Hii! , A Broken Soul Visiting From Australia!

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*ninja edit* ok.. I don't know why 'boku wa' auto corrected to broken soul :S awkward!
moushiwake arimasen deshita!

Hello kindred spirits!

Currently touring Japan with my older sibings, its been a great cultural experience so far and can't wait to be at Tokyo as we're currently leaving Osaka.

Prior to leaving the country my family literally gave me spending money specifically for p4p, saying go have fun, suit and armor is a must soaplands are an utter bliss.
( Being kissless virgin at 21 and counting hopefully not by 40, however I'm in no rush, comes when it comes :D.
Parents and siblings jokingly questioning my sexuality since I never brought home a girl yet. (dad and older brother set bench marks in their history with women when they were my age range, they're probably wondering what's wrong with their youngest.. ahhh expectations)

As much as I appreciate the gesture I don't I can have a bite.
Don't have anything against the people working in the industry, infact I actually respect them alot, I tend to think that if someone like me didn't have the social skills to snag the occasional interest from the opposite sex, then soliciting it would be the most terrifying interaction imaginable.

I just I have a bad case of TMS (traumatic masturabatory syndrome) it's started when I was 4 so young I know.... and it's broken my ability to achieve climax through conventional methods since I been used to the unorthadox prone for as long as I lived.
I remember for my 21st birthday my friends took me to a erotic nude massage palor with happy endings.
They booked me for HJ&BJ. I thought I was going to explode in the first few seconds. Nope! body found the sensation too foreign to comprehend and it was numbing from start to end. She tried really hard to give me a happy ending, I didn't doubt her ability, I believed she did nothing wrong, in the end she didn't get to see my cum face.

She felt displeased not being to deliver. I felt horrible and apologized. I was grateful for her efforts and dedication till the end.

Pretty much lied to my friends that I had a great time. I'm too embarrassed to disclose my problem to them not even my family, but not at all in here for some reason lol.

I just don't want to set myself up for disappointment and make my holiday a buzzkill should I decide to follow through and find out its going to affect my sex life too, it would be heartbreaking if this will sabotage my future relationships.

Been abstaining for a while, but sometimes its a bitch when my libido hits the roof wanting to feck anything that moves or have it constantly on your mind. Have to off myself sometimes to have a peace of mind.

Anywho thanks for reading. Glad to be part of this community!

SeeUsmiles!
 
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Australia?

This is the most amazing post I have ever read written by a native English speaker!!!

Or, perhaps Google Translate has an Australian to English option?:cautious:
 
Hmmmm. I understand why you'd be reluctant to try out a P4P session due to your syndrome and past experiences. But being in an area and situation where you have a great array of P4P options to choose from, it also seems like a waste to not even try one! By no means am I trying to convince you to do anything you're not comfortable doing, especially if you feel a bad session would ruin your holiday, but I'd hate to see you post here later kick yourself and regret not taking the chance.

Regardless of what you decide to do, I hope you have a wonderful time in Japan!
 
Hmmmm. I understand why you'd be reluctant to try out a P4P session due to your syndrome and past experiences. But being in an area and situation where you have a great array of P4P options to choose from, it also seems like a waste to not even try one! By no means am I trying to convince you to do anything you're not comfortable doing, especially if you feel a bad session would ruin your holiday, but I'd hate to see you post here later kick yourself and regret not taking the chance.

Regardless of what you decide to do, I hope you have a wonderful time in Japan!

cheers faboo. very much appreciated :).

We shall see, I'll do a bit of homework and plan it near a date before I leave should the stars align and fate takes me there. XD
 
Can I suggest you don't see ejaculation as the goal of activity?
Why not use the experience to explore a woman's body, and enjoy being touched by a woman.
You can still have a rewarding and furfilling experience even if you don't get across the line.
Relax and enjoy is my motto.
There have been a few times where I have risen to the occasion but I've still had a fun time.
Don't take yourself to seriously and focus on the experience not the goal.
 
Can I suggest you don't see ejaculation as the goal of activity?
Why not use the experience to explore a woman's body, and enjoy being touched by a woman.
You can still have a rewarding and furfilling experience even if you don't get across the line.
Relax and enjoy is my motto.
There have been a few times where I have risen to the occasion but I've still had a fun time.
Don't take yourself to seriously and focus on the experience not the goal.
Appreciate the suggestion of not being outcome dependant.
For now I'll keep exploring tokyo until I'm really sure about this.
 
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Relax and enjoy is my motto.
There have been a few times where I have risen to the occasion but I've still had a fun time.
Don't take yourself to seriously and focus on the experience not the goal.

Words of wisdom for so much of Life!!!

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hmm to be honest with you more than a soapland I think a one on one experience with an escort might be a more viable option? These women have experience with many types and you could easily communicate your issues etc. to her in a controlled environment. I don't know your level of Japanese but Im going to guess not much so, one of the TAG escorts would do you well as they all speak fluent english and are very well reviewed.
 
hmm to be honest with you more than a soapland I think a one on one experience with an escort might be a more viable option? These women have experience with many types and you could easily communicate your issues etc. to her in a controlled environment. I don't know your level of Japanese but Im going to guess not much so, one of the TAG escorts would do you well as they all speak fluent english and are very well reviewed.

Thanks patty! I will look into it. yes my japanese is kinder grade not enough to get by.
 
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A quick question.... how much porn do you view/have you viewed?

I've just been at a conference in Australia, where we heard from top researchers in the areas of children and sexuality.

Within the next 10 years, incredible 40% of young men will have ED (Erectile Disfunction) at age 19.
Why?
Their plastic (still developing) brains will be hard-wired to only being aroused by porn. Getting into bed with a warm and naked young lady will just not be exciting enough to arouse them.

My advice is to get rid of any porn that you view (if you do), hire an independent escort, and don't focus on orgasm as your goal.
It may be helpful to start your sexual education from scratch and reset your brain.
 
A quick question.... how much porn do you view/have you viewed?

I've just been at a conference in Australia, where we heard from top researchers in the areas of children and sexuality.

Within the next 10 years, incredible 40% of young men will have ED (Erectile Disfunction) at age 19.
Why?
Their plastic (still developing) brains will be hard-wired to only being aroused by porn. Getting into bed with a warm and naked young lady will just not be exciting enough to arouse them.

My advice is to get rid of any porn that you view (if you do), hire an independent escort, and don't focus on orgasm as your goal.
It may be helpful to start your sexual education from scratch and reset your brain.

Thanks Mischa very much appreciated.
As far porn goes.... I lost count. Found out about the "internet" around 2005-2006 so I was around 10-11 age range and that's where my porn voyage began. However I been abstaining for the past 3 months now.
 
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Hey all just recently had a bit of a life changing experience (will open a separate thread about this soon)

I ultimately decided, I will not be engaging in any p4p/escorts etc activity.
I made up my mind that this is not the way I would like to relinquish my V-card and that I will dedicate myself to just go out there, be brave invest on my social skills and lose my virginity in my own terms and where I feel happy and satisfied without any money involved (well putting aside paying for dates hahaha)