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I had a SB date cancel last minute while I was in Gotanda, so I booked a erotic massage from a familiar agency.

Usually I get a great massage, some body rub, and a nice HE.
The provider this time started off with shower playtime like a DH (except this wasn't a DH). It escalated pretty fast to FS which was surprising to me and apparently to her. Crazy sexy 23 year old Japanese girl (I'm much much older). Bonus points that her massage technique was legit massage.

I got her Line contact info, but now I'm at a loss on how to keep a good thing going. Does anybody have recommendations when things click so perfectly? Text periodically to keep contact? Ask for a legit date? Try to convert to a SB relationship?
 
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See what she says & go from there. See if you are a valued customer or she wants to meet on the outside. Ask open questions to feel her out LATER like: when’s the best time to see you again. That will start to let you know what she thinks.
Sometimes ladies also regret some actions so see if even get a reply.
 
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See what she says & go from there. See if you are a valued customer or she wants to meet on the outside. Ask open questions to feel her out LATER like: when’s the best time to see you again. That will start to let you know what she thinks.
Sometimes ladies also regret some actions so see if even get a reply.
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Ah yeah, good point. Maybe she regretted what she did. I tried to offer her more money after and she refused. Said save for next time. She probably didn't want to be paid for that.
I'll ask for a massage next time and not expect more. Hope it was mutual. Thanks
 
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Maybe she regretted what she did. I tried to offer her more money after and she refused. Said save for next time. She probably didn't want to be paid for that.
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I doubt it, unless her or her shop are under increased scrutiny. Some girls just enjoy fucking you, or she's just super Japanese and doesn't feel comfortable taking a tip, lol.
 
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she's just super Japanese and doesn't feel comfortable taking a tip, lol.
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Next time try to give a little more than just the tip and maybe she enjoys more. :D:eek:

But the real question here is what is the shop OP visited? :p
 
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You did drop her a thank you? Mata aimashou?

I think banal is best. A genki desu ka, delivered after a few weeks, tell her the weather is nice, shit like that. Drop by again in a month and say hisashiburi, apologize for bothering her, (gotta do that) and see what happens.
 
From the title of the thread I thought it was going to be something like a "don't wipe your dick on the curtains" thread!

Bu to the OP, I don't want to burst your bubble as I know how good you must be feeling at the mo, but IMHO the 2nd time is never as good as the first.
The first time is all new and you got way more than what you expected, in fact it was almost perfect! It's gonna be hard to match.

But what do I know.

If you want to continue then I agree with @joeking . May be best to do the shop again, and if it is as good again, bring up the subject casually then and there. Playing the dumb gaijin card can work too. Tell her you don't understand this or that and ask her to help. It's the way of getting a date without getting a date.

Or just send send her a dick pic with a "remember me". Works once in 10,000.
 
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Next time try to give a little more than just the tip and maybe she enjoys more. :D:eek:

But the real question here is what is the shop OP visited? :p
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But I've only got a tip. a little stubby baby mushroom to be more exact.
 
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You did drop her a thank you? Mata aimashou?

I think banal is best. A genki desu ka, delivered after a few weeks, tell her the weather is nice, shit like that. Drop by again in a month and say hisashiburi, apologize for bothering her, (gotta do that) and see what happens.
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Thanks. yeah. I dropped a thank you on Line and she did a mata aimashou , but that could just be for any good customer.

There used to be a 18 yo DH girl that would do FS when I saw her. Managed to see her 4 times before she disappeared (maybe quit?) and I didn't set up any contact info.
Just hoping this new one doesn't ghost, or at least will still do a little on the side if she quits.
 
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Thanks. yeah. I dropped a thank you on Line and she did a mata aimashou , but that could just be for any good customer.

There used to be a 18 yo DH girl that would do FS when I saw her. Managed to see her 4 times before she disappeared (maybe quit?) and I didn't set up any contact info.
Just hoping this new one doesn't ghost, or at least will still do a little on the side if she quits.
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I had a wonderful experience a long time ago with a 19 year old girl who was new, she was from a well known massage website in Tokyo. When she was doing sumata on top, she said we could "make it normal". She put a condom on me and she rode me like it was the end of the world. We met four or five more times, she was studying law and wanted to make money for the trip to Europe with her classmates, and she asked me for advice on places to visit. After four months she disappeared, and her Line's account was inactive. She must have already enjoyed her trip to Europe. It was nice while it lasted.
 
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I followed the recommendations and I played it rather chill in setting up a second session. I texted mundane emojis and chatted every so often, and got good responses back. She let me pick the date/time and then set her work schedule around it. Since arrangement was so easy, then no real reason to try and set up a SB arrangement.

Repeat session was better than the first. It again seemed more of an escort service than a massage with play. I let her lead the way since it's advertised as massage service, but she promptly grabbed my cock and inserted when I was teasing her. Less pretenses this time and it escalated into FS during the walk to the shower. Next was a professional massage, more FS, flipped and gave her a massage. We set up tentative plans for another repeat. She is definitely a keeper, so I'll keep it going as long as I can. She's checked off a few items my mongering bucket list also.
 
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I followed the recommendations and I played it rather chill in setting up a second session. I texted mundane emojis and chatted every so often, and got good responses back. She let me pick the date/time and then set her work schedule around it. Since arrangement was so easy, then no real reason to try and set up a SB arrangement.

Repeat session was better than the first. It again seemed more of an escort service than a massage with play. I let her lead the way since it's advertised as massage service, but she promptly grabbed my cock and inserted when I was teasing her. Less pretenses this time and it escalated into FS during the walk to the shower. Next was a professional massage, more FS, flipped and gave her a massage. We set up tentative plans for another repeat. She is definitely a keeper, so I'll keep it going as long as I can. She's checked off a few items my mongering bucket list also.
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She's got daddy issues. Ride that gravy train as long as it'll last. Just keep a careful watch for signs of the Jenga blocks getting shaky, because girls like this are unstable at best and if you stay too long or milk too hard it isn't going to end well.
 
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Hi, my 1st post here.

Since arriving to Tokyo two years ago, I have had three more or less disappointing deriheru experiences, and concerning FS I couldn't find out how it works.

First experience was by an agency in Shibuya about a year ago (before Covid). The girl was at least 15 years older than in the picture, but pretty. Right when she arrived she offered to stay overnight for an reasonable extra tip. Her service was ma-ma and she had a strange smell I disliked. She was a smoker, too, what really disturbed when kissing.

Second experience: Girl turned out to be Indonesian (former flight attendant), not Japanese. Again, much older than expected and at least some 15 extra kilos. Services was ok, FS was done without even asking for it.

Third experience was in Shimbashi last year. I was talked into a 40 minutes course in a rental room. Waste of money. Girl (looks were ok) was not motivated at all. I ended the session after 30 minutes myself. FS was naturally not an issue.

After these experiences, I didn't go for any other places.
 
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She's got daddy issues. Ride that gravy train as long as it'll last. Just keep a careful watch for signs of the Jenga blocks getting shaky, because girls like this are unstable at best and if you stay too long or milk too hard it isn't going to end well.
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Good call. Kind of short lived experience, but now I'm thinking I should bow out quietly. Sex is wonderful, she's quite beautiful, but we seem to have nothing in common and that's getting a bit dry.
 
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