Why on earth would you post those women's faces on a site predominantly dedicated to P4P?
Sorry man, but that's really poor form.
Are you serious???
1. This sub-forum isn't about P4P.
2. Anyone with a OkCupid account can view these women.
Why on earth would you post those women's faces on a site predominantly dedicated to P4P?
Sorry man, but that's really poor form.
Why on earth would you post those women's faces on a site predominantly dedicated to P4P?
Sorry man, but that's really poor form.
That's basically all the answers I gave.
Or maybe I'm too picky?
In the attachment you can see all the women I'm shown.
Are you serious???
This sub-forum isn't about P4P.
Anyone with a OkCupid account can view these women.
Anyway the attachment has been removed (not by me) so problem solved I guess.
Ok, I've finally understood how OKcupid works.
The "Browse matches" section is useless.
Instead, you have to use the "Double take" section BUT, if you click on the "Like" button they will have to pay to talk to you.
Instead, from "Doubletake" you should click on "view profile" and then send a message.
Basically, I've fallen in what's called a UX dark pattern.
It's designed to make people believe they must pay in order to unleash the true potential of the service.
OP, I don't know what your intentions are (i.e., you want a relationship or just a quick fuck) but if you're after something a little more serious, you might give eharmony a try. I know, it sounds moronic and dated and it'll cost you a couple hundred bucks to get started, but what I was stunned to find is that the site had MANY Japanese women, in Japan, who were using eharmony specifically because they wanted a long-term relationship with a foreigner, preferably American, which is obviously why they chose America's biggest dating app. More importantly, most of these women had very good English skills as the majority of them had lived abroad to study (and many were looking for a way back there for good).
The only downside is that the number of matches you're shown at any given time is very limited. The upside is that the same is the case for the women, so it's not like they've got a virtual meat market at their fingertips. It's very much equal opportunity with males and females, rather than a female-centric system like OkCupid or JapanCupid that gives women complete control of the game. The really useful part is you can specify which region you're looking in, from individual states to entire countries. I would just switch back and forth every day between different states near me and then Japan and I'd have a dozen or so prospects pop up. I had very good luck with eharmony.
Like I said, this is if you're after something serious and long-term. Most skanks wanting to grab their ankles with a white guy aren't going to shell out that much money for a subscription when they can just pop into any HUB at 9pm and by 9:15pm have a dozen broke and horny AEON teachers ready to whip their cocks and wallets out faster than they can spell their own names.
The last scene you described makes me want to go to a Hub just to enjoy that show !
Seriously, do any of you guys ever still go to HUB?? Or is it just me, who thinks he can re-live his youth by checking in to that shithole?? No matter where in Japan I go, the crowd in HUB never changes: Douchebag English teachers, sloppy slutty mid-30s skanks who've given up on having a normal life and squat on whatever foreign cock possible and then a couple of young bewildered salary-jagoffs in cheap suits who just want the quick thrill of nursing a single beer in the midst of some genuine scary gaijin. Add to that those evil fucking "HUB Ale" towers you can buy for dirt cheap and I don't think I've ever had a night there that ended well.
The last time I went to HUB was with a deranged, damaged 41yo I met online who I convinced to blow me at a park near the station and was doing a decent job until all the HUB Ale suddenly came back up and I had to hold her hair, with my cock still sticking out of my zipper, while she puked her guts out all over the hedges. The time before that was when I met up with some frustrated stuck-in-JPN expat friends from back in the early 2000s to suck down a dozen or so towers and ended up watching a late 50s-Chinese massage lady urinate in a squat toilet before persuading her to hump me for 10k.
NOTHING good happens after HUB.
Yeah but I would still enjoy the show of those no-good-things happening to others
Seriously, do any of you guys ever still go to HUB?? Or is it just me, who thinks he can re-live his youth by checking in to that shithole?? No matter where in Japan I go, the crowd in HUB never changes: Douchebag English teachers, sloppy slutty mid-30s skanks who've given up on having a normal life and squat on whatever foreign cock possible and then a couple of young bewildered salary-jagoffs in cheap suits who just want the quick thrill of nursing a single beer in the midst of some genuine scary gaijin. Add to that those evil fucking "HUB Ale" towers you can buy for dirt cheap and I don't think I've ever had a night there that ended well.
The last time I went to HUB was with a deranged, damaged 41yo I met online who I convinced to blow me at a park near the station and was doing a decent job until all the HUB Ale suddenly came back up and I had to hold her hair, with my cock still sticking out of my zipper, while she puked her guts out all over the hedges. The time before that was when I met up with some frustrated stuck-in-JPN expat friends from back in the early 2000s to suck down a dozen or so towers and ended up watching a late 50s-Chinese massage lady urinate in a squat toilet before persuading her to hump me for 10k.
