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    Japanese Women & Close-minded Or Racist Interference

    Many Japanese women don't give international dating a try, due to very negative advice or stories told by cowardly, close-minded, or racist Japanese friends or associates who scare or intimidate them. NOT all Japanese are like that, but some are. For example, she tells her girlfriend of...
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    Dating Japanese Women & Problems

    This is a list of problems that come from experience and have come up in discussions over the years with guys in Japan who are attempting or are dealing with Japanese women. Feel free to add any truly relevant advice or comments. 1) Is The Japanese Woman Interested In You, Acting Fake, Or Just...
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    Flexibility, Sex, & Vaginal Orgasms

    I've noticed this very high correlation (over many years) between how flexible a woman is (particularly leg and hip), and enjoying vaginal sex. So much so, that I'm amazed there isn't more on this or it's overlooked. Usually, when I meet up with a woman that has issues about sex, they tend to...
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    Paying For Dinner Scam By Older Japanese Women

    This has happened to friends and myself a number of times, to the point that it looks to be a pattern. Wanted to warn other foreign guys about it, so they are more informed, and can better decide what to do about it. Now, before I continue, I want to make it clear that I have no problem paying...
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    Smell, Odor, & Deodorant In Japan

    This was an interesting debate recently among my friends where we were helping various guys new to Japan. One significant bit of advice, was not to wear or at least be very wary of heavy cologne, deodorant, or lotions. The reason for this is that many Japanese, unfamiliar with the smell of...
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    Taxes In Japan & Living Comfortably

    Over the years, I've had numerous discussions about taxes and cost of living with several other expats or newbies to Japan. I tell people that you can expect to pay 40% or more in taxes and pay deductions, and the consumption tax is another added 8% (soon to be 10%). Basically half your money...
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    Cross Season, Shinjuku Happening Bar

    Rating: 3 stars out of 5 Club is a bit borderline. Might be worth a look, for those swingers looking for or trying different places. Good points: 1) Lots of lingerie, costumes, and interesting toys. Has some unusual items not found at other happening bars. 2) Will allow foreigners But...
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    Japan's Sexual Failure

    It's been all over the international news that around 50% of Japanese don't have sex. Insane! http://www.thejournal.ie/japan-sex-problem-2194032-Jul2015/ http://edition.cnn.com/2015/06/24/asia/japan-middle-aged-virgins/ And there have been numerous reports over the years of Japanese...
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    Recognizing Japanese Who Are Passive-aggressive Or Racist

    This is from years of being in Japan and can help foreigners decipher odd Japanese behavior. In many cases, the foreigner will realize there is something going on, but not be sure what it is. Here is a list of common verbal and physical passive-aggressive or racist behaviors in Japan. Use it...
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    The Myth That Japanese Women Have Small Vaginas

    I don't know why this physiologically impossible myth and lie is continually perpetrated in Japan. It's among the most ridiculous bullshit ever, that is often mindlessly repeated by too many clueless Japanese women, like some kind of mantra or that Japanese are a separate species. 1) The...
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    Why Group Dates & Meeting Her Friends Could Be Bad

    This is often debated among PUAs, with people coming in on both sides. My addition to the debate is a perspective not often told, but best understood for those in Japan. 1) Don't get sidetracked from your objective Your goal is to meet her, NOT all of her friends. And if you never had sex...
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    Japanese Women That Behave Weirdly Or Panicky

    Many foreigners who are new to Japan will be perplexed by odd or weird Japanese behavior. They will then mistakenly miscategorize it as cultural, when it's can be a bit deeper, and actually a mental disorder or various types of extreme anxiety problems. 1) Interpersonal Anxiety Disorder In...
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    Japanese Women And Cultural Secrets

    Had a discussion with some pals about things Japanese women do. It comes from years of experience being here and is something guys new to Japan might not know or would usually have to learn the hard way. One interesting topic was- "How do you know if you are really A Japanese woman's...
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    Erection Helpers & Performance Anxiety

    I got the idea to do this based on injp's mentioning it in his thread and thought it would be good to discuss this further. It's something that a lot of guys are too ashamed to discuss or avoid the subject. But what the hell, let's do it. First, I'm not an advocate of prescription drugs...
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    Retreat, Shinjuku Happening Bar

    Rating: 3 stars out of 5 On the fence about this bar, and if should give a lower rating. Very borderline, but has to do more with their staff, as the design of the bar is good. Might be worth a look, for those swingers looking for or trying different places. Good points: 1) Nice interior...
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    Has Anyone Been To Cross Season 2, Happening Bar?

    http://cross-season.com/top.html This is another Happening Bar in Shinjuku Kabukicho, but oddly little is heard about. Anybody gone there and checked it out?
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    Where Is The Best Place To Pickup Women?

    Short answer, almost anywhere. But you may still may want more specifics. I will give you what few other PUAs will, who can have guys running around the street chasing women down like a crazed cheetah. The "trick" is you can also approach women that are loitering around an area slowly...
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    Date Cafes, Speed Dating, & International Parties

    Alternative ways to understanding the basics of PUA. This can be especially useful for punters or newbies to Japan, who are not clear about how to pickup Japanese women or cultural differences on how to go about it. Date Cafes (also called Deai Cafes) http://www.deai-cafe.net/tokyo/...
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    Wingman For Picking Up Women

    Wingman & PUA Do you need a wingman? Absolutely not. You can have no problem picking up women without them. A wingman is of nearly no use in online dating. Online dating or answering personal ads are a 1 to 1 situation. Wingmen can also interfere in pickup situations such as street, train, or...
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    Mastering Time On Dates & Momentum

    This can make the difference between having sex or not on a date. Guys often fail to score on dates, because they run out of time. They fail to make any moves or were too SLOW in making moves, she leaves, and the chance is gone forever. Many simply don't understand the importance of going for...