Funny how SoLong always brags about his many adventures but then talks bad about a woman going through "dozens of men". How many sex partners she had doesn't affect you if you do it protected and if it was not on the same day that you met her.
And to call someone a "clubrat" because they have a regular hangout. -.-
This are exactly the kind of women you'll get when you go to a hook up place as a tourist: the regulars who go there on certain days and are interested in meeting foreign men. Nothing wrong with that, seems like what he is looking for.
Been to gas panic in roppongi once. It was basically my only clubbing experience in Japan in a club where you have to connect with other people instead of talking to the staff who (hope to) get paid to suck you up. And it was not a good experience. I'll describe it here.
So i was first time in Japan as a tourist and some time ago. Stayed in a budget hotel with a lot of foreigners and met some who asked me to join them partying in Roppongi. I was under 20 so it was tricky but we decided to do it anyway. There were two girls who were each others friends and i didn't knew them very well, a European boy i had some good conversations with before and a Japanese boy who had lived in America long time and came back looking for a job in Japan. So all off on the metro to Roppongi! We had decided that I and the Japanese/American boy would be wingmen for the European boy since he really wanted to meet a nice girl there.
First thing we saw was gas panic, and no id asked to go in, just posters saying you can't drink alcohol under 20. It was early so few crowd and they seemed not into mingling. Mainly foreign guys probably but i dont remember too well.
I took my job as female wingman serious and tried to get girls to mingle with us. My best memory of the evening: i ended up in a very sensual dance with a smoking hot MILF. Well in her 30s but with a killer body (very petite, no fat at all), very sexy clothes and a good face. Tried to connect her and the European but didn't work, he revealed later that although she was hot, he didn't wanna go with someone that much older than him.
Anyway, place was dull and instead of going to another club, me and J/A wingman decided to bail and hit a love hotel together. I was so naive and really liked that boy so the time in the hotel was very good but the next day was absolute shit. He had like two more days to stay and he ignored me big time while i had wanted to cassually hang out and maybe make out and hit a hotel for a rest again. He said he didn't have much money left but i dont mind sharing mine a little out of business situations. Anyway, never got treated that badly by a one night stand before or again. I knew he was leaving soon after and didn't expect the girlfriend thing or something but i had hoped for a relaxed friends with benefits the remaining days. Very rude.
Anyway that was gas panic on an early hour. Seemed like a typical hook up place, no good club music at all, no nice drinks, only hook up.
If you want good club music i heard "womb" in Shibuya is good but its for clubbing and dance. For hook ups, gas panic seems the place but it was childish and borning to me. Again: no special music, shitty drinks, only other awkward people to socialize with who just come there hoping for a hook up.
1) If you went to the club 1X and years ago, that's extremely limited experience.
2) Just because a Japanese person lived in America, this doesn't make them Japanese-American
The Japanese person can't claim American citizenship unless born there, has American parents, or switched citizenship.
And a Japanese person, despite living in America, can still be very culturally Japanese. His thinking, behavior, etc... Especially when he comes back to Japan, and the longer the period of his return.
3) Were you really a good wing-woman?
A) You didn't successfully find your friend a woman
Seemed like you found somebody fun for yourself, but unacceptable for him
B) You were with a guy (Japanese guy) and bailed on the European guy
You left the guy you were a wing for to go have sex with your date. Bailing on your wing without finishing the job, is often considered bad.
4) Club Rat
Women usually don't have the same situation as men. It's often easy for women to get sex. The difficulty for most women isn't sex, but keeping a guy she is interested in.
The term comes from women who are specifically hanging out at the same club all the time and running through guys. Often causing lots of club drama and problems, or being an asshole type person in general, whose primarily weapon is sex.
Guys are usually NOT club rats, because they are given a "playboy" label that hurts their public image and they can't use sex as an obvious direct lure. To get sex, guys often have to work for it harder and be more charming.
5) Female Monkey Branching & Hypergamy
Again, this is more something distinct that women are doing, that men are not. Often men are trying to find an acceptable or matching woman, and if found, will keep her for a long term relationship. He might keep 2 or 3 at the same time, but he is often keeping viable matches as long as he can.
More women than men, are often perpetually trying to "trade up". This is they quickly throw away acceptable and good/nice guys, in an attempt to get what they think is an even better guy with more money, popularity, or looks. Even when the difference can be small... and often many mistakes are made, as she finds out the "other guy" wasn't any better.
Women have "weaponized sex" as a lure, to attract and run through dozens of men. Often stealthily and sneakily doing so. Pretending to be one way in public and around friends, but another way in private.
The woman herself can be confused about what she wants, so can't be satisfied. It's like a cat with a shiny new toy, that keeps perpetually jumping to the next new toy.
