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Being a Japanese-American living in Seattle (although born in Osaka),
I remember my parents and relatives always tying to hook me up with other Japanese girls....mostly ones who were less Americanized than I had become.

Back then, I hated it and would avoid going out with Japanese Girls.
Then once I hit high school, all the J-girls I knew/met/went to school with would want to hook up with mostly only my white friends.

Once I finished college and had the opportunity to travel all over the world the past 10 years....mostly in SE Asia, I got to meet a lot of great Asian Girls from all over the world.
But, over this time, I really began realizing how great J-Girls are.

IMHO, why J-Girls are so great ! ! !

a. they are so so Kawaii in how they live, act, personality
b. they are just plain cuter than most other asians
c. Japanese culture is awesome
d. Being in Tokyo and other J-cities is a lot of fun (comparing to other A-cities)
e. Easy to talk to, hang-out with, less aggressive, less angry
f. put all these things together and its ...... :)


todd2rip
 
Two comments:

First, it is my general observation that a significant fraction, a minority but not a tiny one, of gaijin (actually, I mean Westerners) find nearly everything about Japan and Japanese people fascinating and charming...and quickly become Nihon-addicts after their first exposure. (There's another significant minority who have just the opposite reaction; everything Japanese sets their teeth on edge. But they are not the point here.) My guess is that the J-girl obsessed guys you, Karen, mention are just such male nihonophiles who are also obsessed with all things Japanese.

Second, there are plenty of exceptions (including me), but an awful lot of guys have extremely narrow and highly focused "tastes" when it comes to women. Sometimes it is women who have particularly attractive specific body parts (leg-men, ass-men, breast-men, feet-men...); sometimes it is a particular length or color of hair; sometimes a certain way of dressing (Japanese schoolgirl uniforms!); etc etc. I've even run into guys who are really really into a specific accent. This is not to say that they (most of them) cannot find women with other traits attractive too but just that there is one specific characteristic of some women that is an instant and strong turn-on. Why? Who knows really, but my speculation is that it is somehow related to the psychological phenomenon of "patterning" which is thought to be responsible, in its extreme form, for odd fetishes and such. For example, men who are extremely turned on by women's shoes...even without any woman around to wear them! In other words, some of these "highly specific taste" men are focused on nationality or ethnicity for whatever reason. Not that this really explains anything, just a bit of speculative context.

-Ww
 
"Nihon-addicts" - I know a number of people with this affliction!

From a woman's point of view, I know guys that came to Japan and were totally wow'd over the local Japanese girl population and dove in head first. After a few years, their tastes started to change and began seeking out white girls again. I was once told by a former boyfriend that he had grown tired of the Asian types and needed the comfort of a regular white girl. He felt that I was more exotic and rare since there not nearly as many white, American/British/Australian women living in Tokyo, or Japan as a whole.

The short version of this story: He got tired of having the same type of Asian girl over and over and found that white girls offered that exotic feeling again.

As for me, I've dated Japanese men and for the most part felt like I was replacing their mother. :( That didn't work with me, so I have stuck to western men. Although, just having recently broken up with a British guy, I'm perfectly happy to be single for now.

UGH. Well, you get the picture.

~K~
 
Karen said:
I've dated Japanese men and for the most part felt like I was replacing their mother. :( That didn't work with me, ...
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I've heard exactly the same complaint/problem from many western women who've spent time in Japan, including some married (now or once) to Japanese guys. Appears to be a strong pattern...

-Ww
 
It's a cultural thing. Japanese women are supposed to kind, sweet, but still be tigers in bed. And sometimes its even true. Also, Japanese women seem to have a good sense of exchange. I mean that most of them aren't gold diggers like you find in other countries. I'm from the United States. Los Angeles to be exact. And the girls from there... I mean, is it polite to ask a guy, on the first date, after knowing him maybe 10 minutes "How much money do you make?"

I can't see a Japanese woman doing that. Also, Japanese women are almost never rude or obnoxious. They want to have a good life and have fun but still understand that real life takes work.

That's my 2 cents
 
Of course, this can only be answered with gross generalizations but here goes. I've slept with Korean, Thai, Filipina, Nepali, Chinese (Hong Kong), and Japanese. My favorite is Hong Kong and Japanese. Koreans are good when they are young but once they hit a certain age, they get fucking scary. Hong Kong girls only wanted a boy toy so I liked that a lot. Filipina are beautiful but they want to get married and send money home just a little too quickly. Japanese, on the other hand, are often in it just for the sex, and IMHO, they are fucking great at sex, provided they like to masturbate in front of me. A simple test, but so effective at separating the wheat from the chaff. There is nothing my girlfriend(s) won't do. Awesome!!!
 
Doesn't make a difference to me.

Girl I'm currently dating is 1/2 Filipino, 1/4 Chinese, 1/4 Japanese.
 
QP649 said:
Japanese, on the other hand, are often in it just for the sex, and IMHO, they are fucking great at sex, provided they like to masturbate in front of me. A simple test, but so effective at separating the wheat from the chaff. There is nothing my girlfriend(s) won't do. Awesome!!!
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Can we take this and run with it a little bit? I think it's an interesting "test". We're talking just her full on rubbing herself while you sit back and watch right? So absolutely no interaction from you, except maybe something verbal. I think it is a good test..
 
where are some hot club in tokyo go pick up sexy Japanese girl, infor please address and phone if you know?

