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If privacy is important (for those who have a public profile), is it safer to stay at a 5-star hotel when using delivery health? Versus walking into a love hotel? Safer meaning: a) less scams b) cameras in the lobby and corridor c) less chance of a hidden camera in the room d) ability to provide the hotel with an alias/second name e) avoiding the front desk camera of a love hotel with an escort next to you while checking in, and so on.

Has anyone tried Anemone? They don’t seem to be totally against foreigners. You can even book online via the website if you are a second time user and they have your phone number. In this case, why couldn’t someone ask a Japanese-speaking concierge to make the first booking?

In my case, 'foreigner' means asian/japanese looking but without the ability to say more than 10 sentences in Japanese.

Any insight would be appreciated.
 
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If privacy is important (for those who have a public profile), is it safer to stay at a 5-star hotel when using delivery health? Versus walking into a love hotel? Safer meaning: a) less scams b) cameras in the lobby and corridor c) less chance of a hidden camera in the room d) ability to provide the hotel with an alias/second name e) avoiding the front desk camera of a love hotel with an escort next to you while checking in, and so on.

If privacy is so important that you have to be thinking about things like that then it is safest just not to do it. But if you want details then a) the scammers pretty much don't care where they scam you, b) pretty sure there are more security cameras in 5 star than love hotes, c) how many cases of hidden cameras in any hotels have you heard of?, d) love hotels don't require you to make up a second or third name as they wouldn't care about the first either, e) again probably more cameras in 5 star hotels and in any case with delihealth you don't usually check in together and so on.

In this case, why couldn’t someone ask a Japanese-speaking concierge to make the first booking?

Maybe because if they require and expect you to speak Japanese and then you suddenly don't that would be a great inconvenience for the girl.
 
If privacy is important (for those who have a public profile), is it safer to stay at a 5-star hotel when using delivery health? Versus walking into a love hotel?

Love hotels are pretty much made for prostitution, and the majority of men who use prostitutes tend to not want to broadcast that to the world and value their privacy. Love hotels wouldn't stay in business very long if they weren't private.

5 star hotels are absolutely not made to enable P4P, and you are much more likely to get caught on camera, of which there are many for the safety and security of guests. A lot of delivery health girls wouldn't get past reception at a 5-star hotel.
 
2 questions:

If privacy is important (for those who have a public profile), is it safer to stay at a 5-star hotel when using delivery health? Versus walking into a love hotel? Safer meaning: a) less scams b) cameras in the lobby and corridor c) less chance of a hidden camera in the room d) ability to provide the hotel with an alias/second name e) avoiding the front desk camera of a love hotel with an escort next to you while checking in, and so on.

Has anyone tried Anemone? They don’t seem to be totally against foreigners. You can even book online via the website if you are a second time user and they have your phone number. In this case, why couldn’t someone ask a Japanese-speaking concierge to make the first booking?

In my case, 'foreigner' means asian/japanese looking but without the ability to say more than 10 sentences in Japanese.

Any insight would be appreciated.

VICE PRESIDENT PENCE, YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!

Seriously, though...you're overthinking this. Something tells me you're not some famous celebrity or politician so you really shouldn't worry so much. But like others have pointed out, love hotels are designed for discretion, while 5-star hotels are definitely not. A lot of girls will refuse to meet you at fancy hotels because the front desk staff will boot them. From my standpoint, just knowing that a lot of these girls may not be as emotionally-grounded as others, I'd rather do the deed in a room that doesn't have my name and credit card attached to it and I can leave immediately if need be.

Just go to a love hotel. And work on your Japanese.
 
5 star hotels are absolutely not made to enable P4P, and you are much more likely to get caught on camera, of which there are many for the safety and security of guests. A lot of delivery health girls wouldn't get past reception at a 5-star hotel.

A lot of girls will refuse to meet you at fancy hotels because the front desk staff will boot them.

I hate to disagree with you guys, but I have to at this point. Because luxuary hotels cater to rich clients and employ service professionals, guests can be sure that neither their safety nor their privacy will not be violated. When I was a student here, I used to do バイト at the bell desk for a well renowned 5 star hotel in Tokyo. You would be surprised how many deriheru have walked in and out during my shifts in the evening. Altough they looked and acted like prostitutes (driver drops them off, they go straight to the elevator, return after a few hours and get into the same car), we did not do anything for two reasons.

1. As long as other guests aren't disturbed, it is a consensual play between two adults and therefore no problem.

2. She might look like a whore, but she could be girlfriend or affair of a guests, who has already checked in. Can you imagine the trouble with the management if we asked a girl in a skimpy outfit "hey, can you proof me that you are not a prostitute?"

