When Meeting With Providers..

How would you like a provider to greet you?

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Since I like affection, I've always wanted to hug clients when meeting them and give them a quick kiss on the cheek.. but I feel as it can easily turn awkward and may make some guys uncomfortable (especially in public).. so I don't do it often and usually stick to just shaking hands. I feel bad since my service type is supposed to be GFE.. :notworthy:

So, when you book a deli-health provider, escort, etc.. how would you want to be greeted? And does your preference change if you have to meet her in public?

If you decide to answer the poll or reply to the thread, thank you in advance ^__^
 
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If you are OK with any kind of approach, I suggest to let the client make the choice (when possible, I guess there are shy clients also).

In my case, when I first meet with a new person (provider or not) , I use a handshake (just in case).
But it also happened to me, that I had a long date, and after we were saying goodbye I found the provider extending her hand to me while I was going for a cheek kiss.
It was awkward, and I felt a little bit dumb.

But, having into consideration that you offer a GFE experience, a kiss does not sound inappropriate.
It might help you if you know before hand where your date is from. Yadda yadda, different countries, different cultures.
 
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Depends on the girl as well as the meeting place... I put in a vote for hug because even for a first time meeting that's a very kind and welcome ice breaker (especially if its a GFE kind of situation). In almost all cases for me I meet the girls inside the room so I'm not worried about people seeing us.

On the reverse I almost always spend time with my favorite provider in an area of town that I'm in for work pretty frequently (about a 3 minute walk from a place I'm usually at once or twice a week for work) and on a very populated street. Meeting is no problem as we meet up inside but we always leave together and she gives me a kiss before we part company. On the one hand it is so, so welcome but on the other hand I'm always just a little worried about someone I know walking by...
 
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A hug usually feels about right to me, but it is not a major issue...just something that feels natural to the lady seems best to me.

I don't think I've ever received a kiss on the lips as first physical contact in public, but a kiss on the cheek during a hug is pretty common.

Btw @MissInsomnia , I think the new middle name sounds hot (combined with your first name I mean).

-Ww
 
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Yeah, it definitely depends on if you are meeting in public or not. It doesn't really matter to me, but I don't think a married guy would want a woman kissing him in public.

Most of the delivery health girls seem kind of standoffish to me until shower time. Stateside, a kiss on the lips isn't necessarily inappropriate but not really expected for me. Some of the K-Girls I've seen have 'greeting the guy at the door like a boyfriend' as part of their 'script', but there's a fairly high standard of hygiene on both sides in that scene.
 
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Yes, a completely different story if the first meeting is in private. In that case some providers put the pedal to the metal from the first moment, but as @meiji mentions it typically doesn't feel "natural" at all, isn't anything you'd imagine happening on a first meeting in any np4p situation. On quite a number of occasions I've been "greeted" with a BBBJ by a provider, for example, but while I don't hate it, that is going a bit too fast for my tastes.

-Ww
 
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Wwanderer said:
On quite a number of occasions I've been "greeted" with a BBBJ by a provider, for example, but while I don't hate it, that is going a bit too fast for my tastes.
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Yeah, that's a bit much for me. Meeting me at the door with a kiss and a mutually groping hug is a good enough preview for me that I'm going to have a good time and for her its enough to know that I'm not a cop or whatever (although plenty of cops 'sample the goods' in the US before busting an org).
 
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One of my most memorable physical greetings happened fairly early in the era of internet indie providers when I met one who was on tour for an incall date at her upscale hotel. She came down to the lobby to meet me and bring me up to her room. She arrived in the lobby wearing nothing visible except a long length (mid-calf) fur coat (real fur I think) wrapped tightly around her all the way up to her neck plus high heels. In other words, she had nothing much showing, but it turned out that she was wearing nothing else at all! As soon as we were on the elevator and the doors closed, she opened her coat wide to display her excellent body and pulled me in for DFK and groping/fondling hugs as we rode up to her floor. I assume that she had already checked to make sure the elevator didn't have a security camera and would have done nothing if anyone else got on the elevator with us. The surprise value and semi-public feeling made it a real turn-on. I felt like the walk from the elevator down the hall to her room took about an hour I was so anxious to continue.

I don't intend to derail the thread, but it seemed like a good opportunity to tell this tale.

