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Maintaining A Balance - Communication With Sb

Kegger

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Question for those with experience.
How often do you communicate with your SB/SD?

I'm finding I'm spending a lot of time on Line with the current one.
We see each other twice a month of so, but chat everyday (and sometimes for several hours). Is this usual?

I'd kind of like to cut back, but our conversations have a way of going on and on.
 
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I can talk to an SD everyday, at least just to say hi and see how he's doing.. but I know they're usually pretty busy, so I limit myself to talk only once or twice a week on LINE.

I get to see an SD once a month, and the other maybe once every few months..? They're both LDRs :( lol
 
Sounds like someone is in love...
I'm too old for that.:p

Hopefully once the novelty wears off (It's only been 6 weeks)...

The other thing is that I've been laying off the alcohol recently so have been staying in at night more.
 
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Unsurprisingly there is a lot of variation, but in a typical/average case, I communicate (usuallly LINE) with an SB around once or twice per week and have fairly significant conversations, enough to keep in touch with how she's doing and significant developments in her life...and to keep her similarly informed/involved about/in mine. There have been cases in which I was on LINE (or something similar) for an hour or more nearly every day for extended periods of time (months in a few cases) as you describe @Kegger , but as @User#16452 mentions, this would normally be when something beyond, or at least a bit different from, normal sugar dating was in play. I also have one SB whom I have been seeing for well over five years now with whom I only exchange an occasional (less than once per month) and brief (a few messages and stickers back-and-forth) "checking in" type of LINE conversation. Our substantial interactions are all in-person.

In general, a great thing about the sugar bowl is that the relationships are so unconventional that neither party really knows what to expect of the other; there is no script for it. The two people are thus forced to develop/discover something together that works well for both of them (ideally)...in many aspects of their connection, not just communication.

-Ww
 
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Sounds like someone is in love...

From my experience, unless there are common interests, SDs usually prefer to communicate in person on dates and anything else is just arranging dates.

This was my experience with SBs too. Maybe a few texts now and then but basically as above.
 
For me, there is no limitations as to how much you wanna communicate, as long as it doesn't bother your and her everyday life and function. If you wanna communicate everyday for hours, then do so, if not, then don't. Just do what you want and what is natural for you. Don't overthink everything.
 
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