Guys, I need advice.
I'm a 39 years old European woman, the Amelie-type (smiling eyes, slim body). Married young, divorced young. As for easy dating and/or forming deep relationships, I guess life has been easy on me, there were always guys around me who were interested. Meeting guys always happened pretty much spontaneously. So I can't even believe I have to write this post, but anyway...
After living in various cities in Europe and then in New York, I've been living in Tokyo for some time now as a researcher, and while Tokyo is a great and fun city, it's not the most spontaneous city in the world... and in fact quite a difficult place for a foreigner woman looking for relationships. Most of the guys in their late thirties - early forties here - (Japanese and non-Japanese) are either married or are interested in Japanese women in their 20s...
I'm not so much the clubbing type, but I go out sometimes. I use Meetup, it's fun, especially the sport and outdoor events are great, although most often than not the public events are either teenage parties or free language exchange.
Haven't tried InterNations yet.
Or Tinder. (At this point, I'm not primarily looking for quick hook-ups...)
Roppongi seems more like a "big white dude - drunk Japanese girl" scene - or maybe I just haven't found its secret yet?
So the questions are:
Where to find the the unmarried guys in their early forties who are interested in non-Japanese women?
You know, the nice guys?
Does this species exist at all?? (I guess it is.)
But where in Tokyo???
I'm a 39 years old European woman, the Amelie-type (smiling eyes, slim body). Married young, divorced young. As for easy dating and/or forming deep relationships, I guess life has been easy on me, there were always guys around me who were interested. Meeting guys always happened pretty much spontaneously. So I can't even believe I have to write this post, but anyway...
After living in various cities in Europe and then in New York, I've been living in Tokyo for some time now as a researcher, and while Tokyo is a great and fun city, it's not the most spontaneous city in the world... and in fact quite a difficult place for a foreigner woman looking for relationships. Most of the guys in their late thirties - early forties here - (Japanese and non-Japanese) are either married or are interested in Japanese women in their 20s...
I'm not so much the clubbing type, but I go out sometimes. I use Meetup, it's fun, especially the sport and outdoor events are great, although most often than not the public events are either teenage parties or free language exchange.
Haven't tried InterNations yet.
Or Tinder. (At this point, I'm not primarily looking for quick hook-ups...)
Roppongi seems more like a "big white dude - drunk Japanese girl" scene - or maybe I just haven't found its secret yet?
So the questions are:
Where to find the the unmarried guys in their early forties who are interested in non-Japanese women?
You know, the nice guys?
Does this species exist at all?? (I guess it is.)
But where in Tokyo???