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One of my long time clients recently expressed his love for me and that he wanted me to have his child.
I'm not sure whether I should take him seriously but I told him that I had no interest in pursuing a serious relationship. I decided to continue meeting him but I am very uncomfortable during his "I Love you" remarks and becoming very paranoid during sex. Should I cut him off or continue meeting him? Has anyone ever had a situation where someone they really enjoyed meeting fell in love with them but the feeling was not mutual?​
 
How badly do you need the $$$ ? :D
If you continue to see him,
birth control is likely a good idea (if you're not already on it).
Anyway,
this is probably a very normal thing for escorts to experience.
maybe a sign you're doing something right?
lol.
I'm sure the ladies here have had similar annoyances and can give better advice.

-jhingy567​
 
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SashaSin said:
Has anyone ever had a situation where someone they really enjoyed meeting fell in love with them but the feeling was not mutual?​
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My wife fell in love with me but the feeling wasn't mutual :ROFLMAO:

I think you should be cautious around him. When a man falls in love (or thinks he's in love), he starts acting funny and does weird shit.

Maybe this dude will come back to his senses, maybe he won't. If things can be kept professional, no need to lose income but I think only you can judge whether or not that's going to be the case here.
 
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jhingy567 said:
this is probably a very normal thing for escorts to experience.
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I think so. I had some guys tell me they wanted to marry me, but i could usually shrug it off. But this one guy said it really seriously and a bit sad and it creeped me out to be honest...
So what i did is that i stopped seeing him for a while and i think he got the hint. Then after a few months we mer again and he didn't say anything abnormal anymore. Best to let it cool down a bit, i think.

Guys can get hyped up at first but they usually regain their cool pretty quickly. Just dont indulge in their fantasies, but since you made it clear that that was not gonna happen, i think you will be fine unless he is really crazy.
 
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Speaking from a guy's perspective, if you continue seeing him and giving him false hope, he might escalate things to the point where you get hurt.

I would either have a serious talk with him about his feelings for you and if he can accept never having you in that way. Or, if that's too personal, cut him off because he's becoming a greater risk.
 
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MikeH said:
But you are just starting, I'm sure you'll get there! But remember to charge extra for that!
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Actually, I've been an escort for a couple years now but I haven't had a client fall in love. But sure Mike you're right, if he wants a baby I should charge him more lol​
 
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I think so. I had some guys tell me they wanted to marry me, but i could usually shrug it off. But this one guy said it really seriously and a bit sad and it creeped me out to be honest...
So what i did is that i stopped seeing him for a while and i think he got the hint. Then after a few months we mer again and he didn't say anything abnormal anymore. Best to let it cool down a bit, i think.

Guys can get hyped up at first but they usually regain their cool pretty quickly. Just dont indulge in their fantasies, but since you made it clear that that was not gonna happen, i think you will be fine unless he is really crazy.​
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Great advice Alice. Yea we've been spending much more time together than usual :cautious: - I think it's time to change the pace. I'll give it a go and see what happens. Thank you(y)​
 
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Lukes said:
My wife fell in love with me but the feeling wasn't mutual :ROFLMAO:

I think you should be cautious around him. When a man falls in love (or thinks he's in love), he starts acting funny and does weird shit.

Maybe this dude will come back to his senses, maybe he won't. If things can be kept professional, no need to lose income but I think only you can judge whether or not that's going to be the case here.
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Haha and you married her anyway????
Yes I definitely have been much more cautious. He's recently joked about trying to get me pregnant as well and comments on how I would be a great mother.
I also don't want to have a stalker. He hasn't been unprofessional but has made very passive aggressive comments. I'll have a serious talk with him and create some distance like Alice suggested. Thanks for the reply.​
 
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Frenchy said:
I'm so jealous
None of my clients so far wanted me to father their child :D
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Frenchy its because you are probably a hot, sexy love machine and they all know better than to try to put a ring on it. haha:sneaky:
 
RIDER 00 said:
Speaking from a guy's perspective, if you continue seeing him and giving him false hope, he might escalate things to the point where you get hurt.

