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Meet ladies for some fun.

How do I do this effectively and efficiently?

The only thing I've seen around T.A.G and the net on this subject was to post moments, and talk to girls until they ask you out. (I've tried talking to girls and asking for LINE after a few days to a week then get ghosted)

I know pretty much most girls use it to find guys - the "no romance" tag usually means "unless I like you" Like I'm chatting with a a couple girls now who put no romance, no DMs on their profile. . . .

I even had one girl change her profile picture to her face when I started messaging her. . .I get that part just. . .

How do you convert that to actually meeting up?

Does anyone here know how it really works?
 
I've found that money talks and bullshit walks...........but you can call me kooky.
 
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just4fun said:
I've found that money talks and bullshit walks...........but you can call me kooky.
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Can you explain this further? I don't know what you mean. . .you`re suggesting I offer girls money? On HelloTalk?
 
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Suppose you could always try using the ruse of language practice / cultural exposure as an excuse for a meetup. I've known people that had some success with that before. Find an interesting event and casually invite under the guise of wanting a local to help you get the most out of it. Make it sound platonic and see what happens. Worst thing she can do is politely decline.
 
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You could also try the direct, but indirect, approach.

The last couple girls I met I asked them if they wanted to go for a drink in Maruyama-cho. It’s the area of Dogenzaka with the love hotels.

They’ll either decline because they know what you mean and aren’t up for it, suggest another area if they’re not sure about you yet, or accept the offer.

If you do meet up, just pass by one of the few hotels you have pre-screened, and ask as you walk by, ask ‘ can we try in here?’.

Of course they may decline the offer. But I’ve found that by going through the steps, they are already making up their mind.

Keep in mind, it’s a numbers game as well. Don’t get discouraged, but also don’t push out of frustration. If they decline, just move along without it getting to you. You’ll land someone.
 
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TokyoExpat said:
and ask as you walk by, ask ‘ can we try in here?’.
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Better yet grow some balls and be a man the chicks dig. :eek::p

So instead of asking and forcing her to make the decision just say "wow, this place looks interesting" and walk in to the lobby holding hands.
 
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I’ve found that by leading them straight in always get the ‘Eh, Nani?...’ nonsense. They go along with it, but play the surprised game. That completely kills my mood for them.

By walking them straight to the place and asking if it’s cool, they actually seem to take it as more assertive, hence, the balls, and say ‘yes’. Without the nonsense.

Both ways you are making the decision, and by walking around the area with you, odds favorite she’s down.
 
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TokyoExpat said:
They go along with it, but play the surprised game.
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That might be an age issue too. Twenty something and they act surprised, thirty something and they are cool to follow you, forty something and they drag you in and fuck your brains out. :eek::D
 
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TokyoExpat said:
I’ve found that by leading them straight in always get the ‘Eh, Nani?...’ nonsense. They go along with it, but play the surprised game. That completely kills my mood for them.

By walking them straight to the place and asking if it’s cool, they actually seem to take it as more assertive, hence, the balls, and say ‘yes’. Without the nonsense.

Both ways you are making the decision, and by walking around the area with you, odds favorite she’s down.
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So that's how it works. Ok, I'll try it next time. Lol
 
Meeting women via HelloTalk is not overly hard.
With some effort (posting Moments, conversations over DMs etc), I managed to meet 3 women in a couple of months.
However, 2 of the 3 ended up being a friendship deal (which is fine too as I enjoyed the company).
The 3rd one is shaping up to be a longer game, but it may end up in a love hotel with some finesse. So we'll see ...
I also got some good Japanese practice out of it, and got to explore some areas of Tokyo I haven't been to before. So overall, I've been enjoying the experience.

PS: Also it's not too hard to find girls that want to talk dirty or send naked pictures etc. Unfortunately in all of my cases, said girls were far away, so meeting in person wasn't an option.
 
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just4fun said:
I've found that money talks and bullshit walks...........but you can call me kooky.
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lazy take but, expected given the board we’re on.

HelloTalk is one of the easiest places to meet women in Japan. Main issue is the quality is worse than if you just meet them on the street or in person in the first place.
Regardless, I know a ton of guys for whom HelloTalk is their bread and butter
 
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Sinapse said:
lazy take but, expected given the board we’re on.

