Considering cold approach

I had a friend--decently handsome white Australian guy in his late 20s--who used to print out business cards with nothing but his name, email and mobile contact info and pass them out to random girls he'd see on the late-night trains in Osaka. No real science to it, he'd just walk through the train cars, eye every even remotely-pretty girl and smile at them, then walk up, give a short greeting in Japanese, hand them his card and keep making his way through the rest of the train cars passing out his cards. I think he told me if he gave out a hundred cards, one or two girls would actually contact him. Obviously, these were the adventurous/horny/crazy/damaged types who just wanted to squat on a white guy's dick and didn't mind the ignominious approach. I don't know how many he actually nailed but I think he managed to stick his dick in a handful of crazies and also manage to run away unscathed.

There was another Australian guy, ethnically Vietnamese (and according to our Japanese female friends, VERY handsome and looked Japanese) who was a raging fucking pervert and would fuck anything that moved. He would haunt the infamous Osaka gaijin dance clubs after midnight and had a very non-scientific technique--he would approach random girls on the dance floor, start freaking them from behind and then grab their tits. According to him, 9/10 girls would scream and run off. But that one girl who didn't was basically a guaranteed lay that night. I know he was famous for banging dancefloor skanks in the the hallways and alleys outside clubs. Wasn't very close to him so never got much of the details.

Personally, I only tried the random street cold-call when royally fucking drunk and it never went very well. Far easier to prey on lonely broads at a safe, secure venue like a sayonara party or konpa. The cold-call technique just doesn't seem very effective in Japan.

Jenkins55 said:

I’ve been meaning to switch from p4p to a slightly more sustainable supply of pussy(sorry, but in this context no other word conveys the correct meaning).

I’ve always thought that there’s something to be said about the value of self-development etc doing cold approach. So I might try a little bit. Just quick couple questions.

1. What’s the success rate? Is it close to 1/100 or 1/10. I imagine it varies person to person but I want to hear your experience.

2. I imagine pestering girls in the same place every day will draw negative attention. So do you rotate places or do you approach everywhere or do you have your own street corner like a drug dealer?

3. What do bystanders think and do they ever intervene?

Thanks.

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1. I reckon 1/10
2. Stand at the ticket machine section of a train station (somewhere like ikebukuro) looking lost and gaijin-stupid. Strike up convos on pretence of needing help to get to somewhere. You’ll know who is interested and who isnt within 5 seconds.
3. Any bystander catching on to whatever you are doing will probably think you are one of 100 other guys doing the same thing, and not really care.

Durg50 said:

1. I reckon 1/10
2. Stand at the ticket machine section of a train station (somewhere like ikebukuro) looking lost and gaijin-stupid. Strike up convos on pretence of needing help to get to somewhere. You’ll know who is interested and who isnt within 5 seconds.
3. Any bystander catching on to whatever you are doing will probably think you are one of 100 other guys doing the same thing, and not really care.

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Half the guys I worked with in North Osaka used to try that approach, but at least they had the decency to carry around the "MAP OF KANSAI" from the airport so the act was at least semi-believable. I think a few of them actually managed to score dates from the scam, but most of them figured out it was far easier to just enroll in the free community Japanese language courses run by the city and taught by a slew of damaged, neurotic women who still couldn't get over the one month Australian homestay they did back in 1999 and had a lingering foreign dick itch that needed scratching.

The only downside I can see to that ploy is, obviously, if it turns into a relationship. Hanging around the station acting lost will be a fine cover story if you're just looking for a quick lay, but if it turns into something long-term and the bitch finds your passport or gaijin card and sees that you've been in-country for seven years, you'll have some explaining to do. Even a Japanese woman can follow that deduction.

But if you're set on cold calls, I'd just stick with gaijin bars and hit on random girls. The ones who won't drop their panties for you after a few rounds at The Blarneystone aren't any more likely to fuck you if you're acting lost at the Akihabara ticket counter, and vice versa. If they're interested, they'll be interested whenever and wherever you spring your charade on them, whether that's at the HUB Shinjuku bar counter or waiting in line at a department store toilet queue.

Keihan Chikan said:

The only downside I can see to that ploy is, obviously, if it turns into a relationship. Hanging around the station acting lost will be a fine cover story if you're just looking for a quick lay, but if it turns into something long-term and the bitch finds your passport or gaijin card and sees that you've been in-country for seven years, you'll have some explaining to do. Even a Japanese woman can follow that deduction.

