Guest viewing is limited

sugardaddy.jp some initial experiences

You can turn the auto renew off (recommended)

各種設定→会員ステータス→自動更新の切り替えand set it to off and click the 保存するbutton next to it.

When your time is up you need to manually pay again. But when you do pay, they reset it to auto renew, so you have to go back and turn it off again.

Cheers!
 
You can turn the auto renew off (recommended)

各種設定→会員ステータス→自動更新の切り替えand set it to off and click the 保存するbutton next to it.

When your time is up you need to manually pay again. But when you do pay, they reset it to auto renew, so you have to go back and turn it off again.

@Rusty Trombone or anyone, my membership expired yesterday. I was expecting to lose the ability to message women, was half hopeful they may let me continue messaging with women I had already connected with, but I was surprised that they stop you having any access to your inbox/messaging function.

Questions:

1. Any idea what women see in their inbox? Does their inbox still contain all the messages we exchanged? or Am I wiped temporarily or permanently from their inbox?
2. If I sign up for another term, is my inbox restored fully, including all the old messages?
 
1. Any idea what women see in their inbox? Does their inbox still contain all the messages we exchanged? or Am I wiped temporarily or permanently from their inbox?
2. If I sign up for another term, is my inbox restored fully, including all the old messages?

1. I presume women keep all their messages.
2. I've allowed my account to expire twice and then paid manually. All messages are restored. Nothing ever seems to get deleted unless you go thru the 退会procedure
 
  • Like
Reactions: tagms411 and namae
Thanks for the good intel on SD.jp and SA.

I'm pretty much stuck stateside and haven't gotten back to Japan in a while (thanks COVID), and SA stateside has been okay for sugaring. I was seeing a 20 year old nerdy Chinese college student with a slender body (yum) and a liberal outlook on P4P, but she wasn't open to other requested services so things kind of petered out.

I set up an account on SD.jp a month or two ago just to see what it's all about, and I've been pleasantly surprised. All that I really put in my profile was basically "Hi, I'm an American and speak crappy Japanese, nice to meet you" (in Japanese of course), and I'd say most of the girls whose profiles I view also view my profile, and maybe half or a little under message me. Since I can't prove residency yet and I'm not in country I haven't bothered upping my membership, I haven't been able to see what they wrote much less write them back, but that's a much better response than I get on SA. I'm assuming that's because my usual preference is 'slender, very cute women' and Asian girls like that in the US are buried under messages from hundreds of guys interested in getting in their pants, where in Japan it's much more of a buyer's market.

I do wish they had much better searching functionality on SD.jp, but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to Japan soon, and I know I need to improve my Japanese skill to have a proper conversation with these ladies.
 
  • Like
Reactions: NicoRobinLikes2Read
Thanks for the good intel on SD.jp and SA.

I'm pretty much stuck stateside and haven't gotten back to Japan in a while (thanks COVID), and SA stateside has been okay for sugaring. I was seeing a 20 year old nerdy Chinese college student with a slender body (yum) and a liberal outlook on P4P, but she wasn't open to other requested services so things kind of petered out.

I set up an account on SD.jp a month or two ago just to see what it's all about, and I've been pleasantly surprised. All that I really put in my profile was basically "Hi, I'm an American and speak crappy Japanese, nice to meet you" (in Japanese of course), and I'd say most of the girls whose profiles I view also view my profile, and maybe half or a little under message me. Since I can't prove residency yet and I'm not in country I haven't bothered upping my membership, I haven't been able to see what they wrote much less write them back, but that's a much better response than I get on SA. I'm assuming that's because my usual preference is 'slender, very cute women' and Asian girls like that in the US are buried under messages from hundreds of guys interested in getting in their pants, where in Japan it's much more of a buyer's market.

I do wish they had much better searching functionality on SD.jp, but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to Japan soon, and I know I need to improve my Japanese skill to have a proper conversation with these ladies.

I think the search functionality on sd.jp forces us to look at a wider scope. The main one being body type. If they included that optionality, they’d probably find over 80% of the guys are only choosing ‘thin’ and ‘slightly thin’, which together seems to make up less than 20% of the women’s profiles.

When the women choose their body option, they range from honest, to too hard on themselves. I’ve found that the ‘normal’ option seems to have the best surprises.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Browcoco
When the women choose their body option, they range from honest, to too hard on themselves. I’ve found that the ‘normal’ option seems to have the best surprises.

True. Not to mention your 'normal' Japanese girl is going to be a lot thinner than your 'normal' westerner. When I search Seeking for 'slim' body types, it's pretty interesting to see how many women classify themselves as such when I wouldn't even say they were 'average'.
 
  • Like
Reactions: just4fun
True. Not to mention your 'normal' Japanese girl is going to be a lot thinner than your 'normal' westerner. When I search Seeking for 'slim' body types, it's pretty interesting to see how many women classify themselves as such when I wouldn't even say they were 'average'.

Ah, America, the land of the ever moving goal post. With over 70% of the population being overweight or obese, it’s all relative.

