be watchful of body language. I confess I have in the past overstepped and done something stupid which turned off interested females. Usually if the girl is leaning away from you, it is not good. If the girl is touching you, that's good. If the girl is playing with her hair and laughing at your jokes, that's good. If the girl is avoiding eye contact and keeping conversation to a minimum, that is a bad sign. If the girl walks away from you, that is bad sign.
 
Kindman said:
I found that cold-calls/pickups have a high failure rate for most attractive girls. They have their defences up and they are often won't tolerate a total stranger coming into their comfort zone. The easiest results is when you are in a joint activity. For example, you meet at a social gathering, group activity like scuba diving/ salsa/ yoga class, English language club, that's when their defences are down, and you can chit chat.
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Yes the more attractive girls are sensitive to *weak* approaches because it happens daily. Just gotta be better than most guys and the world opens up.

Ideally all scuba clubs were full of endless 10s! Unfortunately that's not the really the case unless you're into something like uh .. Yoga?
 
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