Anyone ever date these working girls?

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Last weekend, I ended up calling a delivery health place, and had a pretty good session with a girl. She was giving me long eye contact and was biting her lip during the cuddle session, so it was obvious to me she had enjoyed our time together. On a whim, I invited her out for drinks, we exchanged lines and have scheduled a date. The girl isn't a damsel in distress, she has a day job, and actually doesn't have too many shifts.

I just wanted to see what other opinions are on whether or not this is a good idea. Am I jumping into something with obvious red flags?
 
ForeignGuy said:
I just wanted to see what other opinions are on whether or not this is a good idea. Am I jumping into something with obvious red flags?
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As long as you are good with the idea of dating with the girl I don't think that one is going to be any different. Still have the T-shirt.
 
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Am I jumping into something with obvious red flags?
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The red flag would usually be the person in your position. Most if not all guys I know that have tried to date someone in the business... usually can't deal with the fact that she's with other men doing "things" for cash. Something about men and insecurity, is usually what trashes those relationships. (Just a fact, nothing personal to you anyone in particular...)

I've known perfectly good ladies in this business that have normal lives outside of their night work. A lot of them can't have a normal relationship due to it...

Fairly good thread from the past: https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/dating-or-marrying-an-escort-or-sex-worker-a-second-look.16658/
 
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I dated a deli girl for a while, it was a good relationship other than her often not having evenings free. It was the mismatched schedules that led to us splitting.

I'd say that in general, as long as she's doing her job safely, there's nothing at all wrong with dating a sex worker.

Now, hostesses and kyaba girls... hell no.
 
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If you question it, it is an evidence that it is not a good idea. But you asked for experiences. Here’s mine. I dated a Thai girl from Asían Feeling about six months, quite a few years ago when I was living in Shizuoka. It was clear from the beginning that it was a relationship without much future, but I decided to try, I like challenges, and I was recovering from a breakup. I decided from my second divorce that I would never have a third. And she ended up leaving Tokyo when she realized that I was not in her game of “if you marry me, I won’t have to do about six handjobs a day.” Good memories remain.
 
There is a big difference between those who work full time in the industry, compared to those who do it for extra cash and have a day job. This goes for kyaba girls and hostesses as well.
Most places have rules that prohibit dating customers. Part timers are more open to outside meetings as they have less to lose.
Converting DH girls to Sugar is not a bad thing as there is still money involved but more freedom, but as others have noted, and actual relationship is damn hard work with a SW. You’ve gotta be a certain type of person to be able to compartment the roles.
 
Having dated both hostesses and girls in the harder side of the business, it's the schedule mismatches that kill it every time.
 
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ForeignGuy said:
Last weekend, I ended up calling a delivery health place, and had a pretty good session with a girl. She was giving me long eye contact and was biting her lip during the cuddle session, so it was obvious to me she had enjoyed our time together. On a whim, I invited her out for drinks, we exchanged lines and have scheduled a date. The girl isn't a damsel in distress, she has a day job, and actually doesn't have too many shifts.

I just wanted to see what other opinions are on whether or not this is a good idea. Am I jumping into something with obvious red flags?
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I've dated a couple working girls. A couple of things, they are usually the shortest relationships when I did date which is why I never entertain it anymore. The ones I liked, I kept giving them business since it's good to support those that give me a release ;)

Some play the part to make you more aroused, part of their job and good ones know how to do it right. Nothing personal, but most are doing it for their job.
 
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she realized that I was not in her game of “if you marry me, I won’t have to do about six handjobs a day.”
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You should have told her "yeah, I only require five handjobs per day. In addition the the eight blowjobs and FS, of course".
 
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ForeignGuy said:
I just wanted to see what other opinions are on whether or not this is a good idea. Am I jumping into something with obvious red flags?
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What are the "red flags' that you mention?
If it's because you have a hard time with her H job, then probably not a good idea for you. If you can accept what she does, then it just like any other relationship. Might work, might not work out.

I've "dated" two SW in the US. one was off and on for several years. One had been just for a month. At least in my limited experience, the girls were normal ladies. Sex was infrequent since it was usually work for them. And who wants to come home and do more work?

Like others have stated schedules sucked. I was living with one, and had to frequently leave the apartment or hotel room. She would also get jobs for overnight and not come home. Now we're just friends.

I now prefer SBs where the relationships have been better defined.



