What Do You Want For An Escort To Wear?

Anna Summer

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So I was wondering for a while. When you are meeting an escort, do you prefer her wearing casual clothes or sexy but not over the top? Or maybe the extreme, sexy and revealing?
This question came up because when I ask my clients what style they prefer me to wear the answer is almost always casual like jeans and a shirt/pullover. Very seldom a dress or skirt.
Can you also explain why you prefer it?
 
One of the best things about moving to Tokyo was the change in fashion.

Where I moved from, many women had given up on appearing like women. So many resorted to pants, jeans, oversized shirts or sweatshirts... and wearing things like crocs or overly casual clothes that just made them very grey and dull.

This doesn't apply to escorts, but just women in general.

I prefer skirts, dresses and well coordinated outfits (heels, bags, makeup, tops & jewelry). Since I had never lived in a top city, I was really shocked when coming to Japan, even on my first visit here as a tourist many years ago. I know Tokyo is not the only fashionable city, but it really opened my eyes to what's really out there. I'm also a big fan of fashionable lingerie, from the simple to the overly complex. I prefer matching sets, but that's just because I've been spoiled by some of my GF's here who always had matching pieces. :) I love stockings of all varieties... from the way they feel to the way they look. (in all sorts of colors and types....)

Depending on the settings -- I'd prefer a mid-length skirt (flare type, not the boring pencil skirts that have no personality) or a mini-skirt with a nice pair of legs capped by fashionable heels. (but not sky high heels that make walking awkward...) If it's a upscale dinner, then more along the lines of a formal dress... well, not wedding formal, but something black and light

To be honest, if I ever actually booked an escort and she showed up in super casual clothes... I'd be very disappointed.
 
WALDT!

Casual is my personal choice, unless the evening involves going some place so posh that casual dress looks blatantly inappropriate.

I suspect my inclination towards casual (jeans and a t-shirt with zero make-up work fine for me) comes from the fact that I matured sexually in the ultra-casual '60s "counter-culture". For perhaps the same reason, I do like very short skirts (which were the fashion then...the term "mini-skirts" originated in that time).

I have one SB who is so casual that she wears jeans which are so thoroughly worn out that they have like a dozen or more ragged holes that let you see patches of her skin showing through...sexy as hell!

That said, my preferences on matters of fashion are quite mild...very much a secondary or tertiary factor for me. What really works best for me is a woman that *feels* she looks sexy and is thus more confident in her attractiveness. So, I mostly prefer that women dress in whatever way makes them feel sexy and attractive.

-Ww
 
I wear jeans when the weather is cold and feel kinda bad showing up at appointments with them but most guys don't seem to mind it.
Jeans also don't have to be unsexy if they have a nice fit and are tight at the right places.
Imo you can't go wrong with a dress when the weather allows it. A dress can also still be casual if it's just a normal spring dress combinated with some low sandals.

Unless a guy requests a special kind of clothes i don't ask them what they'd like me to wear and they generally seem to like what i pick.
 
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maybe everybody is fine with anything because you wont stay dressed for too long?

though i also must say that i wouldnt mind, unless we enter track suit territory (i always hope that the people i talk to dont even own something like that)...
what i like is when the clothes show the personality, or are something they are comfortable with... of course dressing up, or down is okay, same principle applies... i usually can tell if people wear what they are wearing, or appear like they are appearing and there is no greater turn off for me then pretending...

colour preferences would be black and purple, though... and please no yellow/orange/gold...
denim or dress would both be okay...
i personally just dont like it when appearance screams porn or prostitute (or lets say when it looks too easy/cheap... its not difficult these days to look halfway decent)...


for tag manager: i met tons of men who think like you, do you dress fashionable? the ones who are the happiest about feminine clothes here are the ones in sneakers, t shirts and cargo pants, or similar (no offense, just wondering)...
 
It is funny, most of Japanese shops where are specialized milf require their women to wear skirt. No pants are allowed at work.
Some ladies show up in very casual cloths purposely and change into skirt after arriving at the office.

When I see my clients, I always wear smart casual. No pants and always 7cm heels yet not overly dressed. I have worn Kimono once when my client took me to Kyoto trip.
It was his request.
 
smart and sexy

I wanna feel like I am with a very high class person who looks amazing and knows it

if I fork out a load of money and the person there looks ordinary.. Like someone I could pick up myself.. I would ne disappointed...

also.. It's helps set the tone.. If you look really sexy it's gonna make me wanna rip those clothes off

but then.. I am not a married man who has to worry about being seen with another woman
 
I like skirts or dresses. For Japanese ladies I think yukata or kimono are incredibly sexy, although I never requested it. I'm not sure why I'm not such a big fan of Western ladies wearing a kimono, but I guess it doesn't look natural to me and posture and movement may look a bit different.
Most people important is that the lady feels comfortable in her clothes. As @Wwanderer, unless we go to some place that requires such, I don't like too formal or upscale clothes.
I like fashionable as I think described by @TAG Manager, but not to the degree of becoming an artwork, where I don't dare to touch anything in fear of destroying it.

Generally I prefer light make up only.