I find I keep myself in better shape just from societal pressure in Japan. So while I’d probably be considered very fit in the States, I consider myself just average here.

While ‘slim’ in Japan is something women seem to envy, and it looks good in av, in bed I find it boring after a few minutes. Nothing to hold on to~~
 
  • Like
Reactions: TAG Manager
Thanks for the good intel on SD.jp and SA.

I'm pretty much stuck stateside and haven't gotten back to Japan in a while (thanks COVID), and SA stateside has been okay for sugaring. I was seeing a 20 year old nerdy Chinese college student with a slender body (yum) and a liberal outlook on P4P, but she wasn't open to other requested services so things kind of petered out.

I set up an account on SD.jp a month or two ago just to see what it's all about, and I've been pleasantly surprised. All that I really put in my profile was basically "Hi, I'm an American and speak crappy Japanese, nice to meet you" (in Japanese of course), and I'd say most of the girls whose profiles I view also view my profile, and maybe half or a little under message me. Since I can't prove residency yet and I'm not in country I haven't bothered upping my membership, I haven't been able to see what they wrote much less write them back, but that's a much better response than I get on SA. I'm assuming that's because my usual preference is 'slender, very cute women' and Asian girls like that in the US are buried under messages from hundreds of guys interested in getting in their pants, where in Japan it's much more of a buyer's market.

I do wish they had much better searching functionality on SD.jp, but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to Japan soon, and I know I need to improve my Japanese skill to have a proper conversation with these ladies.

Maybe dampen your expectations. I spent 3 months on there and didn't uncover any gems. I am sure they are there ... but they are outnumbered by lumps of coal (imho).
 
Maybe dampen your expectations. I spent 3 months on there and didn't uncover any gems. I am sure they are there ... but they are outnumbered by lumps of coal (imho).
I tend to agree with that. Most of my experience was either working girls, looking for direct to hotel. Or, the one’s who want a mock sexless boyfriend to give them 10,000 for an hour meal.

What pricing strategy did you use?
 
Thanks for the good intel on SD.jp and SA.

I'm pretty much stuck stateside and haven't gotten back to Japan in a while (thanks COVID), and SA stateside has been okay for sugaring. I was seeing a 20 year old nerdy Chinese college student with a slender body (yum) and a liberal outlook on P4P, but she wasn't open to other requested services so things kind of petered out.

I set up an account on SD.jp a month or two ago just to see what it's all about, and I've been pleasantly surprised. All that I really put in my profile was basically "Hi, I'm an American and speak crappy Japanese, nice to meet you" (in Japanese of course), and I'd say most of the girls whose profiles I view also view my profile, and maybe half or a little under message me. Since I can't prove residency yet and I'm not in country I haven't bothered upping my membership, I haven't been able to see what they wrote much less write them back, but that's a much better response than I get on SA. I'm assuming that's because my usual preference is 'slender, very cute women' and Asian girls like that in the US are buried under messages from hundreds of guys interested in getting in their pants, where in Japan it's much more of a buyer's market.

I do wish they had much better searching functionality on SD.jp, but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to Japan soon, and I know I need to improve my Japanese skill to have a proper conversation with these ladies.

Did you include a profile pic on there?
 
Maybe dampen your expectations. I spent 3 months on there and didn't uncover any gems. I am sure they are there ... but they are outnumbered by lumps of coal (imho).

Yup. I have enough experience with Seeking and trying to find someone that meets my (stupidly high) standards that I don't have super-high expectations. It's just refreshing that SD.jp has what appears to be fairly hot women (by my definition) that are a little more assertive than on Seeking, where hot women log in a few times a week to comb through 800 offers and there's less than 1% chance she'll reply.

Did you include a profile pic on there?

Nope, not yet. I think even when I'm a paying member I'm not going to include a public pic because that's the way I roll on the internets.
 
Maybe dampen your expectations. I spent 3 months on there and didn't uncover any gems. I am sure they are there ... but they are outnumbered by lumps of coal (imho).

Not to mention a girl can be very pretty in one picture and look completely different in person, etc. I went on a (civilian) date one time in Japan and the woman's pictures were very attractive, and I met her in person and she looked like her pics. But then she smiled and her teeth were messed up enough that I think I winced, which put a big damper on the date. :ROFLMAO:
 
Just an update on market rates:

I saw this one Uni Student a few times, but not in a regular 2-3 week rotation. Typical 21 year old body~ good, but standard variety in Japan. Just got boring, so it died out. I was providing 50k plus drinks, with hotel for 3hrs 2x.

She contacted me this weekend asking if we could get together for 40k. We did, and things went as usual. While I was curious as to why she contacted me for 40k, I didn’t want to open up that discussion.

However, while talking she told me how she is back at her cafe job after the SOE, but doesn’t like how much time she has to spend working compared to how much she gets paid. (Welcome to life).

It’s going to be interesting to see how the larger market prices when most people go back to their pre-pandemic routines, and realize (potentially) easier money is made elsewhere. Especially those that were doing hourly wage work.
 
