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So I'm wondering that for a while. What do you look at in an ad from SW's?

When I read German advertisements from girls on forums and such I always notice that the language is rather vulgar and dirty. Like 'my wet pussy is waiting for you'
'I need your hard dick in my pussy, come visit me'
'I need someone to fuck me good' (just some examples, some are even dirtier)
Is that actually an indicator for you to contact that lady or do you like it more normal, like an introduction, likes and dislikes, service etc.
 
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Anna Summer said:
So I'm wondering that for a while. What do you look at in an ad from SW's?

When I read German advertisements from girls on forums and such I always notice that the language is rather vulgar and dirty. Like 'my wet pussy is waiting for you'
'I need your hard dick in my pussy, come visit me'
'I need someone to fuck me good' (just some examples, some are even dirtier)
Is that actually an indicator for you to contact that lady or do you like it more normal, like an introduction, likes and dislikes, service etc.
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dunno about the others but when I see and add I skip most of it and only pay attention to the pictures and the prices then I see the options (ie anal or no anal).
 
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If I see vulgarities like those in an ad, I lose interest immediately and completely no matter how hot the photos or reasonable the prices. A crude come'on turns me off totally. Of course, I am a bit odd; it could easily be the opposite for most guys.

-Ww
 
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Its very provocative and straigjt to the point but I doubt that they'll deliver or feel same way when you meet them. YMMV I guess...

But for me, thats a no... I would like to have some sort of connection with my services. So some introduction would be great
 
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Wwanderer said:
If I see vulgarities like those in an ad, I lose interest immediately and completely no matter how hot the photos or reasonable the prices. A crude come'on turns me off totally. Of course, I am a bit odd; it could easily be the opposite for most guys.
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I'm the same way. Much of professional porn is also ugly in the same style, crude and utterly unattractive to me.

Personally my bar is so high that looking at ads is pointless, but hypothetically I'd be looking for hints of class, education, safety, and a love of sex.
 
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Maybe it's like with porn; if a guy is already horny it will turn him on and make him react. Such ads might work for a spur of the moment move.
I think it a guy calmly thinks about it and compares ads to each other, tries to find someone who is the best match for him, those aggressive texts are a bad idea.

Interesting topic!
 
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I personally like adds that reveal a bit of what would happen as a teaser.
If it only lists the services, I'm bored. A little introduction is nice, but I don't need a whole biography. I think a little direct language can be ok, but it's easily overdone.
Most important to me is that it somehow sticks out and is an individual add. Many are copy&paste or build on some text modules.

Unlike some others here if I compensate ladies for our time together, it is mainly for sensual time together, therefore a thorough background check on education etc. is not that important to me.
 
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Wwanderer said:
If I see vulgarities like those in an ad, I lose interest immediately and completely no matter how hot the photos or reasonable the prices. A crude come'on turns me off totally. Of course, I am a bit odd; it could easily be the opposite for most guys.

-Ww
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100% agree.
This might be the opposite for guys, but not for gentlemen. I'm pretty sure most of the regulars here will feel the same way about vulgarities.

And vulgarities not only in an ad. In my particular case, I even excused myself on a dinner date, and just had to leave. (after a drink, before the restaurant, and yes I had already handed the envelope)

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BTW @Anna Summer , to answer your question, I do look for a little bit of background, the person interests and accurate pictures, with that I can "decide" if we will be a compatible match before contacting the person.
I'm always talking from a 'dinner date' perspective.
 
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I even excused myself on a dinner date, and just had to leave
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Impressive self control! I met a woman (ironically enough from Germany) and when I met her at dinner she turned out to look just like someone I worked with. I should have left then as the "turn-on" effect was essentially lost. I was ironically the one "going through the motions" in the end. The high road is the better way!

As for ads - I like the background of the person and learning a little about them. If there is not at least some basic mental connection there is no point in meeting...
 
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Damian said:
This might be the opposite for guys, but not for gentlemen.
I'm always talking from a 'dinner date' perspective.
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toner935 said:
The high road is the better way!
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Both well said!

Imo, we (mongers) should be at pains to be classy in our p4p activities as much as possible; among other advantages it combats the stigmatization of sex work and the conventional wisdom that p4p is sketchy. One of the big attractions of sugar arrangements to most SBs and SDs is that it emphasizes the classier parts of the interaction, the "dinner date perspective",, as you put it @Damian .

-Ww
 
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Since I'm not a frequent visitor of providers, I frequently use the ads to just find photos, price, and contact information so I can check review sites to get an understanding of their personality.

Looks are a big selling point in the industry, but looks aren't much good if there's no chemistry between the people involved.

As for ads I generally like, I'm a fan of p411's layout of ads for providers. I think @User#16452 could show you what I mean. However, it's not very popular in Japan so I don't use it anymore.
 
Agree with Verbal. I always check the reviews after the ad. If I can't click with the provider, relax and have a good time conversing then I might as well stay home. I hate it when things get akward after things don't go as planned.
 
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Anna Summer said:
So I'm wondering that for a while. What do you look at in an ad from SW's?

When I read German advertisements from girls on forums and such I always notice that the language is rather vulgar and dirty. Like 'my wet pussy is waiting for you'
'I need your hard dick in my pussy, come visit me'
'I need someone to fuck me good' (just some examples, some are even dirtier)
Is that actually an indicator for you to contact that lady or do you like it more normal, like an introduction, likes and dislikes, service etc.
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Those are horrible, nicht wahr? Men like to be the conqueror. Better to play the innocent madchen.

Und

The idea of sexy underwear is to not reveal the fleisch, but rather to entice. Your ads and words should be the same.
 
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