Girlfriend Experience Or Pornstar Experience

GFE or PSE and definitions

  • GFE and what makes a good girl friend experience in your opinion

    Votes: 27 75.0%

  • PSE and what makes a good porn star experience in your opinion?

    Votes: 9 25.0%
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For the guys who like p4p, but also ok for guys who have sexfriends.
Do you want your girl to act like a girlfriend or a pornstar in bed?
And since these are very abstract terms: what makes a good GFE or PSE in your opinion? Any musts? (For example bbj for gfs or noisy for pse.)
 
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I was very sure once what belonged in which category, then things got fuzzy lately.
- GFE : intimate and heartmelting, cuddling and body discovery (working with lights, mirrors..), power play, teasing, sweet talking
- PSE : noise, sweat, sore muscles, cameras, bruises, excess of friction, quick and loud orgasms,
in between : shibari, accessories, water, soap.. (not everything at the time obviously !)
It really depends on many factors, but it's possible to have both with your sex friends (they are more than sex friends in my case).
 
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Wait... we have to choose? Sometimes I'm in the mood for one... sometimes the other.

For me GFE is slow paced, somewhat gentle, lots of kissing and body contact, and generally more affectionate.

PSE is more energetic, less about affection and more about raw fucking.

There's definitely some crossover, and you can have GFE in the beginning, progress to PSE, and cool down to GFE if you've had a long enough session.
 
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User#16452 said:
GFE on the streets, PSE in the sheets ;)
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The opposite would be pretty funny.. Walk around the city with pasties and fishnets, then go home and change into sweatpants and just snuggle
 
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I have a girl friend for all that kissing, cuddling and holding hands stufft. "Sometime you just need to get away from that"
I prefer the PSE always! Make me feel like I am watching my own movie.
 
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I'd like something more hybrid, sweaty and a bit dirty sex with romantic interludes
 
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The terms can be and are defined in many ways, but fwiiw my personal fave definition is that if someone secretly took a detailed video of the couple's time together (or maybe just their time in bed together), omitting only the exchange of the money, it would be easy for someone viewing the video to think that they were watching a romantic couple get it on in the case of a "perfect GFE" or that they were watching a porn shoot in the case of a "perfect PSE". In other words, it is more defined by the overall "look and feel" of the encounter than by any specific activitie that occur or don't happen.

Since I neither look nor perform like a porn star, it makes me feel ridiculous if my p4p partner pretends I am one. So, I'm a GFE guy all the way...but this can sometimes include kinks that many people see only in porn.

I also like this old definition: It's a GFE if she complains afterwards that you did't satisfy her!

-Ww
 
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I'm mostly GFE, lots of kisses, touchy feely body explorations, finding a ticklish spot or a zone that makes her spasm, just enough noise as feedback to judge if you're hitting the spots. Interaction is key for me. IMHO, a 1 hour GFE course is like PSE. Bang bang boom, repeat until hour is finished.
 
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mmm depends on the girl... and the situation... as well as ones mood... i usually tend to go more for GFE but lately i find myself more in the mood for PSE sweet, sweaty and fun, specially when she gives you the "show me what you can do" look ... but like everything it just depends on what you are in the mood for.
 
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this was a tough one! had to change my vote! (to PSE)

Similar to other answers on here, a balance of both is great, but if I had to choose though --- this remains rooted in my reasons for doing p4p: getting an experience that I would not otherwise have had - and PSE is right there in that list.

One experience I had on a business trip would probably count as PSE (although not p4p), she was also on business and we just went on the whole night with hardly any sleep, --- I didn't know I could still manage to go multiple rounds after years of being a one-round guy.
Memorable and rare and exactly the kind of thing missing from my other experiences.
 
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I never understood why someone would pay for the GFE... In my case I can get the GFE from my girlfriend. LOL.

I want hard core raunchy sex with no limits (within reason). Otherwise, what am I paying you for?
 
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My POV is I prefer GFE. My definition is the girl actually likes she enjoys and doesn't fake it. A GFE would be a good sensual kisser. A PSE may just be randomly her tongue in your mouth.

A PSE may be saying shit like "oh baby fuck me harder". A GFE doesn't have to say anything.

I think it depends what country's PSE you are talking about. My ideal GFE is more Japanese AV. American style PSE would be a turn off, or maybe more than I handle haha
 
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Only a GFE if she makes me a sandwich afterwards :)

But in all seriousness, a good GFE, for me, includes a relaxed atmosphere where I feel free to explore at my leisure. I thoroughly enjoy figuring out which buttons to push. My experience with PSE-type providers has been fun, but felt a bit more scripted.
 
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