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Every post I see about a couple looking to spice up their sex life is alway, always a straight man with a bi-sexual wife who want's a third, a woman. Or a couple but no touching between the men. Oi Vey!

BTW, this is just my personal rant.

So where are the bi-sexual men??? Why can't it be a M/F couple where BOTH are bi-curious or full on try anything?? I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women. As a woman pleasuring another woman, I have an insiders knowledge of what is pleasing to the female body. The same could be said about a man pleasing a man - realy good fucking from someone who knows from first hand experience what feels good. But no, guys gotta be like "I don't want no dude touching me." When I see these posts of a couple looking for a third, I'm at the point where I'm imagining a guy who wants to fuck around and a wife who wants to keep her husband happy. Boo on that.

You know what would be really fun? 2 couples, M/F each, and everyone fucks everyone. That is the true unicorn my friend.

Rant over. Cheers!!
 
Every post I see about a couple looking to spice up their sex life is alway, always a straight man with a bi-sexual wife who want's a third, a woman. Or a couple but no touching between the men. Oi Vey!

BTW, this is just my personal rant.

So where are the bi-sexual men??? Why can't it be a M/F couple where BOTH are bi-curious or full on try anything?? I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women. As a woman pleasuring another woman, I have an insiders knowledge of what is pleasing to the female body. The same could be said about a man pleasing a man - realy good fucking from someone who knows from first hand experience what feels good. But no, guys gotta be like "I don't want no dude touching me." When I see these posts of a couple looking for a third, I'm at the point where I'm imagining a guy who wants to fuck around and a wife who wants to keep her husband happy. Boo on that.

You know what would be really fun? 2 couples, M/F each, and everyone fucks everyone. That is the true unicorn my friend.

Rant over. Cheers!!

good rant, thanks!
In all fairness you can also find here reports of men having fun with other (genetically at least) men. But yeah, when it comes to 3P 4P etc the case you mention is rare.
 
Every post I see about a couple looking to spice up their sex life is alway, always a straight man with a bi-sexual wife who want's a third, a woman. Or a couple but no touching between the men. Oi Vey!

BTW, this is just my personal rant.

So where are the bi-sexual men??? Why can't it be a M/F couple where BOTH are bi-curious or full on try anything?? I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women. As a woman pleasuring another woman, I have an insiders knowledge of what is pleasing to the female body. The same could be said about a man pleasing a man - realy good fucking from someone who knows from first hand experience what feels good. But no, guys gotta be like "I don't want no dude touching me." When I see these posts of a couple looking for a third, I'm at the point where I'm imagining a guy who wants to fuck around and a wife who wants to keep her husband happy. Boo on that.

You know what would be really fun? 2 couples, M/F each, and everyone fucks everyone. That is the true unicorn my friend.

Rant over. Cheers!!
Ranting always makes feel good is someone is listening to us. At least in my case. BTW, I guess this is not the most suitable forum to find bisexual FM couples. According to a bi-sexual ex-girlfriend who is psychologist, some researches affirm that the number of bi-sexual women is higher than bisexual men. And something interesting, the number of predominantly lesbian or straight women who claimed had sex with both genders is greater than that of gay or straight men. The explanation given by these sexologists was that women are more flexible, while men are more ‘squared‘. Who knows (n)
 
I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women.

I get your frustration but you can't convince someone to change their sexuality. There is nothing worse than a gay friend who is convinced that everyone has a bit of gay in them and wants to put a bit of gay in you. With sport and military service, I've seen plenty of naked men and there's nothing about that that attracts me.
 
Statistically speaking women are 5 times more likely to be bisexual.
 
I've seen plenty of naked men and there's nothing about that that attracts me.
Something similar happened to me at the end of my marriage when I saw my ex-wife. :ROFLMAO:
 
Statistically speaking women are 5 times more likely to be bisexual.

More accurately it has been studied and well documented that a large amount of such activity just goes unreported as per The Golden Rule ;)

 
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Every post I see about a couple looking to spice up their sex life is alway, always a straight man with a bi-sexual wife who want's a third, a woman. Or a couple but no touching between the men. Oi Vey!

