Joe2017
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BTW. Days have gone, aren’t you curious to know how the story ended? Reconciliation or divorce? 
Getting married with an Ex sexual Worker.
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You have a particular strong opinion that relations by women who had many sexual partners are doomed to fail, so you probably didn't consider that this kind of marry your first love relationships in general tend not to have the highest success rate
Never said doom to fail. But most marriage fail anyway or just become a survival tool.
But please back up your statement... 2nd marriages have a high failure rate.. please don't get into your feelings and assume that I mean ALL 2nd marriages fail.
Yeah yeah yeah. I know statistic and data means nothing. LOL
but this wasn't really about having a marriage survive.. it was someone sexual past and does it align with someone morals.
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Shut up and let us keep our dreams. Sheesh, probably next message you come here and claim porn isn't real.
I know for a fact that Mia is on tall, fat and ugly guys. It must be a fact as I just made it up myself.
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The quoted Institute for Family Studies (IFS) is a right-wing conservative think tank that states its mission as “to strengthen marriage and family life, and advance the well-being of children through research and public education.” You hardly will see it publish data supporting many sex partners before marriage. You might as well quote an Evangelical priest. It looks like you are reaching for anything to support your already reached conclusion. Get a divorce, it's easy. You've got the $50,000 it usually costs? Once divorced, pack up and go home. You won't be happy here,.
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Your assumptions and theories are flawed. The data sample you offered is limited.
Having climbed the stairs at numerous Fashion Health and Mansion Health Clubs, I'm guessing more than 70 times, FS is not expected and it should not be requested at Fashion Health/Mansion Health Clubs. If it is offered, then fine.
Seafari is not JJ Club. Koshien Stadium is not Lambeau Field. Just because something happened at one venue, doesn't mean that it will happen at another venue.
So as the title says, that is the subject of my first post.
Honestly, im doing this because i don’t know with who talk about this and i suppose i can get a bit of advice here. Im a foreigner living here since three years ago, in the journey after dating, working and some adventures, i just met this beautiful girl who make look everything nice for me. After a While she proposed me to get married, in that way "I will not have a difficult visa process", i must say; i didn’t get married with her because it was the golden ticket, i truly love my wife but her past is quite the nightmare for me.
After a few months we were looking some photos from her past and then one in the salon pop up, i got super shocked and then the true came out in a period of two months of discussions. She actually work around one week there when she was finishing the university, in this kind of soap lands, or more specific the JJ CLUB in Shibuya, she got 4 to 5 guys per day and Honestly i cannot deal with this, so it have been super difficult since then, also our first month was very difficult because we were dating other people, but she was with more than one guy and me just seeing 1 girl... so i don’t know. it got toxic in some way.
I have been reading the forum since long time ago, to understand how it work the sexual work in Japan, i never went into any of the sexual services who they offer in Japan but im Very keen going to Bliss out for example, because in some way i think this kind of place could expand my perception about the multiple sexuality tendencies from the Japanese People, as far as i read theres couples who go there too.
I cannot take this feeling out from me, like being scammed. Do you think guys, im being too judgemental ? sometimes i think maybe i should consume a few delivery girls, maybe in that way i could deal with this, forcing myself to feel guilty about something, but i don’t know... I think sometimes i didn’t explore this are from Japan before get married and its just my ego... Just once after a fight a hang out with a friend and we finish in the love hotel but i feel like shit after.
How do you do to go into delivery girls? or into bliss out with couples? it is my reality lie a crap or im exaggerating ?
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Sounds like you didn't vet her properly and she trapped you into marriage. You feel upset because she violated your boundaries but you didn't set any (or didn't communicate) so you can't really blame her, but the feeling is still there and it sucks.
Had something simular with one of of my first jgf. She confessed she was an "online hostess" in the past. (read: camgirl) at first it was all good. I never judged her or her decisions and in the beginning it made me kinda horny knowing that I had such a wild girl, but unconsciously the more she told me the more I lost respect. We broke up a few weeks later.
Moral of the story: you can't really love someone if there's no respect. And judging from your post and how you worded things you already know what to do. Her ho phase is gonna eat you up from the inside.
Since you're already married I would just try to stick it out and divorce her once you have your PR. Just don't knock her up. Seeing how she proposed you you can bet your sweet bippy she's trying to get pregnant.