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just snagged two girls off HT this week... havent met yet...might not lead to anything... but the key is to search for moments posted nearby and comment on them with something hella specific about the area you're both in...then after they check out your page and vice versa sent a message or follow...try to start a convo...and blammo
 
I've contacted literally hundreds of women & it's been pretty shallow so far. The women explain their wariness by saying they are constantly harassed by weirdos & scammers. One woman said "after chatting politely for a few weeks, the moment I give my Line details they send me dick pics & offer to lick me."
 
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DrCoffee said:
I've contacted literally hundreds of women & it's been pretty shallow so far. The women explain their wariness by saying they are constantly harassed by weirdos & scammers. One woman said "after chatting politely for a few weeks, the moment I give my Line details they send me dick pics & offer to lick me."
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damn hundreds? maybe you should try updating your profile pic. Try meeting her while she's with friends or invite her to hang with your friends.
 
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Yes money matters tbh.... looking at the prices of things, splitting the bill, going cheapo on a new chick will dry thay pussay up fast AF.
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I mean, towards end of my career, I never bought girls drinks until they bought me one, and I split the bill on virtually every date. Never had a poor reaction, even had some great reactions, like the girl chasing after me asking why I wouldn't buy them a drink, and turning that into a full blown conversation. It was pure practicality, I was dating too many women, it would have been way too expensive to pay for everyone. My wife to this day still pretends she was offended by splitting the bill on our first date, but I also know it was one of the things that kept her coming back. "The fuck, this guy is making ME pay? Who does he think he is? I guess I have to go out with him again to find out!" It's a powerful tool.

It's not about how much money you spend, but the value you bring to the interaction. Besides, getting her to pay is a way to get her to both figuratively and literally invest into the interaction.

WTF happened to this section? I'm reading threads here and it's just terribad advice. Did nanpa die when Sinapse and I stopped posting or something?
 
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How exactly did you tell them they were going to buy you a drink?
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Her - "Buy me a drink!"
Me - "What, you're gonna buy me a drink? Thank you!!"
Her - "Wait... what?"
Me - "You said you were going to buy me a drink! Thanks a lot, don't worry, I'll get the next round."
Her - "Oh, okay."

Or some such scenario. Obviously every interaction is unique, and every girl gets treated differently. Intentionally misunderstanding is one such way of reframing the situation to what you want.
 
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I've been using HT for a few years but for actual language shit (boring, right?). I don't really ever initiate DM with a girl, only twice was I DM's by girls and they quickly asked for me LINE and wanted to chat. Granted, I'm east-asian so my numbers are probably skewed compared to an average looking white guy.
 
I have actually met a few Japanese girls from HT here in the states. It’s not that hard and they are Uni students and have no means of transportation. Buses suck ass and well having a car is like a luxury. Can do a lot of fun things just find moments and comment and wait for reply and go from there. I know countless women from Japan that said as soon as I get here to message them to “hang out.”
 
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I mean, towards end of my career, I never bought girls drinks until they bought me one, and I split the bill on virtually every date. Never had a poor reaction, even had some great reactions, like the girl chasing after me asking why I wouldn't buy them a drink, and turning that into a full blown conversation. It was pure practicality, I was dating too many women, it would have been way too expensive to pay for everyone. My wife to this day still pretends she was offended by splitting the bill on our first date, but I also know it was one of the things that kept her coming back. "The fuck, this guy is making ME pay? Who does he think he is? I guess I have to go out with him again to find out!" It's a powerful tool.

It's not about how much money you spend, but the value you bring to the interaction. Besides, getting her to pay is a way to get her to both figuratively and literally invest into the interaction.

WTF happened to this section? I'm reading threads here and it's just terribad advice. Did nanpa die when Sinapse and I stopped posting or something?
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I'm curious, why did you end your career? Why did you decide to get married instead of continuing on the same path indefinitely? Was it because chasing girls no longer felt fulfilling or fun anymore after you'd done it so much? Was it because your success rate started dropping significantly due to age and you thought maybe it's time to settle down?
 
