I sometimes get tired of trying to "get to know" all these different Japanese women for weeks and weeks, which often only results in them flaking on me or just wanting to learn English.
If I just walked up to a women and said something like: "You...me...sex...OK?!" Would they probably freak out or would they just walk away and say nothing?
I always wondered if the really direct approach has ever worked with anyone on here?
Of course I would be able to propose this with confidence if I know that it would not be something legally dangerous to do...
These are just my opinions:
1) If you are waiting weeks to ask women out or to try to have sex, that's a HUGE problem right there.
As a general rule, when you first meet or interact with a woman, suggest or make it clear you are interested in going out. Then request to go out within that 1st week.
Your REQUEST, should be within 3 days of first contact, and the ACTUAL meeting day should be that 1st week (best), or 2nd week (more likely to flake). You only accept the 2nd week, if you or her have schedule, work, or health problems. Remember not to ask her to meet you on the same day of your request, but give her a few days advance notice to fix her schedule.
A huge failure of many guys is thinking they will SNEAK in through the "back door" by being effeminate or a neutral friend with no sexual interest. The woman then puts the guy in the "FRIEND ZONE. A box he often can't get out of. Suggest and make your intention to meet her someday soon very clear. But, be smooth about it.
2) You can't be too direct either, as you will come off creepy or desperate. Women tend to put such a guy in another negative box, which he can't get out of.
You CREATE the situation where sex is possible, by WHERE you are meeting her. You also talk about sex INDIRECTLY, to give her conscious or subconscious mind a clue. She will then understand that sex can happen, by how you are interacting with each other, without you having to directly ask or insanely beg for sex.
3) If you can't figure out how to do this or have no patience, then better you go pay.
Women are not robots that will do whatever you say by command, unless you are paying them.