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Could someone please teach me a safe introduction to paid sex?

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Hello,

First post here. If it's the wrong place, please tell me.

I have been living in Japan for almost 2 years and I didn't have any luck with unpaid women. Before returning home I was thinking about giving a try on paid ones.

I have read recommendations on this forum, but I know nothing about all the process and how to make sure it won't end badly (I mean *really* badly, like scammed, robbed and/or killed).

I don't have a huge budget, but I understand that quality has a price, so I won't settle for an unsatisfying experience.

I don't know if there's a 101 guide on how to do this. In case, please link me it.

Any advice would be appreciated!
Thank you very much!
 
I have read recommendations on this forum, but I know nothing about all the process and how to make sure it won't end badly (I mean *really* badly, like scammed, robbed and/or killed).
Stick to the reviews on this site and you'll be safe. That last part in bold, won't happen unless you're the one doing the robbing and killing. Not sure where you got that idea of something like that happening. Please keep in mind that everyone has different chemistry and expectations... you may not get the same exact experience in a review. The reviews are more or less a loose guide and reliability barometer of the service being reviewed.

I don't have a huge budget, but I understand that quality has a price, so I won't settle for an unsatisfying experience.
Even the most expensive experience runs a risk of you being unsatisfied. It goes both ways... sometimes the cheapest is the best and vice versa for most expensive.

Bottom line, if you're looking for actual sex. Please book an independent (reviewed here) or a Soapland (review here as well). All other services inbetween don't provide 'sex' as a part of the service because it's illegal to do so.

The process is pretty simple - pick the service you want to try. If it's a delivery service, make an appointment, go to the hotel and let them know you've arrived and the girl will show up.
Soaplands - you walk-in to the shop and pick who you want to see among those available to you. Independents and other select agencies, pick a meeting spot outside the hotel and the girl will meet you there and proceed to a hotel.

Fair warning - people that get overly paranoid about the process, usually don't have a good time because they can't get over the 'thought' they they are going to be scammed or blackmailed or some other nonsense. Fact - the women working in the business have a far higher risk of something happening to them than you, the client.
 
Hello,

Welcome to this world!

The risk of getting into any kind of trouble is very slim here in Japan. You just need to stay on the legal side and abide by the rules of the shop you're visiting. The only people I know who got into trouble, went with street hookers soliciting them on the streets while being themselves way too intoxicated.

Reviews here are usually accurate. Apart from that if you read Japanese, they are many dedicated forums that deal with this particular topic. The only problem is that you usually read 1 useful comment out of 9 bullshit ones (I might be reading things at the wrong spot though :LOL:).

Money usually isn't everything but investing a bit more can give you sometimes a better experience. If you choose a shop that has counter, the guys out there are most of the time helpful: what kind of girl you're looking for, breast size, body type, etc. You can as well mention that you're looking for someone that is good at dealing with beginners/shy people.

Safe mongering and don't forget to tell us about your experience!
 
Hello,

First post here. If it's the wrong place, please tell me.

I have been living in Japan for almost 2 years and I didn't have any luck with unpaid women. Before returning home I was thinking about giving a try on paid ones.

I have read recommendations on this forum, but I know nothing about all the process and how to make sure it won't end badly (I mean *really* badly, like scammed, robbed and/or killed).

I don't have a huge budget, but I understand that quality has a price, so I won't settle for an unsatisfying experience.

I don't know if there's a 101 guide on how to do this. In case, please link me it.

Any advice would be appreciated!
Thank you very much!
Haha, I think the chances of getting killed are not that high...otherwise this forum would be empty :ROFLMAO:
If this is your first time and you are kinda hesitant just read the reviews on this page and use them as a guide. Go for a shop that has a lot of positive reviews and also pick something that matches your Japanese level. If you don't speak Japanese, your options are more limited, but I think TAG is a very good starting point to inform yourself. Some people here try out unknown shops to write a review about them, other shops have been reviewed dozens of times. If you want to make sure you have a smooth first experience, it's probably a good idea to stick to something that worked well for a lot of members on the forum.
 
A key thing to remember that will largely keep you out of trouble in Japan, is that anybody who approaches you on the street does not have your best interest at heart.

Touts (be they Asian or African), massage girls, or anybody else approaching you on the street should be politely rebuffed or completely ignored.

Even if they were honest, which most (all) of them are not, if the service they were promoting was any good, they wouldn’t need to be hawking for customers on the street.
 
Hello,

First post here. If it's the wrong place, please tell me.

I have been living in Japan for almost 2 years and I didn't have any luck with unpaid women. Before returning home I was thinking about giving a try on paid ones.

I have read recommendations on this forum, but I know nothing about all the process and how to make sure it won't end badly (I mean *really* badly, like scammed, robbed and/or killed).

I don't have a huge budget, but I understand that quality has a price, so I won't settle for an unsatisfying experience.

I don't know if there's a 101 guide on how to do this. In case, please link me it.