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Besides, getting her to pay is a way to get her to both figuratively and literally invest into the interaction.
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i tend to agree with that . if a girl takes for granted that you’re here to pay everything and she just has to show up (even in some cases very late … or not at all) then it’s just “professional”. Fine, nothing wrong with that per se, but then dont try to bs me it’s something else baby.

my lady gives stuff I don’t even ask for . Like plants for my place, or bringing ice cream. Or sometimes she cooks or does the cleaning. Nothing big of course but that is priceless for me. That’s one of the 2 reasons I don’t even need to look elsewhere now. The other reason is more private :)
 
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I am not quite sure how much it is about freeloading in general, but I am pretty certain most girls will be happy to go out just to eat with you without doing anything else as long as you don't make the move.
 
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Just my view, but a man always pays when we’re with a woman. It doesn’t matter if it’s a first date, with a colleague, or you’re already sleeping together. Likewise, you shouldn’t expect anything in return. No women will sleep with you from the pressure of you spending $30 on a cake set.

However, it’s the mindset and vibe you throw off because you are not expecting anything in return, that triggers a different response from them.

At the same time, don’t try to talk up your own book. Most women are incredibly reasonable. As long as you’re a gentlemen, and she isn’t showing a bunch of red flags, it should go well. Maybe not the first night, but when they go to bed after dinner, they’ll probably compare the evening with you to all the bad experiences they’ve had, and you’ll come out on top.

Any woman ordering champagne on a first a meeting is a clear red flag, so guard yourself. But if it’s your idea, enjoy the moment, but take it for what it is.
 
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I'm also in LA, and just recently decided to give HelloTalk another try (after 6 month hiatus after coming back from Japan).
I started chatting with a girl that liked one of my posts - a Japanese expat wife with lots of free time. We hit it off, decide to meet up for coffee, then for lunch.
I decided to play it slow, and just see where it goes. I offered to pay for coffee, she insisted we split, so I didn't push any further and we did that. Same happened for lunch. She's pretty cool, but so far things are definitely in the friends category.
She invited me to join her for lunch with her female friends, another 2 expat wives. That was a lot of fun. One of them seems particularly playful, so now I'm working on a plan how to see her alone ;)
Any any rate, even if nothing R-rated happens, I get to have a great lunch / coffee company and I get to practice my Japanese, so it's all good in my book! :D
 
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Got a cute girl back to my apartment the other day after grabbing a quick bite at some restaurant. I wasn't able to actually do the dirty with her but we're meeting again soon.

Had a nice FwB relationship for about 5-6 months with a cute college chick off HelloTalk too. It's a pretty good app to game with, assuming you have solid Japanese (since nearly every girl I've met on this app basically spoke zero English).
 
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baller918 said:
Got a cute girl back to my apartment the other day after grabbing a quick bite at some restaurant. I wasn't able to actually do the dirty with her but we're meeting again soon.

Had a nice FwB relationship for about 5-6 months with a cute college chick off HelloTalk too. It's a pretty good app to game with, assuming you have solid Japanese (since nearly every girl I've met on this app basically spoke zero English).
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Just for interest. Why did you chose to go back to your apartment? There’s always different reasons, cost, comfort. From my interactions, women use the trip to our apartments to assess us. Which leads to other problems.

One of the great aspects of Japan is the Love Hotel. If dates are going well, there is usually a LH nearby. Suggest visiting one, instead of going back to your place, cuts out a lot of bullshit. It’s fairly easy to work into a conversation. The 8k yen isn’t worth potential horror that comes with your home involved. Unless of course, you think she’s a keeper. But every women strings men along. It’s a balance.
 
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Just for interest. Why did you chose to go back to your apartment? There’s always different reasons, cost, comfort. From my interactions, women use the trip to our apartments to assess us. Which leads to other problems.

One of the great aspects of Japan is the Love Hotel. If dates are going well, there is usually a LH nearby. Suggest visiting one, instead of going back to your place, cuts out a lot of bullshit. It’s fairly easy to work into a conversation. The 8k yen isn’t worth potential horror that comes with your home involved. Unless of course, you think she’s a keeper. But every women strings men along. It’s a balance.
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Unfortunately, the area I live in doesn't have many LHs. I would prefer LHs for convenience and to avoid any crazy situations at home but it's just not an option. So it's pretty much either bring girls back home or walk away empty-handed.

I luckily haven't had any bad experiences yet but it's something I do worry about.
 
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