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sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

Thats highly specific whipping! You are a connoisseur my friend :)

Indeed that is the mark of a scholar and a gentleman. I have to admit I cannot always make the distinction between being whipped with 1972 or 1973 antenna.
 
Man, SDJ is a gold mine. Most ask for 3万円 and that's even negotiable. Some girls I've chatted with are afraid of scaring away prospects by naming a number and/or sharing pics. I haven't met up with anyone yet, but things are looking promising. More so than my past experience with SA.
 
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Man, SDJ is a gold mine. Most ask for 3万円 and that's even negotiable. Some girls I've chatted with are afraid of scaring away prospects by naming a number and/or sharing pics. I haven't met up with anyone yet, but things are looking promising. More so than my past experience with SA.

SA is a low bar to compare to, and sometimes (not always) there’s a reason no pics are forthcoming, but there is plenty of great potential on SD. Good luck!
 
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I've had decent success on SA, but it was a lot more effort for sure.
 
Started using SD. I'm new to パパ活, but used wakuwaku and pcmax back in the day for some quick play. SD has been amazing so far.

That being said, my first two experiences were on extreme ends of the spectrum.

1) Girl had a great picture and her profile seemed interesting. She said for 2 she could meet up and go to a hotel (Red Flag 1 ). She ended up being an hour late (Red Flag 2), which I normally would have just gone home, but I happen to have been stuck in that area all day so I just did some errands until she arrived.
Oh, I should have left.... She was NOTHING like her picture. Overweight, and a less than average face. I immediately turned around and started walking away, but she grabbed my shoulder and started making a fuss. I sighed and decided to just head to a hotel with her.
The sex wasn't bad, but I walked out with a huge sense of dissatisfaction. I'm a bit pissed at myself since I saw the red flags, but decided against my gut.

2) Learning from my mistake I decided the 顔合わせ was important. Spent a good chunk of time screening this time around, and decided on a 28 year old that agreed to Adult stuff from 2nd time onward. She also had multiple pictures which looked good.
For the first round I invited her for drinks for 1 Man. At the meetup, she looked way better than her pics. Absolutely my type of woman. We went to a small bar, got good and liquored up, and the chemistry was good. Really great conversation, she didn't hold back on drinking. Passed her the allowance we headed out, and rather than heading back, I motioned towards the love hotel area. She said if I could do 3, we could go. Great!
Sex was great, you could tell she wanted to please. Her only bad quirk is that she wouldn't do kissing, had to be the kind where they don't open their mouth.
We finished up had a good chat, I decided to head out, but she stopped me and asked if we could hang out a bit more.
Great girl, overall damage of 4man, plus cost of drinks/hotel.

Having used older deai sites, I can say SD.jp is pretty refreshing. Seems like a lot of girls are on here. Out of curiosity, how often do you guys get unsolicited messages? I seem to be getting about 5-6 a day, which seems excessive.
 
Out of curiosity, how often do you guys get unsolicited messages?
I usually receive unsolicited messages, even several weeks after I signed up. I prefer to go for the coffee first to avoid disappointment. Truly SBs want to know the SD first and see if there is a connection first, specially the beginners. The number of girls who offer to go directly "adult" and show sexy photos has increased a lot, they are usually SW who have run out of their hooking places due to COVID and the fall of regular Japanese clients. After graduations and collage holidays there are many young girls looking for income for their trip abroad or to buy their firs LV bag or iPhone 12 Pro. They also compete with each other to see who earns the most. And those who have lost their part-time jobs and need to cover regular expenses. There are sugar candies for all tastes and needs. If you have a little patience, you will easily find what you are looking for. Good luck.
 
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A WORD OF WARNING:

If you are using this site (sugardaddy.jp), please be cautious of extortion or blackmail attempts.
I'd encourage you to read this report: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/urgent-help-needed.26088

We know this had been happening with Japanese people using this site (well, not just this site...), but this is the first real report we've gotten from someone who's on TAG.

If you're involved in a sugar relationship, always:
- Protect your personal information. Avoid giving out phone numbers and don't link anything that contains your real info.
- Do not give out your real name or physical address (i.e. don't invite SB's to your place of residence)
- Do not give out your occupation or perhaps your level of wealth.
- Use the absolute minimum amount of information required to arrange your event.
- Do not transfer funds through a PayPal or EBT -- These would likely reveal your real information and eventually traceable.

Please protect yourself.
 
I saw a post on SB of a young women who has had a really bad time and I'd love to help her. But as a reformed White Knight I'm not getting involved.
 
A WORD OF WARNING:

If you are using this site (sugardaddy.jp), please be cautious of extortion or blackmail attempts.
I'd encourage you to read this report: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/urgent-help-needed.26088

We know this had been happening with Japanese people using this site (well, not just this site...), but this is the first real report we've gotten from someone who's on TAG.

If you're involved in a sugar relationship, always:
- Protect your personal information. Avoid giving out phone numbers and don't link anything that contains your real info.
- Do not give out your real name or physical address (i.e. don't invite SB's to your place of residence)
- Do not give out your occupation or perhaps your level of wealth.
- Use the absolute minimum amount of information required to arrange your event.
- Do not transfer funds through a PayPal or EBT -- These would likely reveal your real information and eventually traceable.

Please protect yourself.

i did all of this ... but I guess it’s ok as long as the girl knows you are a bit mad and you have as much info about her :)
 
Started using SD. I'm new to パパ活, but used wakuwaku and pcmax back in the day for some quick play. SD has been amazing so far.

That being said, my first two experiences were on extreme ends of the spectrum.

