hi, new here, but was really interested in this thread and read all of it through, and wanted to post up my case, and see about getting some input from you guys..
so i met this gal on seeking, and we ended up meeting up for dinner, and getting along super well.. ended up going to a bar.. ended up sharing a kiss the first date, and i dropped her home.. after arriving home, we texted back and forth, and we kinda never got to talking about money.. we end up going on a few more dates, and then finally she brings up financial stability being one of the things shes worried for, and gets depressed about, so i decide to send her 2500$ from one day of gambling winnings for her to hold on to hopefully not be depressed.. we continue dating, and have sex obviously.. she ends up staying with me weeks at a time, and everything is cool.. no talk about money.. its like we're bf/gf but not official yet? she sometimes will mention her previous sd's in conversations, and how she doesn't treat me the same as them, and etc etc..
we go shopping and i spend a thousand on her.. so.. now.. i'm kinda confused what we are now.. shes 10yrs younger than me, but i guess being 34, i'm a pretty young sd? maybe more hip than her previous? someone shes not embarrassed to be around? iono.. i'm kinda lost now.. we're about 2-3 months into it now.. and have i totally lost myself in this relationship? is this a real relationship? i'm confused.. she'll stay with me 3-4days in a row, and often times we wont even have sex, then there's times we'll 2-3 times in one sitting.. i spent new years with some of her gf's friends.. and she's met even one of my friends.. shes japanese fob, and i'm chinese abc.. if that maybe matters? thoughts and questions welcome.. i dunno what we're doing.. and if it's ok.. or if i'm in the right forum to be asking about this..