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You're far too paranoid, lol.

I might be a little late to reply but here goes.

When I was doing my humble study abroad in Osaka way back when the Hanshin quake hit, there was this one south american guy who was a friend of a friend. Maybe 5'6" and was so unobtrusive and not extraordinary in anyway but he would pick up because he played the "safe and cuddly" card. He always had a cutsie plush character hanging from his Jansack (spelling?) backpack - girls love this here. I thought I was the man, but him telling me he would pick up girls at festivals and do the deed in porta-potties was gold. He had other super stories but he played the game here well. Anime/Manga means safety. Japan loves safe things. Do the same and you will score. Do creepy things (like cheapie or weirdo t-shirts with kanji or greasy haircuts) and you will, or might end up at the local Koban or worse. Be safe friends.

The moral of the story of nampa is to play the "safe" card. Even if you don't speak Japanese, it's ok. Rule of thumb is don't be a Trumple-stiltskin, but be a sleepy-Joe B.

As for cold approach, do it. Treat the girl (target) as someone you want to know more about. Of course it's what's in her panties you want to more about but treat it as such. It's a game, they know it's a game and if you are off base, then you lose. And...spend a bit of money. More than 500 yen. Girls get hot above 20K JPY. Don't go for the girls from Gaspanic, they are disease farms. Quick lick and a blistered dick as the military brothers say.

Ps. Always, ALWAYS have some gimmick for you to show (accidentally) when you pick up on a cold meeting. It could be a shiny LED with different colors on a Lexus/Mercedes key chain that get their attention. It could be a book or a chicklet of gum, nothing steams the panties like having fresh breath. LOL. It's a magic trick, that works with the gaijin girls here too.

Nampa is a waste of time. Why stand outside for hours when you can just swipe left or right at home when you're taking a shit. Or I dunno go to a bar or club where there are women who want to be bothered?

I used to work at a hotel resort in Japan and just small talk with guests that I like, mostly college students and people on buisness trips. In one year I exchanged over 400 instagrams/Line and 'met' more than a dozen of them when I visited them in Tokyo or Sendai etc. Similar approach when I go DisneySea/USJ/Shibuya Halloween/music festivals with my friends. That's the most experience I have and there's no ulterior motives like manipulation. Sometimes you make good friends, it may lead to sex or networking. Regardless, I have no intention to stand outside a busy station and hand out 'please fuck me' pamphlets or pretend to be a lost guyjean though, even if it might be successful.

I'm no stranger to PUA as out of curiosity I used to browse r/TRP before it got banned. The effort they put into creating strategies to pickup women or rationalize their philosophy with science, could be used to successfully cure cancer. Anyone who pays for seminars or books from self-acclaimed PUA gods like David Bond, I have a rainbow bridge to sell you.

All in all, nampa doesn't hurt to try and costs nothing except time. I reckon the success rate is extremely low cos I hang around Kabukicho a lot. I've literally never seen it work when those host-boy looking fags dressed in designer brands follow random girls and hit on them. 99% of the girls rightfully ignore them, it's quite funny to watch actually. I'm not saying nampa doesn't work. If you throw everything on the wall somethings gotta stick. Also I imagine the type of women who fall for nampa and end up sleeping with strangers, aren't exactly your intelligent 8/10 pretty girls that you wanna meet more than once.

Korra2314 said:

NThe effort they put into creating strategies to pickup women or rationalize their philosophy with science, could be used to successfully cure cancer.

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That made me LOL. Now the only thing they need to offer is not the Nobel Price but some high class pussy for the finder of the cure and we all gonna be living forever.

All in all, nampa doesn't hurt to try and costs nothing except time.

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Then again nothing is more valuable as time.

If you throw everything on the wall somethings gotta stick.

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As one of my friends used to say "ask a thousand girls if they want to fuck you and one will say yes. That's how bad the state of mental health care is in this country".

Jenkins55 said:

Have you seen your profile picture?

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I'm too poor to afford designer brands. Looking for sugar mommy.

Korra2314 said:

...when those host-boy looking fags dressed in designer brands follow random girls and hit on them.

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Sorry, but that shit was fucking funny.

Korra2314 said:

I'm too poor to afford designer brands. Looking for sugar mommy.

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Lol! It sounds so pathetic when a guy writes this, yet I was dumb enough to buy that kind of shit to a SB so here you go. Dumb And Dumber

But buying dumb stuff for SBs is not dumb, it's how the world spins! :-D