1) Girl had a great picture and her profile seemed interesting. She said for 2 she could meet up and go to a hotel (Red Flag 1 ). She ended up being an hour late (Red Flag 2), which I normally would have just gone home, but I happen to have been stuck in that area all day so I just did some errands until she arrived.
Oh, I should have left.... She was NOTHING like her picture. Overweight, and a less than average face. I immediately turned around and started walking away, but she grabbed my shoulder and started making a fuss. I sighed and decided to just head to a hotel with her.
The sex wasn't bad, but I walked out with a huge sense of dissatisfaction. I'm a bit pissed at myself since I saw the red flags, but decided against my gut.

2) Learning from my mistake I decided the 顔合わせ was important. Spent a good chunk of time screening this time around, and decided on a 28 year old that agreed to Adult stuff from 2nd time onward. She also had multiple pictures which looked good.
For the first round I invited her for drinks for 1 Man. At the meetup, she looked way better than her pics. Absolutely my type of woman. We went to a small bar, got good and liquored up, and the chemistry was good. Really great conversation, she didn't hold back on drinking. Passed her the allowance we headed out, and rather than heading back, I motioned towards the love hotel area. She said if I could do 3, we could go. Great!
Sex was great, you could tell she wanted to please. Her only bad quirk is that she wouldn't do kissing, had to be the kind where they don't open their mouth.
We finished up had a good chat, I decided to head out, but she stopped me and asked if we could hang out a bit more.
Great girl, overall damage of 4man, plus cost of drinks/hotel.

Having used older deai sites, I can say SD.jp is pretty refreshing. Seems like a lot of girls are on here. Out of curiosity, how often do you guys get unsolicited messages? I seem to be getting about 5-6 a day, which seems excessive.


Thanks for sharing, did you have to speak japanese the whole time?
 
Little bit more info I’ve learned.

Last few times I’ve been in Tokyo I’ve had a bit of extra time and used the 掲示板function looking for girls that are up for it now.

Maybe just that my banter is no good, but we send messages back and forth and come to an arrangement, but right before we are due to meet (like 10 minutes) I check my messages and they have blocked me.
Messages were tame and just confirming prices, and they were ok with a non-yamato. Then the road blocks come up like the emperor is driving past.

Pretty sure I’m dealing with a fat 55 year old old dude sitting behind a computer, farming out girls. Once he can’t find some one to service the overseas boy, he blocks me.

Waste of time!
 
Pretty sure I’m dealing with a fat 55 year old old dude sitting behind a computer, farming out girls. Once he can’t find some one to service the overseas boy, he blocks me.
Yeah... this is more than likely the case... sadly.
 
I see women saying that people have reported them, can you see that they have been reported or that yourself has been reported?
 
I see women saying that people have reported them, can you see that they have been reported or that yourself has been reported?
I think you need to be a diamond member to see the number of reports.
Females can see if a male has a lot of reports. It pops up on the screen below your name.
 
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Females can see if a male has a lot of reports. It pops up on the screen below your name.

Oh. That's news to me. Now I want to ask one of the girls I'm in contact with if I've been reported. Do you know if they give the reasons?
 
I’m gonna be in Nagoya in the coming days and I’m having probs arranging a date thru SD.

contact Tokyo girls and I get replies 80-90% of the time.
Same MO in Nagoya gets almost no replies.
Also a hell of a lot of the ladies online in Nagoya are married. Want to meet day time hours while hubby is at work.

Way harder to crack than Tokyo.
 
I’m gonna be in Nagoya in the coming days and I’m having probs arranging a date thru SD.

contact Tokyo girls and I get replies 80-90% of the time.
Same MO in Nagoya gets almost no replies.
Also a hell of a lot of the ladies online in Nagoya are married. Want to meet day time hours
Nagoya is a difficult place. There is a fake SB that claims to be there temporarily. She shared LINE easily, started quickly to talk about investing in FX and bla-bla. Her LINE Timeline is recent and fake. Photos are all from a Chinese influencer who has warned on Instagram that someone is using her photos on a dating website. I reported and blocked her, but just in case don’t waste your time with her.
 
Nagoya is a difficult place. There is a fake SB that claims to be there temporarily. She shared LINE easily, started quickly to talk about investing in FX and bla-bla. Her LINE Timeline is recent and fake. Photos are all from a Chinese influencer who has warned on Instagram that someone is using her photos on a dating website. I reported and blocked her, but just in case don’t waste your time with her.

Does this SB claim by any chance to be Japanese-Korean?
 
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So, due to Covid and working from home it's harder to justify "going out* and I can't just "work late" anymore. So, due to having limited time the girls on SD.jp suggesting we meet outside a hotel and if things are good we move into the hotel (顔合わせしてお互いによければ。。。) were tempting. Don't give in to this temptation!

I met a girl the other day after getting cancelled on who had blurry, but attractive pictures. She looked okay outside the hotel. Of course, she had a mask on so it was hard to tell. Got into the hotel and it turned out she had a skin condition on her whole upper body.... Also, she wasn't kinda skinny like her description.

What I'm saying is, do the coffee thing first. Had I the time, I would've done that.
 
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So, due to Covid and working from home it's harder to justify "going out* and I can't just "work late" anymore. So, due to having limited time the girls on SD.jp suggesting we meet outside a hotel and if things are good we move into the hotel (顔合わせしてお互いによければ。。。) were tempting. Don't give in to this temptation!

I met a girl the other day after getting cancelled on who had blurry, but attractive pictures. She looked okay outside the hotel. Of course, she had a mask on so it was hard to tell. Got into the hotel and it turned out she had a skin condition on her whole upper body.... Also, she wasn't kinda skinny like her description.

What I'm saying is, do the coffee thing first. Had I the time, I would've done that.
I would have walked away after noticing she wasn't kinda skinny as per her description.