Just an update on market rates:

I saw this one Uni Student a few times, but not in a regular 2-3 week rotation. Typical 21 year old body~ good, but standard variety in Japan. Just got boring, so it died out. I was providing 50k plus drinks, with hotel for 3hrs 2x.

She contacted me this weekend asking if we could get together for 40k. We did, and things went as usual. While I was curious as to why she contacted me for 40k, I didn’t want to open up that discussion.

However, while talking she told me how she is back at her cafe job after the SOE, but doesn’t like how much time she has to spend working compared to how much she gets paid. (Welcome to life).

It’s going to be interesting to see how the larger market prices when most people go back to their pre-pandemic routines, and realize (potentially) easier money is made elsewhere. Especially those that were doing hourly wage work.

Maybe I missed something but could the lower rate not just have been because it had died out? You mentioned it had got boring so I assume you had decided to stop seeing her. So for her, 40k is better than 0. Sorry if I misunderstood the circunstances.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Cinnabums
. (Welcome to life).
Ah ah, I love this
Yeah, maybe this whole Covid episode had at least one good impact (in addition to closing the country to Chinese tourists): much less entitled princess brats types in the sugar scene - not that yours was that way apparently, but in general
 
Thanks for sharing your experience. I have been look down into the line into trying this. We’re they gaijin friendly ?
 
Thanks for sharing your experience. I have been look down into the line into trying this. We’re they gaijin friendly ?
Who are you replying to?
If you've read the content in this thread, you would know that foreigners can easily use the site that is discussed here.
 
  • Like
Reactions: meiji
It was an open reply to the thread. I had to actually have the site translated to read the sight.
 
Maybe I missed something but could the lower rate not just have been because it had died out? You mentioned it had got boring so I assume you had decided to stop seeing her. So for her, 40k is better than 0. Sorry if I misunderstood the circunstances.

Yeah, you can certainly be right. 40k seems to be the going rate. I was offering 50k as I think it favors me since she’s a college girl, let alone 2 shots. 40k could have been the right level all along, but I feel I was wasting too much time. So I altered my strategy which left me to my current set-up.

The way I arrange my meetings is by offering 50k for hotel. Very few women on sd would turn that amount down. However, we need to have a quick coffee first, then to hotel if we both like one another. I tell them I won’t provide anything if she decides to cancel, but I do slip them an envelope with 2k to cover transportation if I don’t want to go to the hotel.

By doing this I am greatly limiting how many are willing to meet, but it also saves me a massive amount of time and cuts out the one’s who are misrepresenting themselves, question their own looks, want sexless boyfriends, and more importantly, the ichiman chasers…

I’m seeing her again next weekend at 40k, so even while it died out because I got bored, I’m just going to see where the boundaries are this time.
 
Ah ah, I love this
Yeah, maybe this whole Covid episode had at least one good impact (in addition to closing the country to Chinese tourists): much less entitled princess brats types in the sugar scene - not that yours was that way apparently, but in general
As long as guys walk into this knowing what they want, and a functioning bull shlt detector, I think it’s pretty smooth.

It’s good to finally see this correction. It’s funny how there is that entitlement in the scene. The London site I use is overrun with girls still using ‘spoil me’ as an opening. Here it’s, just dinners and my company. Don’t see how that’s a selling point on either site…

In Tokyo as much as there are the entitled babies, I’ve been told there are a lot of guys offering 30k for hotel. I’m guess 20% of the people on the site are actually looking for a true sugar relationship. Seems like the overwhelming majority are people just bored and passing time.
 
It was an open reply to the thread. I had to actually have the site translated to read the sight.

Yup, there's a huge difference between something being 'foreigner friendly' and it being "No Japanese required". You MAY be able to get by on the site once you know what all the buttons mean, but the number of girls willing to talk to you in something other than Japanese is probably gonna be pretty low.
 
I must confess. I was getting bored in the tedious entrance quarantine and reactivated my SD.JP account. In a few days I have gotten four promising dates for the next two weeks. It seems to me that everything is more or less the same than nine months ago. Perhaps more younger, inexperienced and ambitious girls. They ask for 50K on average. But easily accept 3OK when they see that the things are serious. Let’s see about the experiences.
As an anecdote, a rookie SB told me that she went to bed with a guy, and she was so blocked that in the end the guy left without paying her. Well, we don't do those things. Right?
 
As an anecdote, a rookie SB told me that she went to bed with a guy, and she was so blocked that in the end the guy left without paying her. Well, we don't do those things. Right?
Hell no!!
Unless her profile says shes a 25 year old past grad student, but the girl who shows up is old enough to be her mum.

I think that's what the 通報 function is for.
I've tsuhoed (past tense of 通報) a few who were scammers, or were late.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Joe2017
Just read through this entire epic thread - great info, thanks all!

Does anyone know if you can use a gift/pre-paid CC? I’d rather not link any of this to my real name…