NOTHING good happens after HUB.
OP, I don't know what your intentions are (i.e., you want a relationship or just a quick fuck) but if you're after something a little more serious, you might give eharmony a try. I know, it sounds moronic and dated and it'll cost you a couple hundred bucks to get started, but what I was stunned to find is that the site had MANY Japanese women, in Japan, who were using eharmony specifically because they wanted a long-term relationship with a foreigner, preferably American, which is obviously why they chose America's biggest dating app. More importantly, most of these women had very good English skills as the majority of them had lived abroad to study (and many were looking for a way back there for good).
The only downside is that the number of matches you're shown at any given time is very limited. The upside is that the same is the case for the women, so it's not like they've got a virtual meat market at their fingertips. It's very much equal opportunity with males and females, rather than a female-centric system like OkCupid or JapanCupid that gives women complete control of the game. The really useful part is you can specify which region you're looking in, from individual states to entire countries. I would just switch back and forth every day between different states near me and then Japan and I'd have a dozen or so prospects pop up. I had very good luck with eharmony.
Like I said, this is if you're after something serious and long-term. Most skanks wanting to grab their ankles with a white guy aren't going to shell out that much money for a subscription when they can just pop into any HUB at 9pm and by 9:15pm have a dozen broke and horny AEON teachers ready to whip their cocks and wallets out faster than they can spell their own names.
OP, I don't know what your intentions are (i.e., you want a relationship or just a quick fuck) but if you're after something a little more serious, you might give eharmony a try. I know, it sounds moronic and dated and it'll cost you a couple hundred bucks to get started, but what I was stunned to find is that the site had MANY Japanese women, in Japan, who were using eharmony specifically because they wanted a long-term relationship with a foreigner, preferably American, which is obviously why they chose America's biggest dating app. More importantly, most of these women had very good English skills as the majority of them had lived abroad to study (and many were looking for a way back there for good).
The only downside is that the number of matches you're shown at any given time is very limited. The upside is that the same is the case for the women, so it's not like they've got a virtual meat market at their fingertips. It's very much equal opportunity with males and females, rather than a female-centric system like OkCupid or JapanCupid that gives women complete control of the game. The really useful part is you can specify which region you're looking in, from individual states to entire countries. I would just switch back and forth every day between different states near me and then Japan and I'd have a dozen or so prospects pop up. I had very good luck with eharmony.
Like I said, this is if you're after something serious and long-term. Most skanks wanting to grab their ankles with a white guy aren't going to shell out that much money for a subscription when they can just pop into any HUB at 9pm and by 9:15pm have a dozen broke and horny AEON teachers ready to whip their cocks and wallets out faster than they can spell their own names.
Couple of hundreds bucks? NO WAY.
English speaking Japanese women? NO WAY
Marriage? Kids? FUCKING NO WAY
You get the picture
Women don’t necessarily need to go to bars or clubs to find guys anymore. They have Tinder, or Facebook & can search for a guy all over the world.
And you can add to that that the majority of women don’t smoke, so more and more of them are going to other places to meet men, and eschewing smoky bars.Women don’t necessarily need to go to bars or clubs to find guys anymore. They have Tinder, or Facebook & can search for a guy all over the world.
And you can add to that that the majority of women don’t smoke, so more and more of them are going to other places to meet men, and eschewing smoky bars.
Imagine how badly your clothes stink after a night at the bar, and then remember that most women in Japan have shoulderlength or longer hair that’s absorbing all that stink, and it’s pretty easy to understand why a lot of women don’t like going to bars anymore.
I do think we will see a resurgence of the bar scene when Tokyo anti-smoking laws take effect next April, and pretty much every bar in the city will become non-smoking.
You and me both, and I’m not sure whether you mean the smoke free environment, or the increased number of women in the bars, but honestly, both work for me.Actually, that will entice me to go to the bars more once they're smoke free.
Last time I was in HUB was in Ebisu. ..Almost no foreigners except me and the talent was no where to be found. . The place was crowded with Japanese but the "girls " were pretty scary . . Luckily I brought my own with me ... Lol
The days of old you reference seems to be just that ...Days of old . .Really hard to find those type of hunters now ...
Unless the bars have changed and I'm not hip enough to find them anymore
And you can add to that that the majority of women don’t smoke, so more and more of them are going to other places to meet men, and eschewing smoky bars.
Imagine how badly your clothes stink after a night at the bar, and then remember that most women in Japan have shoulderlength or longer hair that’s absorbing all that stink, and it’s pretty easy to understand why a lot of women don’t like going to bars anymore.
I do think we will see a resurgence of the bar scene when Tokyo anti-smoking laws take effect next April, and pretty much every bar in the city will become non-smoking.