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Hughty

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Hello there guys,

So last post for me, out of three ones on different topics.

When I lived in France and Germany, I had the chance to enter different Swinger clubs and/or join Sex parties. I was back then a bit younger and I had a partner that was a bit more on the adventurous side to put it up that way.

I remembered, especially in France, a friendly atmosphere. People explaining us the codes, do's and don't and some of them inviting us for some more mutual fun. Same experience when I was on my own as a single man in some of these places. When using Internet for the same purpose over there, it came up as smoothly as in real life.

Recently I decided to experiment a bit with that in Japan and I had sort of a mixed feeling.
I replied to a few SW adds on a well-known website here, making sure I was using my best Japanese skills (If I ever had some :p).

I received some pretty weird answers, with people being wether condescending or judging. I do hope to their defense, that I might have misunderstood their emails.
So we're in Japan and I get the point of being a foreigner but some of them were borderline very rude.

I got as well welcomed to a couple of sex parties in Osaka where the organiser was offering his wife to a few men. An hotel was usually chosen and the address given to you on short notice + you had to pay a fee ranging from 3000 to 7000 yens. One of this "event" was lasting from 3pm to 7pm or, was meant to stop when his wife would give up.

I was actually wondering if some of you fellow mongerers had taken part to such things and what were your overall impression about it!

Safe mongering!
 
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I replied to a few SW adds on a well-known website here, making sure I was using my best Japanese skills (If I ever had some :p).
If the ads are in English, stick with English.

I received some pretty weird answers, with people being wether condescending or judging. I do hope to their defense, that I might have misunderstood their emails.
So we're in Japan and I get the point of being a foreigner but some of them were borderline very rude.
Need more detail - but if it's a Japanese provider or agency, they aren't usually rude, even if they are rejecting you. If you got some strange replies, you probably dodged a bigger issue.

I got as well welcomed to a couple of sex parties in Osaka where the organiser was offering his wife to a few men. An hotel was usually chosen and the address given to you on short notice + you had to pay a fee ranging from 3000 to 7000 yens. One of this "event" was lasting from 3pm to 7pm or, was meant to stop when his wife would give up.
These happen and are also open to being busted; that's why they give such a short notice. I'd only trust these if it's a private arrangement and not just random guys paying money.
 
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If the ads are in English, stick with English.

Well the entire website (a well known one I'm sure you've heard about) is in Japanese.
I've already spotted a few foreigners here and there through the way the messages are sometimes written but I guess it is better to answer in Japanese too.

Need more detail - but if it's a Japanese provider or agency, they aren't usually rude, even if they are rejecting you. If you got some strange replies, you probably dodged a bigger issue.

Not really worth mentionning but to answer your question one couple, after I had accidentally posted something in the wrong section, sent me a random message to fire straight at me, wishing me to "Die of Coronavirus" ("コロナで死んでほしい") :rolleyes: Another one as I had introduced myself politely following their guidelines on their profile (that always helps), answered me that as a foreigner I was rude and too proud to be around them. So it's just a couple of weird encounters but coming from the European scene (both online and clubs), what an interesting suprise it is :bear: And if you knew me, and my manners, I'm sure you would laugh just as well at these comments! It made me remember all the lovely people I met when I was younger. The same people that had made me discover a bit of the SW scene. Different world that's it!

These happen and are also open to being busted; that's why they give such a short notice. I'd only trust these if it's a private arrangement and not just random guys paying money.

Thanks for bringing up that point that I hadn't thought about! (y) Well it was as it seems some sorts of private party but I really appreciated your feedback as obviously I'm lacking experience for now on this side of the world!
 
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I wonder what is that "well-known website" you mentioned in your original post. :)
Contact the OP for the site. It's a popular Japanese swinger site. We'd not like to post it publicly to prevent issues on their side.
If you can't really speak/write/read Japanese, it's not worth your time or theirs.
 
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I got as well welcomed to a couple of sex parties in Osaka where the organiser was offering his wife to a few men. An hotel was usually chosen and the address given to you on short notice + you had to pay a fee ranging from 3000 to 7000 yens. One of this "event" was lasting from 3pm to 7pm or, was meant to stop when his wife would give up.
Something is strange with the fee. What I know, commercially arranged ranko - or orgy - parties (I have never been to one) cost considerably more. They are also illegal as the participants really pay for sex. This sounds more like sharing the cost for the hotel, not a for profit event. I'm not a lawyer, but I doubt that some guys getting together banging one of the guy's wife and sharing the hotel cost can be illegal.
 
been to a few types of parties and I use many sites and most likely the one you're referring to... I get 10 emails a week from women/couples... alot of them are just curious, some are serious, the rest are semi-rude or gay men pretending to be women/couples to see uncensored dick pics...as far as the gangbangs go I been to a few like that.. realistically the guy is pimping out his wife/friend for profit, they usually have a few parties a day inviting mostly young virgins/guys with little experience/and premature ejaculators and charge them 5000 -8000 yen... as a foreigner unless you cum fast I suggest not going...was pounding this lady out and had to stop because "the hotel was only booked until 5" which was a lie they just wanted to prepare for the next batch of guys...if you're just looking for some quick pussy at a fraction of the prostitute price then by all means go...

but yeah you really gotta have a conversation with these women and couples to find ones that are genuine... even some of the genuine ones want you to pay the hotel fee which is still less than half the price of a real prostitute...eventually you'll get lucky and find couples to play with often and good parties... went to one the other day where the guy brought two women and wanted me to fuck them raw...and he paid for the hotel. its all about the guy...its always the guy/husband doing the writing so if he's a rude douchebag then just move on.
 
Same question ‍♂️ here
And did you see the pose right below that?

Contact the OP for the site. It's a popular Japanese swinger site. We'd not like to post it publicly to prevent issues on their side.
If you can't really speak/write/read Japanese, it's not worth your time or theirs.
 
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