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@just4fun
Everybody starts out a stranger. You have to meet people before you sleep with them. Sometimes it takes a long time, but usually, it doesn't need to. Your statement (when you peel back the unsubstantiated value judgments) basically means:
1. I disapprove of meeting people when there is no introduction or social pretense for meeting them
2. I don't think it's possible for a woman to be attracted to a man shortly after meeting him
3. If a man and a woman have sex, the man is "taking advantage" of the woman.
Argument 1) is a matter of personal choice. If you prefer to never reach out and talk to someone you don't know, you might live a very strange and insular lifestyle, but I'm ok with it. I would, however, strongly question your motives if you tell other people they can't talk to strangers.
Argument 2) is another example of "argument from personal incredulity" and still is a fallacy. Just because you do not believe it is possible does not mean it is not possible.
Argument 3) Is more patriarchal bullshit. It seems like people can't get over the fact that men and women BOTH like sex and BOTH benefit from it, even IF it happens quickly. I'm not sure what the time scale of the encounter or the manner of meeting has anything to do with the inherent act of sex or transaction of value between two consenting adults.
so what ur saying is that taking advantage of someone that initially has zero interest in you and you can con them into the sack is natural?
Everybody starts out a stranger. You have to meet people before you sleep with them. Sometimes it takes a long time, but usually, it doesn't need to. Your statement (when you peel back the unsubstantiated value judgments) basically means:
1. I disapprove of meeting people when there is no introduction or social pretense for meeting them
2. I don't think it's possible for a woman to be attracted to a man shortly after meeting him
3. If a man and a woman have sex, the man is "taking advantage" of the woman.
Argument 1) is a matter of personal choice. If you prefer to never reach out and talk to someone you don't know, you might live a very strange and insular lifestyle, but I'm ok with it. I would, however, strongly question your motives if you tell other people they can't talk to strangers.
Argument 2) is another example of "argument from personal incredulity" and still is a fallacy. Just because you do not believe it is possible does not mean it is not possible.
Argument 3) Is more patriarchal bullshit. It seems like people can't get over the fact that men and women BOTH like sex and BOTH benefit from it, even IF it happens quickly. I'm not sure what the time scale of the encounter or the manner of meeting has anything to do with the inherent act of sex or transaction of value between two consenting adults.
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