Any advice would be appreciated!
Thank you very much!


Do you speak any Japanese? If not, then there are some agencies with English speaking operators. Some agencies aren't allowed to advertise on TAG for whatever reason, but are very reputable.
 
Thank you very much for your replies!

By "reviews" you mean those:
https://tokyoadultguide.com/forums/independent-japan-escort-reviews.64/
https://tokyoadultguide.com/forums/soapland-reviews.59/
Right?

I read some of them, but I felt quite as lost as I felt before. Many of them are quite old and I don't know if they are still valid.

Also, If I go to a Soapland and I get accepted (I read there are many "no gaijin" ones), this is not were the "deeds" will be done, but we would still need to move to an hotel, right?

My Japanese is not that good, but I can handle everyday conversation pretty well.

I don't know if it possible to provide links to the suggested independents or Soaplands, but if it is and you would, it will be very appreciated!

For my first time I would like to go low and maybe aiming at something like 30k/2h?

Thank you very much!
 
Also, If I go to a Soapland and I get accepted (I read there are many "no gaijin" ones), this is not were the "deeds" will be done, but we would still need to move to an hotel, right?
Soaplands are in-call. It's all done at the location you are visiting. You walk-in to the shop, pick your girl and she leads you to a room in the shop.

I read some of them, but I felt quite as lost as I felt before. Many of them are quite old and I don't know if they are still valid.
If the shop is still open and the review is from the past year, it's likely valid excepting that the provider may have left. You do understand that COVID is going on, right? Activity is down by about 75% compared to 2019.

I don't know if it possible to provide links to the suggested independents or Soaplands, but if it is and you would, it will be very appreciated!
We don't do suggestions. That's what the reviews are for - so you can make an educated decision. Even if we recommend someone, you could still wind up with a 50/50 chance of having a good time vs a bad time.
Each encounter is different with different people with different chemistry. You're meeting women, not robots. (although some can be kinda mechanical...)
 
Uno Q, I’ve had quite a bit of luck and experience while exploring Tokyo in the pay for play scene with very little Japanese spoken. Im not sure how the rules go for mentioning shops and names but a lot of the older threads have vital info as well… one member went as far as listing webpages, foreigner okay, yes no maybe so, price etc. I first started searching online for massage shops, the shop I frequented in Shinjuku doesn’t post the tug deed on the page but includes it basically without explanation and foreign friendly, and it’s half the cost of the penetration deed so I actually did that more than using paid service and delivery but that too I used one main shop and I’ve seen it mentioned on reviews so I think I could do a review but it is from 2020, I left in January this year. After experiencing luck both with tug and call in service I didn’t look further or try a lot of companies I’m not sure if I was just lucky or what not. Any how I will point you in a good direction, I would go out walking around 1 am and in the Yoshiwara area the men outside would greet me and wave to come over, so this gesture alone and obviously being foreign signaled to me they were open to me checking it out however I knew very little Japanese so I nodded and keep walking to survey the places known as tug locations so basically I am saying venture there at night and simply getting the come in signal is a start and go from there as an option.. sure it may be hit or miss but the experience could be even more of a storybook memory such as the 8+ I experienced. Also, I never really knew if the locations I went for a massage was a real massage or tug location but to my surprise 50% of the places I visited had signs out front for example in Akihabara I visited five shops, and each one was welcoming. First clue it’s more likely a tug shop is price between 8000¥. - 12000 ¥ almost 75% I chose that selection came with meat grab release, but keep in mind if a shower or wash is involved it cuts into the time hence 1 hr and 25 min of that deduct the play time. Again, I was not sure these places were non sexuaI however after midnight I was pretty confident and to my amazement correct almost every time and very few from the places “I randomly selected” were professional massage only…but we all know there’s both. Out of my experiences the soap land experience I must say that was all inclusive and Yoshiwara can’t be beaten for finding that. I do believe a lot of the shops operate very professionally and have appointments and regulars, etc a few times I was told to wait, come back, or a few didn’t decline me but simple didn’t open the door so they have cams in front and u get the hint I’m sure but if door opens and greeted reply in basic Japanese your basically in there ;) after researching a few, trying a few I struck it well both via free lancing knocking at the door locations It went very well, also The websites mentioned on these reviews seem great if you communicate basic Japanese but if your foreigner and don’t speak Japanese like me the options are there but not overflowing… it took a little courage, and I suppose luck charm or whatever it may be called, but I literally had more than a few blasts, two of the girls I met one from website, and my only soap experience gave their contact which is great if such connections are made. I hope my freelance synopsis offers incite on how I maneuvered while in Tokyo, I used this same technique in Nagoya so browsing and going off of vibe and experience works my friend, good luck exploring.
 