-Ww
 
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Pulling it back after that very entertaining detour from @Wwanderer ...

Most providers I've met did the whole personel introduction bit with a respectful space in-between us. Almost seemed like a formal meeting/job interview. That seemed to set the tone of the encounter and I never bothered to repeat with them.

On the other hand, one of my best experiences was with a provider who greeted me with a hug and a quick kiss on the lips. The intimacy kind of put me at ease and also steamrolled over that initial awkwardness when meeting someone for the first time. She's now one of my go-to providers when I'm in the mood. The greeting hug is still there but the kisses have gone on longer (and with more tongue).
 
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In Japan when meeting in public space I can't remember to ever have received a kiss or a hug.
You identify each other and then you walk like a couple towards your destination. If it's not a crowded place that could sometimes mean clinking in or even holding hands, but usually it's just walking side by side.
If you meet in the lobby of an lh, it's often a kiss on the cheeks. Behind closed doors everything goes ;)

Oh and I second that a handshake would be something I don't want to receive.
 
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With a new provider, usually no contact until the physical escalation happened (eyes contact, smiles, light touch, ... ).
For sure, no handshake... It is natural in a working environment or with new acquaintances. But seems so wrong with a lover and to another extent with a provider.
 
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Great topic! I think a provider could really distinguish herself from the rest by simply asking how the client would prefer to be greeted. The necessary pre-meeting communication is a fabulous opportunity for independents to warm things up.

Personally if I was meeting in public in Japan I'd prefer the girl to take my arm or hold my hand as we walked. A brief hug would be fine too, but uncommon in Japan. If the meeting was in private then a really warm hug would be perfect and any sort of non-tongue kiss would be nice.

I don't do P4P outside sugar dating though so my opinions are probably biased towards things nore common in established relationships.
 
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I voted hug, but I liked Hana's comment about a hug and kiss on the cheek. We are about to get very intimate, and this is a nice ice-breaker.

I'll never forget my first meeting with Manami. She stepped up and hugged me and then kissed me right next to my mouth. She felt like a long-time friend. Really nice.
 
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In public, no real physical contact. A smile, "hey, so nice to meet you" and maybe a light touch and holding hands on the way if the guy seems up for it.

In private, a hug, some pecks, sometimes a quick touch under the belt if i'm feeling naughty.
 
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It really depends on the location and what type of cleints I am meeting, new or repeat.
When I see them at regular hotel or residence, I usually give them kiss on their lips straight, sometimes goes into DFK. Passinate date has begun!
On the other hand, if I meet a client in public and he is new, I even don't shahe hands. I meet him on the meeting spot, maybe bow with smile and start walking to a love hotel.
I intentionally give him kind of formal impression. Then after we get on the elevator, my play time begins! I like to make him feel the gap in a good way:)
Now for repeating client I meet in public, I may or may not kiss on cheek or even lips, hug or just smile. It depends on his personality or where he lives; if he is a local who has many friends living in Tokyo or temporary visitor who can be a little naughty in public.
 
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I would say hug or no physical contact. Kiss on the cheek makes me feel like I'm meeting a sibling or something.
A hug can make a shy or nervous client feel more at ease, but I guess it could also make them uncomfortable if they don't like public signs of affection and you're meeting in public.
 
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... I usually introduce myself shaking hand and saying "Bond, my name is Bond" looking straight in her eyes. If the lady replies "and I'm Miss Moneypenny" she definitely gets a tip.
 
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I base everything off of what the person I am meeting wants to do. If they offer a hand I will shake their hand and give them a QB handshake, meaning I will give only as much pressure as you give back. You go for a hug I will hug, but the whole kiss on each cheek which I see Europeans do in movies and what not I am not to comfortable with mainly because I do not know you to be doing that, if I know you after awhile then possibly.
 
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I love giving them a quick hug! But I made the awkward mistake of fist bumping one of my clients when I first started! (⁄ ⁄>⁄ ▽ ⁄<⁄ ⁄) Never again LOL, it was so funny and awkward at that point, but me and this client laugh about it now when we meet, and we end our date with a fistbump (≧◡≦)

But most of the time, I give them a quick hug and quick peck on the cheeks if they're repeats. If they're new/ I meet them in public, then no such physical contact for discretion purposes, with a smile and a "How are you?"
 
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