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    Meditating about my relationship

    The only good post in this topic. You hit the nail on the head. Cherish the good moments, wish her the best and move on with your life.
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    Need some advice regarding relationship with japanese girl\woman

    No offense, but your verbose writing style suggests you're either a virgin or a soy boy. Probably both. I didn't read that wall of text but if you didn't f*ck a woman after date #3 it will probably never happen.
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    Do Japanese carriers charge you for making overseas collect calls?

    I rarely make phonecalls unless it’s for business. Keeping in touch with older relatives is why I still have a FaceBook account. For everything else there is LINE and WhatsApp.
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    Where are the TAG gaijin going to retire?

    Can you retire in Japan with 1250 euro a month? (160,000 jpy) If I don't pass away I will retire at 19-03-2055
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    Unbelievably high

    I use to fly them all the time in Red Alert 2
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    A question to those men who have no reason to use P4P...

    P4P for my tentacle fetish and the doctor & nurse roleplaying. Online dating for everything else.
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    Foreigner had his bank account closed for not paying national insurance?

    Lol I knew someone was going to quote that line. I thought it would be Mike but I guess you beat him to it
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    Foreigner had his bank account closed for not paying national insurance?

    If you don't pay, they can slap a lien on your bank account and take any funds incoming until the debt is paid. They can also send collection agents around to your home to seize your personal property to resell to apply to the debt. I know a couple of people that had this happen. Worst case...
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Yeah exactly. In those situations I feel like a tape recorder.
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Because I'm either an idiot or autistic. Probably both :eek:
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Ok I hereby summon @majimekun
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    I find it hard to put a number on it. but it's atleast 25% and especially the beginning of conversations. They all follow a predictable pattern and I lose interest. As I previously mentioned maybe this is due to dating too much and I became a frustrated serial dater or I've been here too long...
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    They probably would take that as a serious answer. I used to goof around a lot and they took everything serious. Even the 'Ore Ore phone scams' answer when they asked me my profession. Delivery is key but idk man don't see that one working. I also don't wanna be seen as a weirdo. I like to think...
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Good point. I'm taking the questions too serious. This forum is very therapeutic. Consider me surprised. Still I don't know how would I dodge question 1 and 2 though. It's the frustration of hearing it too many times wich puts me off. Anyone else feel the same way? Is this a sign I'm a...
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Intimate. Not necessarily sex, but yeah usually sex. In my case it is the other way around. When using casual japanese or slang it usually turns into a tatemae routine. It takes two to tango so it's probably 50% my fault (maybe I'm asking the wrong questions) but I always try to avoid simple...
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    How do you answer/avoid the most dreaded questions?

    Ok so you're dating and/or meeting new people and these questions almost always come up. I find these questions to be soul-draining and they suck all the fun out of a conversation. 1: "Why did you come to Japan?" If you're not an english teacher you could casually say "My company transferred...
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    Any good online English teaching companies to work with?

    Sounds like you're working for GABA. Yeah I really don't get that. I like to watch Boruto on a rainy sunday (I've watched the original Naruto since 2002 so I have an excuse lol) But I just keep that to myself. Some people need to learn some tact especially when your paycheck depends on it.