BTW, this is just my personal rant.

So where are the bi-sexual men??? Why can't it be a M/F couple where BOTH are bi-curious or full on try anything?? I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women. As a woman pleasuring another woman, I have an insiders knowledge of what is pleasing to the female body. The same could be said about a man pleasing a man - realy good fucking from someone who knows from first hand experience what feels good. But no, guys gotta be like "I don't want no dude touching me." When I see these posts of a couple looking for a third, I'm at the point where I'm imagining a guy who wants to fuck around and a wife who wants to keep her husband happy. Boo on that.

You know what would be really fun? 2 couples, M/F each, and everyone fucks everyone. That is the true unicorn my friend.

Rant over. Cheers!!
MM is probably way easier to find without internet. Women are the complicated ones :D
 
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Women are the complicated ones
Um, I think men only find women to be 'complicated' when we insist on being seen and treated as human being with autonomy rather than a doll and your possesion.
 
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Um, I think men only find women to be 'complicated' when we insist on being seen and treated as human being with autonomy rather than a doll and your possesion.
nah it's not that at all.
 
Every post I see about a couple looking to spice up their sex life is alway, always a straight man with a bi-sexual wife who want's a third, a woman. Or a couple but no touching between the men. Oi Vey!

BTW, this is just my personal rant.

So where are the bi-sexual men??? Why can't it be a M/F couple where BOTH are bi-curious or full on try anything?? I mean, think of all of the fun your missing when you want just sexy women. As a woman pleasuring another woman, I have an insiders knowledge of what is pleasing to the female body. The same could be said about a man pleasing a man - realy good fucking from someone who knows from first hand experience what feels good. But no, guys gotta be like "I don't want no dude touching me." When I see these posts of a couple looking for a third, I'm at the point where I'm imagining a guy who wants to fuck around and a wife who wants to keep her husband happy. Boo on that.

You know what would be really fun? 2 couples, M/F each, and everyone fucks everyone. That is the true unicorn my friend.

Rant over. Cheers!!

I’ve seen the unicorn, but it’s really hard to find. You can’t get lucky in this arena. The easiest way is to get professional help for the girls and find a guy whose bi or willing to try within agreed on limits. Most guys will go for having their cock sucked with assholes off limits. Wives who aren’t into it is a bad idea. The action is incredible. But setting it up takes work as in chemistry meetings in advance. Kinda like a job interview for the guy. And, of course, money, money, money for the girls. It’s well worth the time and money if your into it or just so bored you’ll try anything.
 
I’m bi. Any three-way I have with a MF couple would need to allow for at least my sucking his dick. Bonus if he’s into kissing and sucking himself. I’m not much into assplay though.

So we’re out here!
 
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I’m not trying to be smart. I’m genuinely curious: are trans women sexually attractive to bi men?
 
I’m not trying to be smart. I’m genuinely curious: are trans women sexually attractive to bi men?

I can only speak for myself, but I do find trans women attractive. They’ve got to work at it harder than a cis man or woman to be sexually attractive at a comparable level, but if you need a categorical answer, then yes certainly.
 
Neither Hetero Men nor Gay Men like Bi-Men.

Also, we're just a myth!

I mean, what with everyone running around telling you that you don't exist, all the time, it's bound to make you a little reticent to say-

"Uhhhh... Hi. I exist!"

It's just too much trouble.

Just keep playing Hetero-

(and getting those sweet sweet Hetero Privileges the Gay Bois hate us for! You bet!)

lol
 
what with everyone running around telling you that you don't exist, all the time, it's bound to make you a little reticent to say-"Uhhhh... Hi. I exist!" Just keep playing Hetero-

I am guilty of this. My best friends all know, but when I’m publicly in a relationship with a woman, there is little cause to bring it up.

Then when I want to suck some dick, I cruise the same bars and apps as any other closeted homo.
 
There is no such thing as "bisexual" men. Those men are simply gay and aren't yet able to come to terms with it (or don't want to get booted from the trust fund inheritance). Almost every gay guy I know fucked a couple of girls in his teens during that guilty, awkward "I'm BI-CURIOUS" phase. Then they keep that act up until they get old enough that they stop giving a shit and just tell their family and friends that they're full queer and stop forcing themselves to touch vaginas.