Hey OP I have only been in the p4p scene for a month but tried a number of things, let me give you the most simple summary: find a med/high quality soapland that is gaijin friendly, go there and say "fuzoku hajimete" and that's it. You'll get a nice girl guiding you in absolutely everything, you'll both get washed, you'll gargle that disgusting antibacterial crap, you'll get your dick suck, you'll eat some pussy, you'll have sex, you won't get robbed or sick or whatever, AND you'll get a nice hug at the end.

All the other stuff is usually much more time & money consuming, and you're not even guaranteed to fuck.

Now I can't even give you the name of a nice mid/high end soapland because I only went (4 times) to good old cheap Club Max Ikebukuro, which I like but the girls beauty is usually 404 so for a first time that might be tough.


edit: also, in soapland all the fun happen in one room. It's like a big bathroom, one half is shower/bath, other half is normal room with a "bed" (more like a mat with towels on it), all the towels and stuff get changed between each client. It's nice. Also usually you get a cold tea for free, how cool is that.
 
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Uno Q, I’ve had quite a bit of luck and experience while exploring Tokyo in the pay for play scene with very little Japanese spoken. Im not sure how the rules go for mentioning shops and names but a lot of the older threads have vital info as well… one member went as far as listing webpages, foreigner okay, yes no maybe so, price etc. I first started searching online for massage shops, the shop I frequented in Shinjuku doesn’t post the tug deed on the page but includes it basically without explanation and foreign friendly, and it’s half the cost of the penetration deed so I actually did that more than using paid service and delivery but that too I used one main shop and I’ve seen it mentioned on reviews so I think I could do a review but it is from 2020, I left in January this year. After experiencing luck both with tug and call in service I didn’t look further or try a lot of companies I’m not sure if I was just lucky or what not. Any how I will point you in a good direction, I would go out walking around 1 am and in the Yoshiwara area the men outside would greet me and wave to come over, so this gesture alone and obviously being foreign signaled to me they were open to me checking it out however I knew very little Japanese so I nodded and keep walking to survey the places known as tug locations so basically I am saying venture there at night and simply getting the come in signal is a start and go from there as an option.. sure it may be hit or miss but the experience could be even more of a storybook memory such as the 8+ I experienced. Also, I never really knew if the locations I went for a massage was a real massage or tug location but to my surprise 50% of the places I visited had signs out front for example in Akihabara I visited five shops, and each one was welcoming. First clue it’s more likely a tug shop is price between 8000¥. - 12000 ¥ almost 75% I chose that selection came with meat grab release, but keep in mind if a shower or wash is involved it cuts into the time hence 1 hr and 25 min of that deduct the play time. Again, I was not sure these places were non sexuaI however after midnight I was pretty confident and to my amazement correct almost every time and very few from the places “I randomly selected” were professional massage only…but we all know there’s both. Out of my experiences the soap land experience I must say that was all inclusive and Yoshiwara can’t be beaten for finding that. I do believe a lot of the shops operate very professionally and have appointments and regulars, etc a few times I was told to wait, come back, or a few didn’t decline me but simple didn’t open the door so they have cams in front and u get the hint I’m sure but if door opens and greeted reply in basic Japanese your basically in there ;) after researching a few, trying a few I struck it well both via free lancing knocking at the door locations It went very well, also The websites mentioned on these reviews seem great if you communicate basic Japanese but if your foreigner and don’t speak Japanese like me the options are there but not overflowing… it took a little courage, and I suppose luck charm or whatever it may be called, but I literally had more than a few blasts, two of the girls I met one from website, and my only soap experience gave their contact which is great if such connections are made. I hope my freelance synopsis offers incite on how I maneuvered while in Tokyo, I used this same technique in Nagoya so browsing and going off of vibe and experience works my friend, good luck exploring.
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All Yoshiwara shops are closed by midnight.
Your also right but it was close to midnight because I was done with the final soap fun call, and the shop next door was waving me over but I was low on fumes knowhatimean
 
All Yoshiwara shops are closed by midnight.
. Your right in that area it’s lights out, but it was definitely late as h____ 1145pm+. Shinjuku is well after midnight so take what I said and apply it there.. trust me I won’t brag one bit due to fear of penis karma.
 
Hello,

First post here. If it's the wrong place, please tell me.

I have been living in Japan for almost 2 years and I didn't have any luck with unpaid women. Before returning home I was thinking about giving a try on paid ones.

I have read recommendations on this forum, but I know nothing about all the process and how to make sure it won't end badly (I mean *really* badly, like scammed, robbed and/or killed).

I don't have a huge budget, but I understand that quality has a price, so I won't settle for an unsatisfying experience.

I don't know if there's a 101 guide on how to do this. In case, please link me it.

Any advice would be appreciated!
Thank you very much!

Tell the woman you're a virgin don't be shy and be honest....
 
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And if all of the above doesn’t work. Show 10 Man. Money is universal language, specially in the sex business. Open many doors and spread many sexy legs. :D
 
That depends... if you like tea... and if you like it cold...
Cold tea is great in Summer
I would go for the cold tea first and foremost. The sex is just icing on the cake :)