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Safe to visit?
there's gotta be something magical in seeing that I still have this account here on TAG and reading my posts in here from 4 years ago, when I was in Japan and asking advices on how to get laid. magical indeed makes me feel old though, but at the same time excited for the future e.g. living...- GreyHair
- Post #99
- Forum: General Topics - Life in Japan
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Osaka Area N-cats Pink salon in Kyoto Gion, foreigner friendly
anyone knows if this place is still open? I remember the 1st time I went when I was in Kyoto it took me like 1 hour to find it, I literally asked a middle-aged japanese guy "where is this pink salon" and he walked me there and ringed the door for me. (damn politeness in this country) also I'm...- GreyHair
- Post #27
- Forum: Osaka Service Reviews
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
that's a nice proverb. :p ahah, great comparison, yes. my thinking was "might as well try, even if she probably won't go for it". the other thing is that I'm leaving Japan soon so I might be able to see her for a 3rd date (assuming we keep seeing each other) at best. yeah that's why I had...- GreyHair
- Post #35
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
I've heard of guys experiencing a lot of flakiness here and I more or less got the same experience. is it really not that uncommon? I mean, I was in contact (using LINE, contacts from both apps like tinder and/or international parties or events) with Japanese girls, I'd chat for a while and then...- GreyHair
- Post #30
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
my bad too for misunderstanding. speaking of going to Sanjo, did you ever do that during a Sunday night or any other day besides Friday/Saturday? I'm not sure if it's worth checking out or if it's just gonna be a completely deserted place. -
Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
so I've been to a few clubs in Osaka last weekend, and to be honest I didn't like Sam & Dave at all; not sure if it got worse since you went there or if it's not my thing. basically on Saturday night at around 11-12 pm there weren't a lot of people, which was surprising, and the club itself is... -
Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
I'm planning on checking out those bars too, but as far as night clubs in Osaka go, does anyone have some recommendations? edit: I assumed Sam & Dave's is more of a bar than an actual night club? Otherwise, my bad. -
Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
hey, thanks for the tip! If I'm not going to Osaka I'll give that a try. I think someone here also mentioned that the area around Sanjo is where most girls looking to hook up with gaijins are? I'm not sure though. -
first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
I'd like to ask this: what are your best locations/moves to "force" some lips&tongue action? as I said, if streets are more or less empty it shouldn't be a problem, but I feel like a more private location like a karaoke boot would make the kissing happen more easily, since it's just the 2 of...- GreyHair
- Post #24
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
that's me right there, lol. I think I always ask for stuff like "what do you/where do you live/what do you like", and if she's isn't engaging in the conversation I also might just run out of arguments/questions. I do understand what you mean but the thing is that I don't really know what to... -
Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
thanks for the detailed reply, I'll try to follow your advices next time I go to a club. could you elaborate a bit more on the "spread energy part"? You mean just go dancing and such? also another thing: I've had a situation where I talk to a girl, she's engaging in the conversation a bit so... -
first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
alright, thanks y'all for the replies! for public intimacy such as kissing I'm thinking that if we're in Kyoto it won't be a problem late at night considering how most of the streets are pretty much empty.- GreyHair
- Post #20
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
also there's another thing, since I'm the foreigner here and some of them might live in the same city I'm staying at, it feels more natural to ask them to pick a nice place to go drink or eat or whatever. saying something like "since you know this city much much better than me, do you know any...- GreyHair
- Post #13
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
if there's no kissing though I'm guessing going towards a love hotel might be a bit too much-too soon / might scare her away?- GreyHair
- Post #5
- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
I saw what you typed before : P sadly I have no female friend who can help me like that. for the other thing, slowly going towards my apartment at the end of the date, I think it's kind of an issue. mainly because I'm living in a very small building with a lot of even smaller apartments in it...- GreyHair
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- Forum: Dating & Relationships
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first date with Japanese girl(s) advice
sorry in advance if I should have posted this in the NAMPA/PUA section, as I wasn't sure. I've been chatting with two girls from apps like bumble and tinder, got their LINE and managed to set a date for meeting. now as far as I know girls use those app mostly-only looking for sex, even though...- GreyHair
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Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
also I might have made it sound worse than how it actually was. thinking about it now - the number of girls I talked to were probably less than 10, and a couple clearly had no actual interest in hooking up (with anyone), or at least that's the impression I remember I had. regardless, I always... -
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Lol, again I'm not sure if I just got lucky those 2 times in Tokyo, or if the club I went to in Kyoto just isn't a great place for that sort of thing. or if I'm just not good-looking enough to be successful in clubs : P I honestly have no idea, the club isn't very big but there is more than... -
Kyoto clubbing experience + advice
* warning *, fairly long post. I've been to night clubs I think 4 or 5 times. when I was in Tokyo and did that I managed to hook up 2 times but I'm beginning to think I got more lucky than anything, you probably don't need any particularly good nampa skills to hook up in clubs but still. (also...