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  1. usualblue

    Using Hello Talk to. . .

    HT is one of the few ways I’ve managed to land college-age girls. Just have to be patient and show genuine interest.
  2. usualblue

    Dating Apps: A Guide

    Agree. Personality and confidence has a lot to do with it, in my experience. But I don’t think overweight guys should listen to advice that suggests they don’t have a chance. I think a similar post from the past simply said “don’t be fat.”
  3. usualblue

    Dating Apps: A Guide

    Sent you a private message, sir.
  4. usualblue

    Dating Apps: A Guide

    I often see "don't be fat" as a prerequisite for guys to attract Japanese women. I'm a big guy whose had a lot of success here, from cute and smart college girls to hot women in their 50s. I met most of them on dating apps. Personality and how interesting you are as a person often go a long way...
  5. usualblue

    Consequences of impregnating a Japanese woman?

    I’ve had three different Japanese women ask me the same thing at various times in my life. All three ended up changing their minds. They were just feeling 40 closing in and thought they were running out of time.
  6. usualblue

    japanese women on the pill

    My ex (early 20s Japanese) was on the pill. Definitely had no effect on her bust, though :-/
  7. usualblue

    The shortest person you've had sex with?

    Interesting that this subject came up today. Was with a 4’10” woman last night. Turns out she lives only a couple of blocks away from another woman I’ve been seeing. This could be challenging ...
  8. usualblue

    Sex on first date : the new norm?

    That was our only romp together, unfortunately. Love is fleeting ...
  9. usualblue

    Sex on first date : the new norm?

    She insisted on paying for dinner, too ...
  10. usualblue

    Got no principles?

    Either SKOUT or Tagged. Can’t remember.
  11. usualblue

    Sex on first date : the new norm?

    Yep, she did — several times — during our pre-date chats. And that’s happened to me since. I don’t see anything odd about it, especially if there are sexually charged conversations ahead of the first meeting.
  12. usualblue

    Sex on first date : the new norm?

    Reminds me of a first date a few years ago, after I started playing the field again. It happened to be on my birthday. The girl told me several times beforehand that we can’t have sex, and I didn’t really expect that on our first meeting. As dinner was winding down, she whispered into my ear...
  13. usualblue

    Got no principles?

    Then you just might be this woman’s perfect person ...
  14. usualblue

    Are all Japanese apartment so thinned walled

    One of my girlfriends lives in a shoebox apartment in Kawasaki and often complains about her female neighbor getting banged loudly at 2 a.m. on the other side of the wall. “She did it again last night! I couldn’t sleep! Sounded like a different man this time.” Of course, I loved hearing about...
  15. usualblue

    A question to those men who have no reason to use P4P...

    I can confirm this, and thank God they do ;-)
  16. usualblue

    Share *Creative* Ideas for Tokyo Dates

    I’ve taken a couple of Tokyo born and bred chicks to the Edo Museum. Neither had been before and it was a hit. And there is (or was) a cool sake vending machine near the station that I took both to after, before moving on to dinner and more interesting activities.
  17. usualblue

    Jan Jan - unexpected ending

    Same here. I’ve only been twice. My first visit was decent, but I swore the woman from my second was missing her front teeth. She wasn’t — they were just small and bent back toward the inside of her mouth ...
  18. usualblue

    A love story

    I literally did a spit-take when reading this reply! Just water, thankfully.
  19. usualblue

    A love story

    Recently met a cute 20-something Filipina on a dating site. We quickly moved things to Line, then met in person last weekend. Didn’t have much time, so we just sat in my car and talked. Things ended with some kissing and an energetic BJ in the backseat. We made plans to meet again the...
  20. usualblue

    Turned away from Hotel Claire

    Just an FYI that I was recently denied entry to Hotel Claire for not speaking Japanese. Except that I do speak Japanese — well enough, at least, to understand what the old woman was asking me and to respond accordingly. In the end, she offered a “gomenasai” and gestured toward the exit. I’d...