When you arrange your regular FWB tryst with multiple Japanese women who all know each other and are ok with it, you let me know,
@psd.
I stand by my position that Japan is still largely a conservative sexual environment. Whatever elements of deviance and alternative lifestyle exist are buried in a culture of turning a blind eye and feigned ignorance. This is not a bad thing when your standing in social groups is so heavily scrutinized. But it is not sexual liberty.
I have done such, where my Japanese girlfriends even actively arranged sexual encounters with other women . But there is a kind of trick to it:
1) Honne and Tatemae Revisited
Because women fear being negatively judged and condemned, many actively or subconsciously hide their sexuality.
The women can pretend to be other than what she really is OR wants to do. Unless the guy pulls this out from the woman, she can actively and verbally DENY that's how she is or what she really wants to try.
2) The Guy Needs To Encourage & Be Non-Judgmental
The guy can "trap her" or create situations where her true sexuality comes out. He must show he's non-judgmental for this to work. And many guys FAIL and I mean FAIL horribly at doing this.
Even if not with his words, which by itself can be destructive enough and to include negative comments about other women, but with his attitude and negative looks.
What I try to do is trap women with 3rd party stories about sex. My "Verbal Sexual Escalation" trick that I talk about in PUA topics.
My swinger friends and I create verbal sexual scenarios (usually indirect at first) and monitor her verbal, facial, and body language reactions. I show that I'm accepting and trusting. We give her inner sexuality a positive route that it can follow.
That's partially how we find women who can or encourage women to swing and enjoy the lifestyle.
3) Better Find Out If A Prude Or Not Early
But there is a double twist on this too. She might be showing you she is a prude, because that is EXACTLY what she is.
A guy better find out which she is VERY EARLY in the relationship. Within having sex with her 5X or less or within 2 weeks or so of an active sexual relationship.
This is because many women will form a pattern or habit. A woman might have great potential that is never realized. Many women will define you or sexual relationships with you to only go a certain way. The more time that passes, the more set and rigid many women become in her sexual interactions with you. And it can be specifically with you, while she can behave very DIFFERENTLY with OTHER men.