How to make a request to provider without sounding like an insult?

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A provider I see (young westernized Asian) tends to do a real poor job with makeup. Fake eyelashes are horribly applied, face has multi colors with a sheen to it.

I prefer a more natural, subtle application.

How can I request such without the obvious inference that her normal application sucks?
 
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Just tell her you’d like to see her with less makeup next time. It’s just makeup, a bio derma soaked cotton pad usually does the job lol. Or maybe be specific and tell her you’re not a big fan of falsies or blinding highlighter, I don’t think that sounds very rude?
I remember a few times I was requested to wear a bit less makeup, or a bit more makeup, flat shoes or stilettos.... I personally don’t get offended as everyone has a different taste and laugh it off if I have a wardrobe or makeup malfunction, it happens.
 
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Simonka said:
Speaking of lashes it depends on the falsies brand,

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I don’t use falsies but this “Miche Bloomin’” is a cult favorite amongst Japanese girls. Some models look very natural.


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Whereas I find these western mink lashes absolutely terrifying. Sorry if anyone likes them haha.
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Thanks for the advice. I can't described how bad the false eyelashes were. I don't mind a good one that is applied well along with clean makeup, but this seemed like it was applied like a young child finding her mother's makeup drawer.

I can "see through" the strange makeup application to know she is very attractive normally.

Is it remotely possible she is trying to disguise her everyday appearance?
 
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UnicornHunter said:
Thanks for the advice. I can't described how bad the false eyelashes were. I don't mind a good one that is applied well along with clean makeup, but this seemed like it was applied like a young child finding her mother's makeup drawer.

I can "see through" the strange makeup application to know she is very attractive normally.

Is it remotely possible she is trying to disguise her everyday appearance?
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Could be. I’ve heard from other sex workers that they like to go heavy on makeup or sometimes wear lace front wigs to disguise their usual appearance.
 
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Simonka said:
Could be. I’ve heard from other sex workers that they like to go heavy on makeup or sometimes wear lace front wigs to disguise their usual appearance.
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She does blur her face on all her pics, but you can see that those pics at least have a normal application of makeup....
 
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She does blur her face on all her pics, but you can see that those pics at least have a normal application of makeup....
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If she’s attractive and has a nice personality I wouldn’t mind unless she’s wearing full on ganguro makeup
 
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Simonka said:
If she’s attractive and has a nice personality I wouldn’t mind unless she’s wearing full on ganguro makeup
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Well I sent her the request (meeting up tomorrow). She is a high priced touring worker in the states so I hope she is not offended.
 
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Is it remotely possible she is trying to disguise her everyday appearance?
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UnicornHunter said:
Everything worked out great. She still had the falsies but they were better applied. Yes they were the second example above. Overall great session and great workout!
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UnicornHunter said:
This sorta flies over my head...er you know..
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I was going to say something similar to Simona, but it looks like it worked out! I've also gotten requests to wear more casual clothes and less makeup, which I am more than happy to accommodate. All I'm being asked to do is spend less time preparing, which is a win win for both myself and my client. However I would be annoyed if the opposite were requested, and he wanted me to spend an extra hour doing photoshoot level make up and hair styling. I would definitely charge extra for that lol.

Also re the meme: I'm pretty sure it's just a joke about make up brushes lol. If your girl is doing her makeup pretty poorly, she's likely using the little smudge brushes in the top picture (they come with eyeshadow pallets and suck). The bottom brushes are waaaaay better and can be used to apply variety of different types of make up (blush, brows, eyeshadow, coverup etc), and are just a lot more precise.
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