We had also multiple rich regulars who came with their affairs on one day and with their wife and kids on the other. Management and staff covered for these honourable and respected, yet morally corrupted salarymen, because they payed a lot of money for luxuary and privacy. There were even instructions for the front staff how to deal with phone calls from the wife.

I guess, it depends on the client. If you just want fun, then use a love hotel. If you have the financial needs and want to upgrade your playtime with the girl, go to a nice hotel. The later option can also give you an alibi ("I can't focus on my telework at home, so I will use the day-plan of a hotel to fullfill my obligations to my boss and customers"). On the other hand, if people see you walking to a love hotel or your car parking there, it is very obvious what you are doing there.
 
I hate to disagree with you guys, but I have to at this point. Because luxuary hotels cater to rich clients and employ service professionals, guests can be sure that neither their safety nor their privacy will not be violated. When I was a student here, I used to do バイト at the bell desk for a well renowned 5 star hotel in Tokyo. You would be surprised how many deriheru have walked in and out during my shifts in the evening. Altough they looked and acted like prostitutes (driver drops them off, they go straight to the elevator, return after a few hours and get into the same car), we did not do anything for two reasons.

1. As long as other guests aren't disturbed, it is a consensual play between two adults and therefore no problem.

2. She might look like a whore, but she could be girlfriend or affair of a guests, who has already checked in. Can you imagine the trouble with the management if we asked a girl in a skimpy outfit "hey, can you proof me that you are not a prostitute?"

We had also multiple rich regulars who came with their affairs on one day and with their wife and kids on the other. Management and staff covered for these honourable and respected, yet morally corrupted salarymen, because they payed a lot of money for luxuary and privacy. There were even instructions for the front staff how to deal with phone calls from the wife.

I guess, it depends on the client. If you just want fun, then use a love hotel. If you have the financial needs and want to upgrade your playtime with the girl, go to a nice hotel. The later option can also give you an alibi ("I can't focus on my telework at home, so I will use the day-plan of a hotel to fullfill my obligations to my boss and customers"). On the other hand, if people see you walking to a love hotel or your car parking there, it is very obvious what you are doing there.
I stand corrected! Thanks for the insight
 
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I hate to disagree with you guys, but I have to at this point. Because luxuary hotels cater to rich clients and employ service professionals, guests can be sure that neither their safety nor their privacy will not be violated. When I was a student here, I used to do バイト at the bell desk for a well renowned 5 star hotel in Tokyo. You would be surprised how many deriheru have walked in and out during my shifts in the evening. Altough they looked and acted like prostitutes (driver drops them off, they go straight to the elevator, return after a few hours and get into the same car), we did not do anything for two reasons.

1. As long as other guests aren't disturbed, it is a consensual play between two adults and therefore no problem.

2. She might look like a whore, but she could be girlfriend or affair of a guests, who has already checked in. Can you imagine the trouble with the management if we asked a girl in a skimpy outfit "hey, can you proof me that you are not a prostitute?"

We had also multiple rich regulars who came with their affairs on one day and with their wife and kids on the other. Management and staff covered for these honourable and respected, yet morally corrupted salarymen, because they payed a lot of money for luxuary and privacy. There were even instructions for the front staff how to deal with phone calls from the wife.

I guess, it depends on the client. If you just want fun, then use a love hotel. If you have the financial needs and want to upgrade your playtime with the girl, go to a nice hotel. The later option can also give you an alibi ("I can't focus on my telework at home, so I will use the day-plan of a hotel to fullfill my obligations to my boss and customers"). On the other hand, if people see you walking to a love hotel or your car parking there, it is very obvious what you are doing there.

Somehow that reminded me of once being in the lobby of the Burj Al Arab, which is one of the fanciest hotels in blingy Dubai. A dude walks in with two hotties (probably Lebanese) that were dressed like pros. Nobody bats an eyelash.
 
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Somehow that reminded me of once being in the lobby of the Burj Al Arab, which is one of the fanciest hotels in blingy Dubai. A dude walks in with two hotties (probably Lebanese) that were dressed like pros. Nobody bats an eyelash.

I was once in Singapore and had to go to the reception with two Vietnamese girls wearing tiny mini skirts, string tops and killer high heels to ask what was my room number again. I was the only one who couldn't keep a straight face.
 
The only 5 star hotel where I ever had a problem was the beautiful but snobbish Manila Hotel. Arrived with the girl in the evening and passed through the lobby. Hotel management called the room and I had to escort the lady out. I probably didn’t have to, but being a gentleman chose to. It was all very embarrassing. But a great hotel. It was in the 90s. I don’t know the hotel policy today.
 
