Playing Away Without Getting Caught

From my observations and furthering other points mentioned here. If you are married, it's all about patterns. When you break your pattern, women tend to get suspicious. That includes work routines, personal looks, spending habits, topics of conversation, etc... Like some mentioned, it is good to have regular patterns of going out with the boys or a hobby that will take you out of the house. Going out with co-workers or clients is always a good excuse. So, whether you are doing P4P or a regular side chick it's important to keep it regular, don't keep a paper/digital trail, and remember to not get careless.

I agree with that. Give your self solid iron clad rules that you don't break. Never meet in parts of town your normally in, places their friends don't go. Avoid shopping areas. When I was dating I kept rules like no dating in the same post code or same city. Make distance your friend and use it to your advantage.

Never shit where you eat, never bang close to home.

I try and be mindful all the time. No matter what I follow my own rules and have for years. Never had an issue or hint of tom foolery.