 
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MongerInAStrLnd said:
Having dated both hostesses and girls in the harder side of the business, it's the schedule mismatches that kill it every time.
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Some years ago while living in another country I dated a lady who worked in a regular bar — a joint with pool tables, etc. She wasn’t a hostess or anything like that, but the schedule mismatches were still an issue.

By necessity she was a night owl. Yet, I had a daytime job. Of course, the weekends were when she worked the most.

Partly as a result of all that the relationship only lasted a few months.
 
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I might be able to date a FORMER working girl, but my ego is too fragile :LOL: to know what my partner is doing with other guys and not be jealous. And I think even with a former working girl (or a JAV porn star in my fantasies) I know that they've probably seen thousands of dicks and are about as turned on by the idea of sex as they are turned on by having to do their taxes, so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
 
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meiji said:
I might be able to date a FORMER working girl, but my ego is too fragile :LOL: to know what my partner is doing with other guys and not be jealous. And I think even with a former working girl (or a JAV porn star in my fantasies) I know that they've probably seen thousands of dicks and are about as turned on by the idea of sex as they are turned on by having to do their taxes, so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
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Thing is, they probably don’t do their taxes .
 
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I might be able to date a FORMER working girl, but my ego is too fragile :LOL: to know what my partner is doing with other guys and not be jealous. And I think even with a former working girl (or a JAV porn star in my fantasies) I know that they've probably seen thousands of dicks and are about as turned on by the idea of sex as they are turned on by having to do their taxes, so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
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As long as she is trustable and you enjoy the time with her I wouldn't worry too much about her motivation.
 
meiji said:
so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
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I have a solution for that; be a broke ass old ugly fat guy with no personality and then you know they are with you only because of your dick.
 
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MikeH said:
I have a solution for that; be a broke ass old ugly fat guy with no personality and then you know they are with you only because of your dick.
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its not that simple . some ladies would be with you out of pity / charity in this case. and when I write “you” I do mean you :D
(written with light and love, as always)
 
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shadowboxer said:
Yeah, nothing more rewarding than a mercy fuck.
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There is no such thing as a mercy fuck. Them bitches always want something.

Obviously in my case it is my amazingly beautiful dick.

Yes, this helps me sleep at night.
 
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meiji said:
I might be able to date a FORMER working girl, but my ego is too fragile :LOL: to know what my partner is doing with other guys and not be jealous. And I think even with a former working girl (or a JAV porn star in my fantasies) I know that they've probably seen thousands of dicks and are about as turned on by the idea of sex as they are turned on by having to do their taxes, so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
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A provider I once knew claimed that she would not have sex whenever she went back to her home country on vacation. Not sure if she was telling the truth, but maybe she really did just want a break from work.
 
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A provider I once knew claimed that she would not have sex whenever she went back to her home country on vacation. Not sure if she was telling the truth, but maybe she really did just want a break from work.
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Yup. There was an amazing looking kgirl I saw several times in the SF Bay Area that said that. And I'm thinking, a girl like you not having sex is like a Ferrari rusting in a garage. But I get it. I used to repair computers for a living many years ago, and the last thing I wanted to do when I got home was troubleshoot my internet connection. :ROFLMAO:
 
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meiji said:
I might be able to date a FORMER working girl, but my ego is too fragile :LOL: to know what my partner is doing with other guys and not be jealous. And I think even with a former working girl (or a JAV porn star in my fantasies) I know that they've probably seen thousands of dicks and are about as turned on by the idea of sex as they are turned on by having to do their taxes, so I'd wonder if she's really enjoying sex or if she's just there for the companionship/financial security, etc.
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You're thinking about it, so I say go for it. You don't really know until you try. Maybe she is the one that works out in a meaningful way for you?

Even if you date a sex worker, it doesn't mean that it's always work. If you date and get laid, then enjoy it. Why does it even matter who they sleep with, if they choose to sleep with you? Sex with other dudes is simply other dudes (which aren't you so why care?)

So when I last wrote, my on again off again SW GF, was kinda on again. And this time I swear I saw love/lust in her eyes. sex is fairly infrequent but has been genuine.
 
The escort girl is not a woman, but a worker.She works because she needs money if even doble worker.
If she don't need money, easy to find free sex pertner on date site to suit her type.
If you like the food of the restaurant , do you ask food for free next time?:rolleyes:
If you don't know how willingly serviced staff feel,It seems you don't respect her servise.
If the she feels a true LOVE, she'll meet for free, but it won't happen if suddenly called for a few hours and few timw just sexlal act.
 
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