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Hi, I'm a total clubbing newb and this is also one of the first times I have ever approached a girl in a place like this.
So I was at Camelot, and it took me a long time to garner up the courage to approach this 9/10(in my eyes)
(Personal details about me : 6 feet tall pale-skinned student in Japan. I'm 1/4 Italian and 3/4 Chinese and I guess I would fit the pretty boy stereotype really well. Also from what I experience in daily life, I get stares and girls touching their hair as soon as they walk past me. Girls usually never say it to my face, but I hear nice stuff about me when I walk past them. I also have the feeling guys are intimidated by me as they are more direct when staring at me. Sorry if I sound like a total narcissist but I'm trying to provide as many details as possible so the experts and gurus here can help me out!
Here's the whole story(almost albeit really bad structure because I'm sleepy as hell),
I go in the club with a friend, I see this really pretty girl, I tell my friend that, and he tells me to go for it. Instead, I just focused on having fun with my friend and the new people I met (I have dancing history so I guess you can say many eyes were on me).
Those who have been to Camelot probably know how huge it is(huge for a club in Tokyo), but this girl and her friend are basically just hanging out near me. She goes with her friend to get new drinks every now and then but she always comes back to where I am. When she starts dancing, she basically rubs her back against mine. I also felt someone poking my butt(when I turned around, there she was standing behind me(if it was her, she pretended like nothing happened)
To be honest, my peripheral vision is pretty damn good, I know when someone's looking at me usually.(And she was surely but subtlely glancing at me) I know for a fact that she searching for me because when I went to sit down at the side, she kept looking everywhere and when she saw me, she just turned back.
As I went back to dancing, I finally gained enough courage to raise my cup and she raised hers. She gave a smile and continued dancing. I backed off after that. My friend keeps telling me to go talk to her, and so I did. The first thing that came out of my mouth was, "Are you Japanese?", to which she whispers to me "No." and turns back to face the stage (I really regret this part because I could have done better with the first question.)(What I'm thinking is that, perhaps she thought I was looking for a Japanese girl)
Until now she has basically rejected every guy who has tried to get fresh with her. Now she's dancing with a guy in front of me. (This guy is dancing with other girls too) Though when he tried to do more than that, she pushed him away)
After that awkward conversation between us, all I could think of doing then was looking at her from a distance while still pretend to enjoy the dancing. She was still looking in my direction though.
When everything was finally over, I looked at her one final time and started walking to the station. When I reached Hachiko, I basically just sat there for 30 minutes waiting for her to show up. Was really hoping to make up for what happened in the club. Did not see her, or my poor eyesight probably missed her so I went home.
I'm really confused as to what this really means.
What do you guys think? I'm sure many of you know much better than me.
I really have no idea what to think, she basically
Thank you and sorry you had to read my shitty long fail.
So I was at Camelot, and it took me a long time to garner up the courage to approach this 9/10(in my eyes)
(Personal details about me : 6 feet tall pale-skinned student in Japan. I'm 1/4 Italian and 3/4 Chinese and I guess I would fit the pretty boy stereotype really well. Also from what I experience in daily life, I get stares and girls touching their hair as soon as they walk past me. Girls usually never say it to my face, but I hear nice stuff about me when I walk past them. I also have the feeling guys are intimidated by me as they are more direct when staring at me. Sorry if I sound like a total narcissist but I'm trying to provide as many details as possible so the experts and gurus here can help me out!
Here's the whole story(almost albeit really bad structure because I'm sleepy as hell),
I go in the club with a friend, I see this really pretty girl, I tell my friend that, and he tells me to go for it. Instead, I just focused on having fun with my friend and the new people I met (I have dancing history so I guess you can say many eyes were on me).
Those who have been to Camelot probably know how huge it is(huge for a club in Tokyo), but this girl and her friend are basically just hanging out near me. She goes with her friend to get new drinks every now and then but she always comes back to where I am. When she starts dancing, she basically rubs her back against mine. I also felt someone poking my butt(when I turned around, there she was standing behind me(if it was her, she pretended like nothing happened)
To be honest, my peripheral vision is pretty damn good, I know when someone's looking at me usually.(And she was surely but subtlely glancing at me) I know for a fact that she searching for me because when I went to sit down at the side, she kept looking everywhere and when she saw me, she just turned back.
As I went back to dancing, I finally gained enough courage to raise my cup and she raised hers. She gave a smile and continued dancing. I backed off after that. My friend keeps telling me to go talk to her, and so I did. The first thing that came out of my mouth was, "Are you Japanese?", to which she whispers to me "No." and turns back to face the stage (I really regret this part because I could have done better with the first question.)(What I'm thinking is that, perhaps she thought I was looking for a Japanese girl)
Until now she has basically rejected every guy who has tried to get fresh with her. Now she's dancing with a guy in front of me. (This guy is dancing with other girls too) Though when he tried to do more than that, she pushed him away)
After that awkward conversation between us, all I could think of doing then was looking at her from a distance while still pretend to enjoy the dancing. She was still looking in my direction though.
When everything was finally over, I looked at her one final time and started walking to the station. When I reached Hachiko, I basically just sat there for 30 minutes waiting for her to show up. Was really hoping to make up for what happened in the club. Did not see her, or my poor eyesight probably missed her so I went home.
I'm really confused as to what this really means.
What do you guys think? I'm sure many of you know much better than me.
I really have no idea what to think, she basically
Thank you and sorry you had to read my shitty long fail.