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Which clubs would you recommend

How do the older gentlemen here pull girls that young, that's beyond me tbh. Is that some special type of gaijin hunter who's into old, rich men or what?
 
I mean, these guys talking about girls that could be their grand-daughters.
 
The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
 
Well, now we are talking about OP again - I was specifically talking about the two users here saying they fucked or wanted to fuck girls that could be their grand-daughters.

I assume those guys you see doing that can converse in Japanese? I've been in Japan for about two months. Wouldn't say I am a 10/10, probably just another average gaijin, recently turned 30 but I have rather limited Japanese skills, so I guess that'll put me at a big disadvantage. Any chance of someone like me to pull >20 year old Japanese girls? And no, I only look for a hookup, so I actually do not care if they're "gaijin hunters" or not. Just can't be fucked trying to hit on them when I understand about 10% of what they are saying.

Are there any places (pls no Hub) with Japanese girls who are more "international" (read: girls who have a clear interest in things outside their own country, preferably with some English skills.)
 
I could not imagine success with using English only. I think Sinapse in some of his stuff has covered the topic though (pulling in English). You may wanna check out some of his stuff. It may be useful to you.
 
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Well, I guess it's my fault for not using COVID times to learn the language. Oh well, no Japanese gals for me then.
 
The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
There are still clubs in Rops?!
 
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What is the cultural more appriate way to meet ladies to interact with for the over 30s crowds if clubs are a no go due to old age ?
Apps like Coffee Meets Bagel. Find a girl –or many, and invite her/them to dinner and clubbing. Beware of your potential depression of the 30's. You'll see what will come in the 40's, 50's... Age is in your head, in Asian cultures women do not necessary reject older men.
 
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The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
I haven't been to ropo since a couple months before the rona ruined everything. I wonder how it is
 
Nah if you are male, over 30 and not a millionaire you’ve no place being in a club. Just let it go.

Dude. wow. What you talking about? I've been to Ageha (Shin Kiba) lots of times being over 30, even got some dirty dancing, a few numbers and a follow up date.

Sure, clubs aren't the best percentage wise for pick up, but it's hella fun and when I was out on the dance floor grinding it away with a cute younger chick, ya can't get that at no friggin' hobgoblin. haha
 
AHHHH you bring me back! and before Rigoletto there was Heartland!

but yes, if Rigoletto is still around then its a good upscale bar where you can chat up a lady or two.

A guy I know picked up a single there a few weeks back. I was with him. She just came right up to him and started talking and now he's got a regular.
She wasn't bad looking, and he's no Brad Pitt.

It happens, but not as much as it used to. Go in solo, leave solo. Ya need a wing and girls almost always go in pairs there.
 
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A guy I know picked up a single there a few weeks back. I was with him. She just came right up to him and started talking and now he's got a regular.
She wasn't bad looking, and he's no Brad Pitt.

It happens, but not as much as it used to. Go in solo, leave solo. Ya need a wing and girls almost always go in pairs there.
Going alone to rigelleto would be incredibly weird.
 
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Dude. wow. What you talking about? I've been to Ageha (Shin Kiba) lots of times being over 30, even got some dirty dancing, a few numbers and a follow up date.

Sure, clubs aren't the best percentage wise for pick up, but it's hella fun and when I was out on the dance floor grinding it away with a cute younger chick, ya can't get that at no friggin' hobgoblin. haha

Personally found clubs had a good success rate, when I was younger. I once passed out at ageha, woke up at 4am, got on the dance floor and got a hand job right there. Never exchanged a word with the girl.

Agree about the hobgoblin. Its a very sad place. Who goes there? If you are an ‘expat’ go to a more expensive / classy place. If you are a gaijin thats been here a while, how can you possibly not have found somewhere better.

i think people that like the hobgoblin are the same people that recommend gonpachi to visitors.

but perhaps i envy those people, in their weird little gonpachi, hobgoblin, shibuya and roppongi bubbles .
 
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Going alone to rigelleto would be incredibly weird.
I might go in from time to time, but treat it as a transition to some other place later on.
Drinks aren't bad and not all the expensive. Ya never know unless you go. :)
 
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I might go in from time to time, but treat it as a transition to some other place later on.
Drinks aren't bad and not all the expensive. Ya never know unless you go. :)
They have Stella on tap. So you have a point. I may go there by myself actually.
 
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Personally found clubs had a good success rate, when I was younger. I once passed out at ageha, woke up at 4am, got on the dance floor and got a hand job right there. Never exchanged a word with the girl.

Ageha, I never pulled there... good on you!

My success was usually at bars or salsa related events..

the hobgoblin has always been a place to drink as a group... like a jumping off point.
 
Salsa events are ok I guess. Salsa makes a good healthy icebreaker with everyone getting around the serving bowl. Honestly I prefer guac events though as the avocado provides a lot of healthy fats which are great for all the great sex to be had later in the night. And it’s a bit more filling and flavorful overall.

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The OP is going to be 37. If someone is reasonably good looking, in shape, and has social skills in his 30s, there is no reason a guy at that age cannot pull ladies ten or so years younger in Tokyo. It happens each and every night. I saw it in quantity last weekend when I visited a club in Rops.
Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.
Take decent care of yourself, look presentable, make eye contact and be confident, actually have some GAME and it IS possible :)

Remember, girls all over the world often gravitate more towards the older(not geriatric of course)/more mature guy (daddy issues aside!) versus some young buck that will be finished within 2 mins of starting. haha
 
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Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.
Take decent care of yourself, look presentable, make eye contact and be confident, actually have some GAME and it IS possible :)

Remember, girls all over the world often gravitate more towards the older(not geriatric of course)/more mature guy (daddy issues aside!) versus some young buck that will be finished within 2 mins of starting. haha
Nothing magical. Dress well, good hygiene, and confidence go a long way. A lot of that becomes a learned habit as one ages but still needs to be learned. Specifically in Japan speaking the language is a force multiplier. I prefer P4P for the simplicity, but hooking up even for old fucks like me is not difficult in Japan since we get the pull the cool foreigner card.
 
Not sure that card has been playable, in Tokyo anyway, for at least a decade…. 🤔 This may be some kind of a projection - I think I am cool for being a foreigner and I got laid. Therefore she must also think I am cool for being a foreigner and thus decided to lay me… 🤔
 
Agree. I've seen older pull mid 20's without pulling out the wad and paying for everything.
Take decent care of yourself, look presentable, make eye contact and be confident, actually have some GAME and it IS possible :)

Remember, girls all over the world often gravitate more towards the older(not geriatric of course)/more mature guy (daddy issues aside!) versus some young buck that will be finished within 2 mins of starting. haha
Funny thing that my old thread is still running . And yeah I'd say I am not the worst looking dude, have always been described as a decent looking one. I also look younger on good day which might increase my chances.

I will research about the club scene when I am there in Tokyo and decide spontaneous if I hit a club or not.

My first starting point is going to a hub (either the one in Roppongi or the one in Shibuya) and then I will decide what to that next. Maybe I remain in the hub if is decent. The hubs were seen as decent in the past but that was the pre covid area.

How are the hubs these days? Still a good starting point or did Covid change everything to the worse?
 
Not the Hub again.. 😔
I actually ended up in a Hub earlier this evening, and it was surprisingly filled with young hot women.
The one next to Seibu SHinjuku station, for interested parties.

Unfortunately, I was with my coworkers....