Soapland Nervousness

KazumaKiryu

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I'm into mood after working day in and day out relaxing feel and "look forward to" be able to calmly and relaxing call a beautiful woman to my hotel for massage. While laying back feel great and anticipating my visit. VS. Going to a unknown place for the first time and doing whatever. Like I'm willing but it's uncomfortable, of course it's traditional and I will get around this easy. But how do some of you break the soapland nervousness.

To me this is a traditional act-Therefore I am content .
 
It's not really rocket science, you just go. (y)
That's true, but at first you think about std's like heck no never this, step 2: You love Japan so give it some reasoning 3.it all makes sense. 4. Actually lol the tradition in Japan is amazing to think of it.... Still pre-nervous to chill.
 
That's true, but at first you think about std's like heck no never this, step 2: You love Japan so give it some reasoning 3.it all makes sense. 4. Actually lol the tradition in Japan is amazing to think of it.... Still pre-nervous to chill.
People that are too scared to go - never usually go.
Those that do go that are 'scared', wind-up living in a bubble of fear while they wait for their HIV and STD tests to come back. While mentally inducing themselves to be sick from worrying about something that most likely won't happen.
You've got to accept some level of risk to go out and do something. If you can't rationalize the risk for the tradeoff of entertainment, then it's best to stick to the path of less risk.
 
If you are nervous and scared then you just act like you would boycott Nike: Just don't do it.

Or you do it and then come here asking if the soreness in your throat and accelerated heart beat is because you got HIV, Covid19 and Covid20 all at the same time.
 
If you are nervous and scared then you just act like you would boycott Nike: Just don't do it.

Or you do it and then come here asking if the soreness in your throat and accelerated heart beat is because you got HIV, Covid19 and Covid20 all at the same time.
I'll never receive a raw blowjob or preform any raw services. I had a ex which basically wanted to force bj all the time... sooooooo........... I don't need to dive in that way or explore.
 
I'll never receive a raw blowjob or preform any raw services. I had a ex which basically wanted to force bj all the time... sooooooo........... I don't need to dive in that way or explore.
The soapland I go to will be 500 dollar soapland + all the time.
 
Thinking of sex in a soapland as a Japanese ‘traditional act’ Is one of the daftest examples of orientalism I’ve ever heard, sorry...
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Jimi, Reading that sentence as written, I agree with you. However in this case, I believe KazumaKiryu, based on his username and writing, may be of Japanese ethnicity. KazumaKiryu, please forgive me if I’m incorrect.

The Turkish bath may have been the forefather of this. However the Japanese made it their own, and began calling it soapland, by adding the sukebe chair, floating bj in the tub, nuru gel/air mattress massage some 50+ years ago. So it is a unique Japan sex act. So I can give Kazuma a pass on this one. Plus for all we know, one in which his prior lineage may have participated in ;)
 
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I believe KazumaKiryu, based on his username and writing
Nah, he’s a stoner weeb. He writes like that because he’s high, and the name is lifted from some anime.
If he ever makes it over here he’s going to get an eye opener if he wants to keep doing drugs.
 
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go to kyabakura, sekukyaba, delivery health then soapland. in that order. it's in order of sexual activity. that's how I tried it and by the time I tried a soapland I wasn't nervous at all.
I don't know what you mean by "it's traditional act - therefore I'm content". what would make you not content? blowjob is blowjob. traditional or not. what difference does it make.
you're right though, sex gotta be the most traditional thing ever.
 
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Jimi, Reading that sentence as written, I agree with you. However in this case, I believe KazumaKiryu, based on his username and writing, may be of Japanese ethnicity. KazumaKiryu, please forgive me if I’m incorrect.

The Turkish bath may have been the forefather of this. However the Japanese made it their own, and began calling it soapland, by adding the sukebe chair, floating bj in the tub, nuru gel/air mattress massage some 50+ years ago. So it is a unique Japan sex act. So I can give Kazuma a pass on this one. Plus for all we know, one in which his prior lineage may have participated in ;)

Haha, correct of course that the soapland as we know it is truly a Japanese concept, but as for calling it a 'tradition' when it has less than a century of history... nah.

There's 'invented tradition' put forth by the establishment of course (in Japan an example would be the Shinto wedding ceremony, which actually only dates back to the 20th century), perhaps that's what KazumaKiryu meant in all his articulacy ;)
 
Idk, I didn't jump to fs and only looking for massage happy ending hand jobs. I have to keep a reputation around you peeves lol
 
go to kyabakura, sekukyaba, delivery health then soapland. in that order. it's in order of sexual activity.

Most people’s gateway drug to p4p is a 4am aggressive up-sold handjob from a matronly chinese lady in a ‘relaxation salon’ after having failed to hook up on a night out.

Kyabakura is a different track, its more likely to lead to sugaring or escorts.

sekukyaba yes, thats the TAG track and gets you into oppai pubs, punk salons, hand job clubs, deri heru, soaplands etc.
 
I know that was autocorrect but I still got immediately hard when I read "punk salon".
 
Most people’s gateway drug to p4p is a 4am aggressive up-sold handjob from a matronly chinese lady in a ‘relaxation salon’ after having failed to hook up on a night out.

Kyabakura is a different track, its more likely to lead to sugaring or escorts.

sekukyaba yes, thats the TAG track and gets you into oppai pubs, punk salons, hand job clubs, deri heru, soaplands etc.
Thank you very much for this explanation.
 
Thinking of sex in a soapland as a Japanese ‘traditional act’ Is one of the daftest examples of orientalism I’ve ever heard, sorry...

Ahh yes. The ancient Japanese tradition of sopurando. Been around since before edo period
 
Ahh yes. The ancient Japanese tradition of sopurando. Been around since before edo period

It was known as Yuna-buro (湯女風呂) back then, but I don't think they used soaps.