HelloTalk is one of the easiest places to meet women in Japan. Main issue is the quality is worse than if you just meet them on the street or in person in the first place.
Regardless, I know a ton of guys for whom HelloTalk is their bread and butter
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I feel like there should be more to this post. But I guess I have to pay for that XD.

They do say nothing in life is free after all. . .
 
Sinapse said:
lazy take but, expected given the board we’re on.

HelloTalk is one of the easiest places to meet women in Japan. Main issue is the quality is worse than if you just meet them on the street or in person in the first place.
Regardless, I know a ton of guys for whom HelloTalk is their bread and butter
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Holy shit! Look what the cat dragged in. :p
 
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From my perspective, the main benefit of HelloTalk is that anyone you meet there would likely know some English and be interesting in Western culture (and guys).
My Japanese is still not that great, so knowing we can switch to English as a fallback makes me more relaxed and able to enjoy the conversation.

Just a fair warning, there's a few crazies, and few scammers (I ended up chatting with this Hong Kong gold-trading scammer chick for few weeks, that was a lot of fun actually).
 
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Thanks for letting me know of this app, rather fun to troll with.
Might get banned soon though
 
HT is one of the few ways I’ve managed to land college-age girls. Just have to be patient and show genuine interest.
 
shadowboxer said:
How often did you "score" here in Japan?
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It depends on how long you prep it before you go. If you work the app for like 2 or 3 months before you arrive in Japan, you can likely have 15 - 20 girls that you've chatted up and are ready to meet up casually.
In my case, by the end of a 3 week or 1 month vacay i'd probably be able to nail 10, but would only choose to do it with 5 or so since half the time they dont look as good as they do in the picture.
Everyone's different... depends on how good looking you are, how funny or interesting your personality is, how good you are at keeping a convo going for weeks before you arrive... and just dumb luck...
 
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BankerguyCanada said:
It depends on how long you prep it before you go. If you work the app for like 2 or 3 months before you arrive in Japan, you can likely have 15 - 20 girls that you've chatted up and are ready to meet up casually.
In my case, by the end of a 3 week or 1 month vacay i'd probably be able to nail 10, but would only choose to do it with 5 or so since half the time they dont look as good as they do in the picture.
Everyone's different... depends on how good looking you are, how funny or interesting your personality is, how good you are at keeping a convo going for weeks before you arrive... and just dumb luck...
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For Japan (but probably for all over the world) I would add "how wealthy you are"...
The only criteria I can count one is "just dumb luck" :confused::ROFLMAO:
 
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shadowboxer said:
For Japan (but probably for all over the world) I would add "how wealthy you are"...
The only criteria I can count one is "just dumb luck" :confused::ROFLMAO:
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Yes money matters tbh.... looking at the prices of things, splitting the bill, going cheapo on a new chick will dry thay pussay up fast AF.
 
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BankerguyCanada said:
Yes money matters tbh.... looking at the prices of things, splitting the bill, going cheapo on a new chick will dry thay pussay up fast AF.
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Sad thing is that on the opposite spending fortunes to satisfy them will not necessarily make the “pussay” wet. In most cases consider yourself happy if you get a thank you and a kiss on the cheek.
 
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Frenchy said:
Sad thing is that on the opposite spending fortunes to satisfy them will not necessarily make the “pussay” wet. In most cases consider yourself happy if you get a thank you and a kiss on the cheek.
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yup! You gotta just sorta go with the flow. But it isn't always horrible.... tbh, some of the best short term flings or even one-nighters that I've ever had were with girls who didn't give a F about $. They weren't pushing for the bottles of Dom, just a few highballs / beers.
 
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yup! You gotta just sorta go with the flow. But it isn't always horrible.... tbh, some of the best short term flings or even one-nighters that I've ever had were with girls who didn't give a F about $. They weren't pushing for the bottles of Dom, just a few highballs / beers.
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Agreed. There is no obvious price/quality relationship. For me it has been all over the place . Cheap was not necessarily good, and expensive not necessarily bad... but overall I have more expectations with the pricey escorts (or high maintenance SBs) and this is where it can get ugly if they fall short. Or worse , take me for an idiot.

I am blessed now to be with a lady who has a real job , a family and genuine interest in my modest appendage, maybe the not-so-modest personality too. Anyway it’s definitely not just about the $$ and finding as many clients/SDs as possible to get spoiled... and what a difference it makes ! As a result I’m happy to actually spoil her from time to time. Age is also important. Ladies in their 30s and early 40s are usually less demanding and self-centered.
 
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