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Anyone have experience with japancupid.com

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Anyone have experience in using japancupid.com to make relationship
 
I do.
I have met 2-3 ladies from there, but most of the people on that site just want foreign husbands so they can leave their countries as soon as possible. Having said that you do get lucky sometimes.
I would say be careful and not give away too much personal information as it’s just as bad as Tinder or worse sometimes.
If you’re looking to marry an Asian woman though, and not so picky on looks, that site will do the job
Good luck.
 
I toyed around with it a few years ago and it's full of fucking airheads looking for a one-way ticket to your country (assuming you're white and English-speaking). Yes, you can meet some easy hook-ups, but do keep in mind that the vast majority of girls there are probably stringing along a dozen or so other gaijin males at the same time and you can trust them about as far as you can hurl them so best not to go there looking for a wife. There are also a shocking number of Filipino girls on JC, apparently trolling for the loser so desperate that he might overlook the fact that they're Filipino...although to be honest, I'd take a horny young brat from the P.I. any day over some 35yo life failure from Saitama who gets her jollies by paying stunted 24yo Canadian virgins to talk to her in a NOVA class cubicle for 45 minutes.
 
What's amazing to me is the level of attractiveness and they consider themselves attractive .. When clearly the photo is not an attractive woman .

Speaking of photos. ..Also unbelievable how bad photos are used ...Out of focus or one pic only or photo with friend so u don't know who face belong to profile person. ..

Air head is understatement ...IMHO
 
I got banned.........
 
I had a long term GF off there for 6 months or so, but she had her issues and I broke it off. Met a lot of other girls off there, a few super-attractive ones but they were either just looking for friends first or were fairly nutty. I met one girl who was my type (skinny and cute) but showed up for a first date looking like a hobo and introduced herself as saying her parents passed away and she's been living off their money, and she just wants a guy who will take care of her. If you are looking to settle down you might find someone good if you choose wisely and go on an awful lot of first dates.
 
In the old days you could find a lot of sweet ladies there.
I had two long lasting relationships thanks to JC.

Now it's just a freak show.
 
I am looking for a possible relationship - not just a hook-up. (But that would be ok too.) I am aware from seeing reviews that people have said it seems fake. For me, the jury is out. I can see some contacts who seem unreliable or have other motives. Others at least appear legit. At the end of the month, I have arranged to meet 2 ladies. One more invited me to a party, which I think I can't fit in my schedule. A couple others who said let's find a way to meet. Will post about whether that actually materializes.
 
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I had been a member of Connecting Singles. I eventually met 1 person there who was sincere but I just wasn't interested in her. I have been a member of Jmail (https://mintj.com/) which in my experience was good at meeting a local provider, but everything else like offers of sex friend all seemed fake.
 
Had an account on JC for years. Definately agree with the general consensus. Its hit and miss. Some active girls have not changed their profile pics for years which can only mean that they probably are not very attractive apart from that one photo that makes them look nice so they use that pic on everything.
Met 2 girls and have stayed in touch with more for a while now (so theres potential ;) ) .
Out of the two I met, one I hooked up with in Tokyo. I was there for about 10 days. We stayed together and went to Osaka too then back to Tokyo. She was 19. When she started messaging me on JC I was very suspicious. 19 yo with big tits etc. Seems too good to be true. She was very nice but the more I got to know her the more I found out about her issues in life. Not for me. Genuinely quite sad about it and I feel like a bit of an ahole for not going back to visit her.
The other girl I met was actually Thai. No idea why she was on JC. She's only been to Japan a few times and never lived there. I stayed in touch with her for a few years. Still am in touch and met up with her in London when she visited the UK last year.

Had some luck on ペアーズ (Pairs) as well. Met a girl from HK. She was very nice. We stayed together in Tokyo and that was fun too ;)
 
I've met a few girls on there before I visited Japan and when I arrived I had sex with them (on separate visits to Japan) I'm still in touch with one of them for over a few years now. It's hit and miss on there you can be speaking to someone and then the chat goes dead or just be speaking to someone that wants to talk a lot. Occasionally you'll get hits from fake profiles. But overall I don't think it's too bad.
 
I have been a member of JC for 9 years. I have been on and off. To find nice women requires sending out a lot of messages. About 1 in 10-20 reads and replies to my message. After initial contact it needs long and intensive Line chatting sometimes. These women are human beings, they want respect and you have to show interest in their lives, personalities, experience etc before they open up to you, Just don't say you want to fuck them in your first lines. I kept detailed notes on each woman. I have met 172 women from JC over 9 years. And had sex with 113 of them. Some just one or several times. But with 26 women I had a longer sexual relationship with from few weeks to few years. In recent 2 years or so more Chinese women and fakes are coming to the site. But still JC is a treasure mine. In the last 3 weeks I have met 8 new women of which several I will definitely fuck once this corona thing is over. So in conclusion, it is very time consuming but there are lots of nice open-minded Japanese women on this site.
 
Never tried the online dating websites but thinking of giving them a go. Does anyone have expierence with match.com / other dating websites ? Which one is the most reliable ?
 
Only 1 real, normal, cute looking girl responded to me and we chat on LINE now. Not bad for 1 day.

Not bad at all! If you get one girl every day and continue for a year then you have... like a lots of girls!