Thank you
TimoCcur
 
katjo said:
Can we take this and run with it a little bit? I think it's an interesting "test". We're talking just her full on rubbing herself while you sit back and watch right? So absolutely no interaction from you, except maybe something verbal. I think it is a good test..
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Hey, i like that. I never masterbate in front of my girls. For men this is a waste of 'resources' hehehe.
But for women who can cum multiple times its for sure a great turn on (as the privious poster mentioned, a great litmus test for the sexual freedom of the woman).
 
Mixed girls can be a lot of fun. I've been with a variety of combinations.

Asian girls are quiet and reserved on the outside, but behind closed doors it's a truly different story.

The two hottest girls that I've dated, one was a korean-japanese mix and the other was an American-Japanese mix. The eyes and skin on the A/J girl was just killer. The K/J girl was a fireball, almost too much for me. Both were loud and both were just off the scale in general.

One girl was a Chinese-Japanese mix, but she really turned out to be a head case. My regular fling now is a regular Japanse lady who works in the building next to mine. I'm slowing working her to give it up during lunch one day. :D

As a side note, I did have a randomn encounter with an American woman (white) about a year ago and I was quickly reminded why I like Asian types. The american girl got really smelly and sweaty towards the end... sweaty, ok... smelly? my god... what did she eat??
 
Hey I like this topic. Never had so many experienced to share but the fact that I really started to know asian ladys in San Francisco, where I was living in 2000 for almost two years. After a while I was able to suppose where the lady was coming from, China, japan, Thailand, Korea, Vietnam probably because I was working in the Show Business and that's make you more professional in observing details. Once got back to Italy, yes, I'm from there, I had a relationship, a hot one, with a lady half vietnamese half chinese born in Laos. The hottiest lady ever loved. Now I'm married with a japanese woman. Feeling to have done the right choice for a life companion. Really it scares me to deal with american girls or italian ones, they're really "pain in the ass" kind where You have to do all the day with.
 
btw nice to meet u all, i'm new here ^^
actually, i love asian girl than western( no offense) and not only japanese, indo,etc. but maybe because my mom, said "the most polite, humble, n soft to husband is japanese girl", n maybe, i think japanese girl is the best choice to be a good wife, hahha
btw is it true??? i hope someone can share their experience, hehehhe. btw i'm from indonesia.
 
I love Japanese girls soooooooo much. I am currently married to one now :)
 
I was kind of blind-sided by the whole Japan thing, personally. I got sent to Japan for work about 5 years ago, and found that Japanese women drive me crazy (in a good way).

My preference for women has always been petite with a cute face, and I've always really liked women with accents. Generally, Asian women meet all those criteria. I generally have been interested in Japanese women specifically since then because it was the language I was trying to learn and it was the country I knew best.

I think if you go by physical characteristics, Vietnamese or Filipina women would probably be the most attractive to me, but there's the factors above, plus I think Japan (and maybe South Korea and Singapore) are much more westernized and have much higher standards of living, so there's less cultural or economic problems when dating someone.
 
I think there are a number of reasons for the "shoyu bunnies only". Sorry, that's what women in Hawaii commonly refer to them as. I think for western males, it's the guise of submissive, polite, subservant type of character they create on the outside. But actually, some of them are really bizarre and borderline psychotic when it's behind closed doors. I personally like asian women and not just Japanese, because I'm half but was raised in the US. I'm just vert attracted to them, cause I think they carry themselves better than (gulp...) caucasian women.
 
Karen said:
For the guys!

Obviously, there are a lot of men out there that love the Asian women. Yellow fever and all that... However, sometimes I have found that not all men just like Asian women in general. Sometimes, they are a "Japanese Girl" only.

Why is that?

What is so special about a "Japanese Girl" over any other Asian type?

Curious minds want to know...

Let us call this thread, "Karen's Local Men Survey".
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For Karen:
The love for Asian women, and specially for a Japanese lady, goes deeper: A Japanese girl is very sensual. She knows every single part of the human body, her caresses, even her presence only, can give you an unbelievable, nearly intriguing, sense of relaxation and pleasure.
In addition, a Japanese young lady (at lest the persons I had the pleasure to meet), is normally well educated.
In a few words: There is a little geisha in every Japanese woman, and, to my opinion, there is no woman in the world who has so many qualities, beauty, intelligence, skill, savoir faire, etc. as a geisha does.
Hope this helps a little
Rgds
Severino
 
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All of you are crazy.

First of all, I highly doubt that very many of you on here have been with women from at least 3 different Asian countries (not counting hookers!). Within those places there are differences. Vietnamese girls look different all the time depending on their heritage (European mixed etc). Japanese girls look quite different too, there are some fucking slobs out there. And with today's fashions it is hard to find a young beauty that hasn't cropped her hair off and dyed it some stupid shade of orange.

I've been with girls from at least 5 Asian countries and also a lot of mixed (half Japanese/half Filipino, half Japanese/half American etc). Race has never made the slightest impact on their sensuality etc. Race is mostly a cultural factor, someone raised in China might be different from someone raised in Japan, but the DNA itself changes very little. Of course it changes outward appearance, but there is beauty in every race everywhere. If you can't see it, open your eyes!
 
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