Costumes can be nice for variation or some role play. But that's for inside the room ;)
 
From my experience, most ladies (90%) show up in jeans and some casual clothes. Each and every time I hated it. Wearing some nice relatively sexy dress, heels and make-up not only sets the tone of the evening but shows that the lady was preparing for the evening and was looking forward to it (even if she didn't ;)). She gets extra points with me and I tend to have more prolonged chit-chat with her, admiring her looks.
 
My personal taste is that she wear something easy to remove :)
 
Thank you all for the replies and thoughts :love:

colour preferences would be black and purple, though... and please no yellow/orange/gold...
denim or dress would both be okay...
i personally just dont like it when appearance screams porn or prostitute (or lets say when it looks too easy/cheap... its not difficult these days to look halfway decent)...

Just a little bit confused on that. How come yellow is seen as porn or prostitute color? Never seen a cute and nice yellow summer dress? I can understand with gold..maybe but yellow? :confused:

Some client staying at 5 star hotel has asked me to wear something like that.
I declined. I would be most likey banned at the reception!

I have to agree. And I wouldn't even wear that in public on the way to the date. However, changing to that outfit in the room seems perfectly fine. Or maybe on colder days in autumn/winter its easily hidden by a coat.

One of the best things about moving to Tokyo was the change in fashion.

Where I moved from, many women had given up on appearing like women. So many resorted to pants, jeans, oversized shirts or sweatshirts... and wearing things like crocs or overly casual clothes that just made them very grey and dull.

This doesn't apply to escorts, but just women in general.

To be honest, Japan also changed my preferences in style and I have mainly only dresses and skirts. Just recently got 3 pairs of jeans because this winter was freezing cold :hungover: When I was back in Germany during my 6 months break I also noticed that the majority of women were wearing jeans, shirt and converse shoes only. I saw very few with dresses and skirts.
 
Jeans and T. Gimme! Drive me freakin' wild(ish). It is just a beautiful juxtaposition. Basic yet complicated. The power and the glory. The agony and ecstasy. A T is just so, so simple and accessible, with that hint of form but no form, and primeval (wet T-shirt contests, anyone). Jeans are made for the female form. I kowtow to Levi! All of it is a millimetre of blue denim to paradise! Skin but not skin. (And, girls, you know it - but it is the perfect barrier! You boys will have to work for this!) You know what is in there. You can see it. Feel it. And you WANT it. But getting them off!! Zippered up with a coat hanger, you need a crowbar to get 'em off! Oh, what glorious frustration! Once done you can fling the buggers off across the room with no damage! They even fall sexily! White T. Blue jeans. Red stilettos. The wonder of women.
 
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I would like an escort to wear a school uniform to meet me but that would mean the police are not too far behind
 
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One of the major reasons I am attracted to Japanese girls is because of the effort they put into their appearance. Some Europeans also are pretty good about this, but Americans seem to be pretty slack in this area. If an escort showed up in jeans and a t-shirt I'd be pretty disappointed. I'd want a simple cocktail dress (or cute top and short ruffly A-line skirt), heels or knee high boots, and a hair set if possible! Bonus points if she wears Ma*rs, daTura, Rady, or d.i.a. If I were to keep seeing her she could tone it down sometimes
 
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One of the major reasons I am attracted to Japanese girls is because of the effort they put into their appearance. Some Europeans also are pretty good about this, but Americans seem to be pretty slack in this area. If an escort showed up in jeans and a t-shirt I'd be pretty disappointed. I'd want a simple cocktail dress (or cute top and short ruffly A-line skirt), heels or knee high boots, and a hair set if possible! Bonus points if she wears Ma*rs, daTura, Rady, or d.i.a. If I were to keep seeing her she could tone it down sometimes
The boy knows his brands! :D
 
One of the major reasons I am attracted to Japanese girls is because of the effort they put into their appearance. Some Europeans also are pretty good about this, but Americans seem to be pretty slack in this area. If an escort showed up in jeans and a t-shirt I'd be pretty disappointed. I'd want a simple cocktail dress (or cute top and short ruffly A-line skirt), heels or knee high boots, and a hair set if possible! Bonus points if she wears Ma*rs, daTura, Rady, or d.i.a. If I were to keep seeing her she could tone it down sometimes

Very interesting with the brands tho :D I have 3 dresses from Rady but I stopped buying them because the quality is really bad for such a high price. Same goes for datura and all those sister brands like Emiria Wiz or Delyle.
 
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Very interesting with the brands tho :D I have 3 dresses from Rady but I stopped buying them because the quality is really bad for such a high price. Same goes for datura and all those sister brands like Emiria Wiz or Delyle.

Interesting thing I noticed about many Japanese brands.. The fashion changes so quickly and wears out so fast that they're usually meant to be worn only one season or maybe two. Sure look good though!
 
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The boy knows his brands! :D
He sure does! Those are my favorites! (Plus emiria wiz).

Interesting thing I noticed about many Japanese brands.. The fashion changes so quickly and wears out so fast that they're usually meant to be worn only one season or maybe two. Sure look good though!
Agreed. My closet is way too big so most items i don't wear so much.
The bad quality is hardly a pain to me, i care more about the fit.