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    Wife Rejecting Husband's Sex Requests

    From what I understand, the whole thing could be fake anyway. Reddit is a pretty easy place to toss out red meat like that and watch the userbase go crazy over it. You seem to be indicting all women by default and clearly there's a lot more to your perception of the matter than just this one...
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    Why So Cynical? (and Other Rants)

    Lest anyone read this thread and come to the conclusion that Japan is a country of constant street brawls, I've lived here for years and never seen anything remotely resembling a fight. I don't care about nightlife much so I don't put myself in situations where I'm around drunk people very...
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    Machine Or Human Being...?

    Pardon me for projecting, but... One reason a guy might patronize P4P is that he feels rejected by women in the dating world. There's a lot of stigma in paying for the act rather than convincing a civilian. So if a guy has finally worked up the effort to find a girl, save up the money, book...
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    Reserving A Girl At Darling Harbour

    My experience is that there's no point in trying to reserve at Darling Harbor. It's very likely that you'll get there and the staff will just say "um... actually, she isn't available today." It's not too far of a walk from Minami-senju, but if you don't have a smartphone then it might be a...
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    Why So Cynical? (and Other Rants)

    My experience with making male Japanese friends is pretty similar to women - some of them are really happy to get to know a foreigner, and others not so much. It just boils down to individual personality. I even had an acquaintance of mine invite me out to kyabakura the other day but I took a...
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    AM Eri, Asian Mystique

    I'm out of the game for the moment but looking back, I'm really glad that I was able to meet Eri once. She's the kind of girl you wish you could wake up next to every day. I had a similar experience with her in that just lying there talking to her was probably more fun and memorable than the...
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    Crabs In A Barrel

    Maybe you don't intend to come off this way, but the way you're using "greed" and making comparisons to drug dealers is coming off like you still have that internalized Judeo-Christian complex about women making money off of sex. If you don't patronize their services, that's fine, but you don't...
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    P4p Providers : Diversity Vs Intimacy ?

    Funny that you mention Eri, R.O.B. - I've seen her once and damned if she isn't a complete gem. I haven't done much P4P but it sounds like she's really a special case. One thing that I've learned about myself is that, at least in this stage of my life, I really prefer intimacy. I wonder if it...
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    Suzu At Darling Harbor

    I'd strongly recommend taking that photo down. It's from the second lobby, and there's a big sign in there (in Japanese) saying "Photography prohibited". The girls don't want pictures of themselves floating around on the internet where they can be recognized. That's why just about all of the...
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    Sexually Transmitted Disease (std) Talk

    Sorry if this is the wrong place, but I couldn't find a more appropriate thread. How can you get tested for STDs in Japan? I'm starting a new relationship and while I've only done P4P a few times, I want to be pretty damn certain that I'm not going to give my girlfriend anything. Can you just...
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    Suzu At Darling Harbor

    Wow, she fell asleep giving a blow job? I'm surprised she wasn't more apologetic. You're parting with a fair deal of coin for her services. That's interesting that they offered Urara. When I went there I reserved her in advance, but when I showed up they were like "umm, she's on her period"...
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    King's Club Or Darling Harbor

    The standard answer here would probably be Darling Harbor, but lately I'm starting to wonder if the grass isn't greener at King's Club based on Pilou's review. I've gone to Darling Harbor twice and it was only on the second visit that I realized I wasn't getting the early-morning discount...
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    Why So Cynical? (and Other Rants)

    My experience with gaijin who just want to whine all the time is that they're out of their element and miserable, but don't have the gumption to better their situation. Usually they have extremely basic language skills and can only make a vague guess at what's going on around them every day. My...
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    Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

    I'd heard about this, but I didn't realize that it's made its way to Japan. Do you have to give it one location or does it key off where your phone detects you are? I'm out in the sticks but if I go into Tokyo for a weekend it might be a nice way to meet up with some random ladies. Can you...
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    King's Club In Yoshiwara

    Can you pick out either one of them on King's Club's site, or do they not bear much resemblance to reality?
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    King's Club In Yoshiwara

    Wow, sounds like King's Club isn't as foreigner-hostile as people were making it out to be. If it was just a 5,000 yen markup over standard price then that's not too bad, from what I can tell. Some of the girls on the site are really hot, but maybe that's just because their Photoshop guy is...
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    First Time At Darling Harbor, April 2014

    I haven't tried delihel or anything else yet, but I really like the hygiene/rejuvenation aspect of bathing and massaging and everything. She told me that she'd worked at Darling Harbor for a few years and another soapland in her hometown before that, so she's probably more well-practiced than...
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    First Time At Darling Harbor, April 2014

    Date/Time: April 2014, about 8 am Provider: Darling Harbor. I'm opting not to name the girl specifically since I don't know if it will get her or me into trouble at some point. She's one of their regulars. Contact Info: www.darling-h.com Type/Location: Soapland Language Specifics: I'm fluent in...
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    Learning The Language. Advice For A Non-resident

    If you're living overseas then I recommend finding some manga you like and downloading it. You can get the raw scanned files at sites like jcafe24.net. As a method of learning Japanese it has its upsides and downsides, but if you find something you like then it's a lot more fun than doing work...
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    Newbie Soapland Questions

    Well, shit! I did it! First of all, thanks to all who have contributed to the forum over the years so I could have some idea of what I was getting into. Helped a lot. I went in the night before and reserved a girl, but when I got there the next morning, they told me that she was on her period...