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    Why Japanese Gun Control Works And Why It Probably Won't For America

    I agree. I don't have a problem with the right to carry guns, but do have a problem with the American system. Gun safety training and background checks (crazy, drugs, or criminal) before getting a gun license looks to be a lot smarter. Gun stores that sell guns illegally should be closed down...
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    2f:1m 3some Setup

    We have to assume that the poster knows his girlfriend better than we or any of us does. As in there might be something about her that he is picking up on, where he can't make a direct request. With that stated, from my experiences and in swinger circles, Ww is mostly correct. You don't have...
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    Sexless Student

    Over the years of living in Japan, I've encountered similar type of situations many times. You won't be able to determine if she actually has any interest in you, unless you press forward and see. Debating it too much in your own head can be wasting time. Better to go find out more directly...
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    Sexless Student

    I've also met Western women with this problem. It can be related to them either being taller than 174 cm (5'8) or being too heavy/fat. The height problem being more that Asian guys appear to get more intimated by it, where the heavy/fat condition is considered unattractive. Outside of the...
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    Racial Preference In Dating & Sexual Partners

    The issue that I have with racial preferences are those people that try to impose and force their racist ideology and beliefs on others. For example, where a person is White, but doesn't think other Whites "should be allowed" to date, sex, or marry with other races. In addition, attempting to...
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    Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

    A lot of women will hide or lie about their true intentions in regards to sex because they fear being negatively judged by you or other people (sometimes being way too paranoid). Some women (and men) are also way too sexually repressed due to how they are raised, where sexuality or sexual...
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    Tinder : The Dating App (short Review)

    There is a NAMPA/PUA section here to get you up to speed and help out.
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    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    Even if you are a permanent resident, you must report in to immigration every 7 years. PR status can be revoked. If a person is PR and been in Japan for that long, it's debatable if they should have switched over to being a citizen. At least as a Japanese citizen, they could have applied for...
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    White Guy In Kabukicho - Homeless?

    White represents an ethnic group or racial classification too. It can be seen as another way to say Caucasian. It's not simply being used for color. Furthermore, Asians who want to be White or identify as White, aren't going to be accepted as such by most/many Whites. It's like a White...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    People can do horrible stuff in general, that's not specific to a gender. The concept of a heterosexual guy asking or wanting sex is "horrible", arguably comes from sexually repressed (often religious or traditional issues with sex in general) or man-hating feminist types. That a man they...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    Seems odd, because any character in a book or comic, can't make any actual sexual demands on women. They are fictional characters. Women choose to buy or read them. I don't see why women would be threatened by male heterosexual characters, because romance novels for examples, are vastly more...
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    Olive-21, Shinjuku Couple Kissa

    Seems like you should be posting that in the TAG Classified Ad section.
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    As a man who has been in a number of 3ps with 2 women, it's not an issue for heterosexual men, as no threat to his masculinity. I think most men, rightly or wrongly, via lesbian sex as lacking or just oral satisfaction. Meaning, men can think there is plenty of room to add penis. I think most...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    Clearly a lot of women have a curiosity about male gay sex. It's called fujoshi or kifujin in Japan, where such women read books and comics about gay love or go to gay clubs. It appears the attraction is partially rooted in seeing if they can seduce gay men to try women. It seems a bit...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    But if the 2 guys enjoy banging each other, then what do they need women for?
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    I know that situation. At the most unexpected moment, various sex-friends have asked me about my other relationships. When younger, I tried to be direct and honest about it, and a lot of women appeared to get jealous or give me problems. It was the selfish game of "she wants the privilege to...
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    Why Are You Not Having Sex With Men?

    I've seen this argument, put up by some homosexuals and it's commonly repeated somewhat in popular media, that same sex is "better" because they are more familiar with the "equipment". Sex doesn't work that way. A woman doesn't necessarily know how to please another woman better than a man or...
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    Visa / Job Status

    Arguably, they want to tax and have foreigners pay into their system, and avoid having foreigners take money out of the system, despite how long they have lived or worked here. The older Japanese generation needs the tax money for support.
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    From how it sounds, you have the advantage here, where she is admitting her desire for sex with you. Among my swinger pals, such relationships are an opportunity to have a fun, where you can do some experimenting and sexual fantasy play. You might want to see what are the possibilities with...
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    What Is The Difference Between Being In A Open Relationship And Having A Sex Friend?

    I can only juggle seeing 2 or 3. And 3 steady girlfriends can be really pushing it to the max (for a working guy, as it's different for women), in terms of attention, time, or money. Tends to cut into work or time for other interests. If the woman is bi-sexual and shares or into swinging...