I would either have a serious talk with him about his feelings for you and if he can accept never having you in that way. Or, if that's too personal, cut him off because he's becoming a greater risk.
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Wow, I've never knew of Japanese men being aggressive. Thanks I'll take precaution. (y)
 
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Haha and you married her anyway????
Yes I definitely have been much more cautious. He's recently joked about trying to get me pregnant as well and comments on how I would be a great mother.
I also don't want to have a stalker. He hasn't been unprofessional but has made very passive aggressive comments. I'll have a serious talk with him and create some distance like Alice suggested. Thanks for the reply.​
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I'm just teasing. I was into her but not as much as she was into me. She chased me down and fucked my brains out and then I was hers for life, lol. Probably shouldn't have married her (for many reasons) but whatever. Water under the bridge.

As for your situation, if he's joking like that - he's being very uncool. That's conduct unbecoming a gentleman. A provider once told me about how a dude tried to pull a fast one by ripping off the condom during sex. A talk (a nice but firm one) is probably an order.
 
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Frenchy its because you are probably a hot, sexy love machine and they all know better than to try to put a ring on it. haha:sneaky:
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Yeah, that's totally me, you nailed it ! :ROFLMAO:

But you know it's possible to have babies without getting married right ?
 
Oouuh nice move ... what’s your wife’s contact I might have to ask her for a few tricks?

Yea I’ve heard of “stealthing” and honestly it makes me very paranoid especially when doing doggystyle with anyone. That’s why I make sure to massage the balls and prostate when I’m doing doggystyle so that I can feel the placement of the condom and of course for pleasure :)
 
User#8628 said:
Guys can get hyped up at first but they usually regain their cool pretty quickly.
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I am not certain but I can also not deny it with confidence that last week I first proposed a girl during our play session and when it got even better I might have strongly suggested we make some small people right there and right now. :eek::p

But then again it was the best session of this year so she literally fucked my brains out. :ROFLMAO: To prove it was real love I then proceeded to have sex with three other girls in the next 24 hours (and total of five in 48h) and with them I can honestly say I did not propose a single one. :love:
 
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SashaSin said:
Oouuh nice move ... what’s your wife’s contact I might have to ask her for a few tricks?

Yea I’ve heard of “stealthing” and honestly it makes me very paranoid especially when doing doggystyle with anyone. That’s why I make sure to massage the balls and prostate when I’m doing doggystyle so that I can feel the placement of the condom and of course for pleasure :)
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She's a little bit crazy so I wouldn't recommend talking to her :ROFLMAO:

Anyways yes, stealthing I guess it's called. Many providers I've been with take the precautions you mentioned. I didn't understand it until later.
 
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Lukes said:
She's a little bit crazy so I wouldn't recommend talking to her :ROFLMAO:
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So just give her contact info to me then. After your description I am sure I'll be all content with minimal talking too. :p
 
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SashaSin said:
One of my long time clients recently expressed his love for me and that he wanted me to have his child.
I'm not sure whether I should take him seriously but I told him that I had no interest in pursuing a serious relationship. I decided to continue meeting him but I am very uncomfortable during his "I Love you" remarks and becoming very paranoid during sex. Should I cut him off or continue meeting him? Has anyone ever had a situation where someone they really enjoyed meeting fell in love with them but the feeling was not mutual?​
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Don't escort-zoning your client. It's like friend-zoning someone. We men sometimes can be weird when we fall in love.
For me it's either no or yes, not let's keep on meeting but I am not loving you.
 
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tuljaenak said:
Don't escort-zoning your client. It's like friend-zoning someone. We men sometimes can be weird when we fall in love.
For me it's either no or yes, not let's keep on meeting but I am not loving you.
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I think he "escort zoned" himself by hiring her and keeping seeing her while she told him that the rules of the game have not changed for her although he wants more of her.

Also the "friend zone" doesn't exist.
You are not "friendzoned" if you want to bang your friends but they are interested in "only" friendship with you. The problem is with the person who decides they want more in the first place and they should take steps to distance themselves if they cant handle their feelings, although it's understandable that the other party would also distance themselves for their own safety.
 
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