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i’ve mentioned this before but there is a site dedicated to which hotels in Japan you can get escorts into or not.
https://deriheruhotel.com/

all in Japanese but a useful tool to look at before booking.

But to the OP, if you are worried about your first question, then maybe p4p is not for you. You may feel like the whole world is watching you but no one really gives a fuck. I was in this raw meat restaurant in Ginza on Wednesday with a woman 20 years younger than me. we were sitting at the counter and every other couple there was a much older guy with a hot young girl. it was all papa katsu or dothan. No one gave a shit.
 
I would actually recommend the OP to get a room at a nice hotel in central Tokyo (use the Go To Campaign), call the shop and have her come to your room. Due to stay costs and transportation fee, your experience will cost you more than using a love hotel, but considering your wish for discretion and the fact that love hotels are usually located in or near prostitution areas, a upper-class hotel is the best choice for you in my opinion. Just make sure that you do not pick a hotel or a room where access to the elevator or some floors is restricted to outside guests, unless you have a security card. There were some situations during my バイトat the hotel where the girl was wandering around in the lobby or went to the bathroom, because she couldn't access the security locked floors, so she had to call the shop and they called the customer to come down and pick her up. Even in these situations, we just chuckled and forgot about it in an instance. So just chill and have fun.
 
You may feel like the whole world is watching you but no one really gives a fuck.

Those who suffer from that sort of paranoia do so because they feel what they're doing is fundamentally wrong. For Vice President Pence up there, P4P may not be the wisest of activities to engage in.

I must admit, I, too, have done the dash of shame back in the late 90s, from the off-campus party back to my dorm room, young girl in tow, hoping that none of my classmates see me. Not because I thought it was wrong, however, but simply because on numerous occasions the girl was a hideous beast but I'd had so many Natural Light Ice cans that my desire to put my dick in something outweighed my concerns over enduring reputation amongst peers. Thank the Buddha for those deep, dark, rural midwest nights.
 
The only 5 star hotel where I ever had a problem was the beautiful but snobbish Manila Hotel. Arrived with the girl in the evening and passed through the lobby. Hotel management called the room and I had to escort the lady out. I probably didn’t have to, but being a gentleman chose to. It was all very embarrassing. But a great hotel. It was in the 90s. I don’t know the hotel policy today.

At least the mid market hotels in Metro Manila are often girl friendly although the staff tends to check or hold onto the IDs of visitors brought in by guests for security reasons.
 
The only 5 star hotel where I ever had a problem was the beautiful but snobbish Manila Hotel. Arrived with the girl in the evening and passed through the lobby. Hotel management called the room and I had to escort the lady out. I probably didn’t have to, but being a gentleman chose to. It was all very embarrassing. But a great hotel. It was in the 90s. I don’t know the hotel policy today.

I stayed there once in the 90s and they were big on security. Metal detectors and bag searches. I went out to a shopping centre mid-afternoon and got hit on and picked up by two local girls. They asked where I was staying, and invited themselves over a couple of hours later. They got stopped in the lobby and staff called my room to clear my two friends. Then they were escorted to my room. On the way to my room they picked up some extra bath towels, so when I opened the door there were two smiling filipinas with big fluffy bath towels and a male hotel employee who had kindly escorted them. That is the good kind of security.
 
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At least the mid market hotels in Metro Manila are often girl friendly although the staff tends to check or hold onto the IDs of visitors brought in by guests for security reasons.

In Angeles City the cute receptionist would poke fun at me with that information. In the morning she would greet me and ask "How is Lisa?" to which I could only answer "who?" and she would be "that was the second of the three girls who visited you two nights ago".

As I respects everyone's private life I do not ask their names. And would forgot in few hours even if they offered that information to me.
 
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In Cebu I liked to stay at the Waterfront Hotel in the Lahug area (as opposed to the sister hotel of the same name on Mactan Island near the airport). It was a 4-star with quite a bit of security due to a casino on-premeses.

I was noticing that the girls I was bringing back as overnight guests were not given much scrutiny by security (walked right past them) when they and I were dressed smartly (tight dress for the lady and long pants and a shirt with collar for me which could easily be written off as a night out with a girlfriend), where other guests wearing sleeveless shirts, shorts and sandals bringing in girls in short shorts and tube tops looking like they picked them off the streets (which of course they probably did) got quite a bit of going over, ID checks and the like.

A little disgression and care in your presentation goes a long way.
 
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