Shit, I've got gay male cousins in their 40s now with wives and kids who still haven't really come out. They just slip out at 2am a few times a year and go grab their ankles and fag out with other closeted gay married men. Of course, they know that I know, but they also know what a piece of shit I was in my younger years (and we're all also part of similar trust funds) so they aren't worried about me being a rat. We all have a vested financial interest in appearing to be model human beings.
 
There is no such thing as "bisexual" men. Those men are simply gay and aren't yet able to come to terms with it (or don't want to get booted from the trust fund inheritance). Almost every gay guy I know fucked a couple of girls in his teens during that guilty, awkward "I'm BI-CURIOUS" phase. Then they keep that act up until they get old enough that they stop giving a shit and just tell their family and friends that they're full queer and stop forcing themselves to touch vaginas.

Shit, I've got gay male cousins in their 40s now with wives and kids who still haven't really come out. They just slip out at 2am a few times a year and go grab their ankles and fag out with other closeted gay married men. Of course, they know that I know, but they also know what a piece of shit I was in my younger years (and we're all also part of similar trust funds) so they aren't worried about me being a rat. We all have a vested financial interest in appearing to be model human beings.
Might want to dial back on the bigotry about 15% there, Keihan.
 
Might want to dial back on the bigotry about 15% there, Keihan.

I may be a piece of shit--online and in much of real life--but trying to pigeon-hole me as an anti-gay bigot isn't going to gain much traction. Aside from the fact that I grew up surrounded by gay cousins, my two closest female friends are dykes and I actually help organize and march in the annual PRIDE parade, believe that or not...although admittedly there is a political slant involved there. And more than that, years ago in Washington I played an official congressional role in drafting republican support for repealing Bill Clinton's DADT (Don't Ask Don't Tell) law that persecuted gays and lesbians in the military and we ended up repealing it. Name one pussy social justice warrior today that's done a tenth of that. I would wager a bet that I'm probably as pro-gay as any card-carrying republican NRA Life Member is going to be in this lifetime.

Now, being a racist? Well, that's a different story. Especially after COVID. Get me drunk enough and I'll put any aryan nation asshole to shame. And I'm not apologizing for that one.
 
trying to pigeon-hole me as an anti-gay bigot

Not anti-gay, but you DID just tell a long time practicing bi guy that he doesn't exist. Anti-bi bias? (Say that fast after three shots of vodka)
 
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Not anti-gay, but you DID just tell a long time practicing bi guy that he doesn't exist. Anti-bi bias? (Say that fast after three shots of vodka)

I'm no psychologist and obviously could be wrong but based on everything I've seen in life I just don't think that male bisexuality exists, at least to the extent that the media or modern pop culture would lead you to believe. Every guy I grew up with who identified as "bi" when we were in our teens is just an ordinary gay man now. I think, by and large, identifying as "bi" is just a coping mechanism for guys who aren't ready to come out. Males just aren't wired that way. Now females, on the other hand, I believe are very different. I remember reading in a psychology course in college that roughly two-thirds of females report being at least somewhat sexually attracted to other females. I'd wager a bet the number is actually higher, as virtually every girl I've ever dated and every single female in our entourage as kids engaged in a lesbian encounter at least once (usually much more than once, and if we were lucky--and they were high--they let us watch). Granted, a few were actual lesbians but that's besides the point.

Now, I have no skin in that game and really shouldn't care, but I just find it really fucking annoying when you have guys who are already in my age group (40s) and still doing this whole "bi" schtick when they're very obviously gay, coming out to the bar and trying to hang out with all the straight guys and putting on this entire sad act and saying very sad things ("HELL YEAH, I'D DO THAT BITCH!" or "MAN, I'D FUCK THAT BITCH UP THE ASS IF SHE LET ME!"). And if you think I have unpleasant things to say about them, you should hear what the gay friends think.

Obviously, I made a career in politics out of acting, posturing, pretending and just lying. I have no problem with people trying to fool others. That's just business. I just don't have time for people who try to fool themselves.